Ladies what will you do if u were in this

Date: 18-10-2010 9:40 am (14 years ago) | Author: Blessing Edet
[1] 2 3 4 ... 15
- at 18-10-2010 09:40 AM (14 years ago)
(f)
They have been dating for more than 16 months and then
He took her to the movies and asked her to pay for her entrance ticket
and cold drink for herself and even transport herself down home

What is really happening? where is the love and care professed by guys
where is d shield a guy is suppose to provide for his girl

Posted: at 18-10-2010 09:40 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
- sophiebaby at 18-10-2010 09:43 AM (14 years ago)
(f)
I dont see anything wrong with that
Posted: at 18-10-2010 09:43 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Reply
- onyiis at 18-10-2010 09:45 AM (14 years ago)
(f)
Did he tell her abaut the payment arrangement when he was inviting her or just told her to pay for herself on the venue ?
Posted: at 18-10-2010 09:45 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
Reply
- sophiebaby at 18-10-2010 09:49 AM (14 years ago)
(f)
Isn't she an Independent Woman?
if she is.. she shouldnt ask y.. but rada pay the bills
Posted: at 18-10-2010 09:49 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Reply
- tessybj at 18-10-2010 09:51 AM (14 years ago)
(f)
it depend on wht they agreed on before going for the movies.
Posted: at 18-10-2010 09:51 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
Reply
- onyiis at 18-10-2010 09:52 AM (14 years ago)
(f)
But normally who invited the other to a movie etc should foot the bills except when it is agreed from the onset how the bills will be settled
Posted: at 18-10-2010 09:52 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
Reply
- blessedme at 18-10-2010 10:01 AM (14 years ago)
(f)
Quote from: onyiis on 18-10-2010 09:45 AM
Did he tell her abaut the payment arrangement when he was inviting her or just told her to pay for herself on the venue ?
she was very surprise when d guy brought out huge of money
and paid for his ticket and then asked her to pay for her own and
also get a drink for herself as well
Posted: at 18-10-2010 10:01 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
Reply
- onyiis at 18-10-2010 10:04 AM (14 years ago)
(f)
Quote from: blessedme on 18-10-2010 10:01 AM
Quote from: onyiis on 18-10-2010 09:45 AM
Did he tell her abaut the payment arrangement when he was inviting her or just told her to pay for herself on the venue ?
she was very surprise when d guy brought out huge of money
and paid for his ticket and then asked her to pay for her own and
also get a drink for herself as well

i feel the guy is trying to be arrogant in this situation
Posted: at 18-10-2010 10:04 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
Reply
- blessedme at 18-10-2010 10:05 AM (14 years ago)
(f)
Quote from: sophiebaby on 18-10-2010 09:49 AM
Isn't she an Independent Woman?
if she is.. she shouldnt ask y.. but rada pay the bills
sophie paying her bills is no problem
but not on that act, there is suppose to an agreement lane btw d two of them
wat if the girl wasnt interested in watching movie
u dont just pick up someone and engage her in some unnecessary expenses
Posted: at 18-10-2010 10:05 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
Reply
- sophiebaby at 18-10-2010 10:07 AM (14 years ago)
(f)
Quote from: onyiis on 18-10-2010 09:52 AM
But normally who invited the other to a movie etc should foot the bills except when it is agreed from the onset how the bills will be settled

yeah. but... the lady can also foot the bills, knowing fully well that u' were invited.
make him know he's also special too Wink Wink
Posted: at 18-10-2010 10:07 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Reply
- sophiebaby at 18-10-2010 10:09 AM (14 years ago)
(f)
Quote from: onyiis on 18-10-2010 10:04 AM
Quote from: blessedme on 18-10-2010 10:01 AM
Quote from: onyiis on 18-10-2010 09:45 AM
Did he tell her abaut the payment arrangement when he was inviting her or just told her to pay for herself on the venue ?
she was very surprise when d guy brought out huge of money
and paid for his ticket and then asked her to pay for her own and
also get a drink for herself as well

i feel the guy is trying to be arrogant in this situation

i dont think so
Posted: at 18-10-2010 10:09 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Reply
- sophiebaby at 18-10-2010 10:15 AM (14 years ago)
(f)
Quote from: blessedme on 18-10-2010 10:05 AM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 18-10-2010 09:49 AM
Isn't she an Independent Woman?
if she is.. she shouldnt ask y.. but rada pay the bills
sophie paying her bills is no problem
but not on that act, there is suppose to an agreement lane btw d two of them
wat if the girl wasnt interested in watching movie
u dont just pick up someone and engage her in some unnecessary expenses


must an agreement be made on who pays the bills when going out with ur man?

as a lady u musn't go out with an empty purse either on a date nor with ya b.f
put some cash in that purse
Posted: at 18-10-2010 10:15 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Reply
- Teeteeylaryor at 18-10-2010 10:22 AM (14 years ago)
(f)
Quote from: sophiebaby on 18-10-2010 10:15 AM
Quote from: blessedme on 18-10-2010 10:05 AM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 18-10-2010 09:49 AM
Isn't she an Independent Woman?
if she is.. she shouldnt ask y.. but rada pay the bills
sophie paying her bills is no problem
but not on that act, there is suppose to an agreement lane btw d two of them
wat if the girl wasnt interested in watching movie
u dont just pick up someone and engage her in some unnecessary expenses


must an agreement be made on who pays the bills when going out with ur man?

as a lady u musn't go out with an empty purse either on a date nor with ya b.f
put some cash in that purse

true talk ......some guys are so desperate and greedy.......
but gals always top ur purse neva depend on the guy to pay all
Posted: at 18-10-2010 10:22 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Reply
- xter at 18-10-2010 10:26 AM (14 years ago)
(m)
Naija mentality! Must d guy always pay?
Posted: at 18-10-2010 10:26 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Reply
- blessedme at 18-10-2010 10:35 AM (14 years ago)
(f)
i still disagree wif u
everything has to reach a mutual agreement girl
if u want to give ya guy a good treat from ya purse, fine!

sure! as a lady u dont ve to go out wif an empty purse
but to some extent and beside no lady goes out wit a guy
and ve the mindset of footing the bills except proven otherwise

and beside for 16months that was their first outing
and she equally went wif cash but marvelled at what d guy did

imagine u and ya guy at d counter to buy ticket and he brought out some huge amount of money
paid for his ticket and tuck d rest of d cash back to his pocket and then ask u to pay for your own and get yaself a drink
Posted: at 18-10-2010 10:35 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
Reply
- onyiis at 18-10-2010 10:38 AM (14 years ago)
(f)
Quote from: sophiebaby on 18-10-2010 10:07 AM
Quote from: onyiis on 18-10-2010 09:52 AM
But normally who invited the other to a movie etc should foot the bills except when it is agreed from the onset how the bills will be settled

yeah. but... the lady can also foot the bills, knowing fully well that u' were invited.
make him know he's also special too Wink Wink

If i want to make him special , i will invite him and foot his bills not him inviting me and without prio discussions and expect me to foot my bills while he pays for his alone.......................love doesnt work that way
Posted: at 18-10-2010 10:38 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
Reply
- blessedme at 18-10-2010 10:38 AM (14 years ago)
(f)
Quote from: Teeteeylaryor on 18-10-2010 10:22 AM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 18-10-2010 10:15 AM
Quote from: blessedme on 18-10-2010 10:05 AM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 18-10-2010 09:49 AM
Isn't she an Independent Woman?
if she is.. she shouldnt ask y.. but rada pay the bills
sophie paying her bills is no problem
but not on that act, there is suppose to an agreement lane btw d two of them
wat if the girl wasnt interested in watching movie
u dont just pick up someone and engage her in some unnecessary expenses


must an agreement be made on who pays the bills when going out with ur man?

as a lady u musn't go out with an empty purse either on a date nor with ya b.f
put some cash in that purse

true talk ......some guys are so desperate and greedy.......
but gals always top ur purse neva depend on the guy to pay all
true talk but d guy didnt do well at all
atleast he shold ve inform d girl 1st
Posted: at 18-10-2010 10:38 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
Reply
- blessedme at 18-10-2010 10:40 AM (14 years ago)
(f)
onyiis thank you
you got ma point very well
Posted: at 18-10-2010 10:40 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
Reply
- sophiebaby at 18-10-2010 10:41 AM (14 years ago)
(f)
Quote from: Teeteeylaryor on 18-10-2010 10:22 AM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 18-10-2010 10:15 AM
Quote from: blessedme on 18-10-2010 10:05 AM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 18-10-2010 09:49 AM
Isn't she an Independent Woman?
if she is.. she shouldnt ask y.. but rada pay the bills
sophie paying her bills is no problem
but not on that act, there is suppose to an agreement lane btw d two of them
wat if the girl wasnt interested in watching movie
u dont just pick up someone and engage her in some unnecessary expenses


must an agreement be made on who pays the bills when going out with ur man?

as a lady u musn't go out with an empty purse either on a date nor with ya b.f
put some cash in that purse

true talk ......some guys are so desperate and greedy.......
but gals always top ur purse neva depend on the guy to pay all

teety..u see, some gals make dis mistake
Posted: at 18-10-2010 10:41 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Reply
- onyiis at 18-10-2010 10:43 AM (14 years ago)
(f)
Quote from: xter on 18-10-2010 10:26 AM
Naija mentality! Must d guy always pay?

A guy must not pay always but there are things that are not "funny suprises " u know  Grin Grin Grin
Posted: at 18-10-2010 10:43 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
Reply
[1] 2 3 4 ... 15
ReplyFollow

Login To Post Reply

fire TRENDING GISTS fire

THIS WEEK

  1. 18Yr Old Boy Impregnates 10 Girls, Including His Boss' Daughter After He Was Sent To Learn A

  2. "Many Have Suffered From Stroke" -Pastor Oyakhilome’s Sermon On Salt Sparks Heated Debate (Vid)

  3. VDM And I Are Officially Married - Actress Sarah Martins Drops Bombshell

  4. LA HOTTIE! Davido’s Wife, Chioma Adeleke, Flaunts Her Hot Bod In Lovely New Photos

  5. "Why I Would Choose Davido Over Burnaboy, Wizkid" – Singer, Zinoleesky

  6. 'Some Men Are Praying For Their Wives To Die So They Can Marry Another' -Nigerian Man Blows Hot

  7. Nollywood Star, Uche Ogbodo Undergoes 'BBL & Tummy Tuck'; Shares Recovery Journey (Video)

  8. I’m Married To Jesus — Pretty Reverend Sister Tells Asaba Boys Asking For Her Number (VID)

  9. What God Said I Should Tell You..- Female Bishop Sends Warning to Gospel Singer Mercy Chinwo

  10. Kunle Remi Reacts To Trending Video Showing The Toilet In A ‘Luxury Apartment’ In Lekki, Lagos

TOP MEMBERS:
  • gogoman 464
  • fineboy77 382
  • felicilin 215
  • bohlah 149
  • kacylee 112
Read More

Featured Discussions

Read More