Ladies what will you do if u were in this (Page 13)

Date: 18-10-2010 9:40 am (14 years ago) | Author: Blessing Edet
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- typicalman84 at 20-10-2010 12:18 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: blessedme on 20-10-2010 11:04 AM
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Only Africans still have this mentality of If someone invites you to somewhere, they should automatically foot your BILL. We are in the 21st century people.
if u are not from Africa pls dnt say a thing
cos african mentality will never be rule away by the western mentality

i hate it when peeps say african mentality!!!
every state, country, globes, continents have thier own mentality
and they are all living by thier own mentality
y dont we live by our own mentality and practice our culture and make it better if we want
rather than trying to adopt some other mentality
You cannot choose what you want to be enslaved in the mentality and when it comes to other things that will benefit you, you cry uncivilized. How about this.. The african mentality is that the women should be very submissive to their husbands and also clean the house, cook for and serve their husbands. Take care of the kids, wash the dishes and is inferior to the man. So are you cool with this?


The African culture did not see women as beeing inferior rather as "the weaker sex " that need to be nutured and cared for . Our fore fathers "curted and cherished" our mothers but those things the present day guys seems to forget
No actually they are inferior to the man... If not why would a man give the woman a command and she quickly does what she is asked to do... If that is not inferiority, I don't know what is.

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- typicalman84 at 20-10-2010 12:21 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:06 PM
let me also clarify that a man paying for the woman's movie ticket is not part of the African Culture.

[b]Mind you that "going to see a movie with a lady" is not an african culture[/b] .So if u want to borrow another man's culture then do it to the full .

Where going to see a movie with a woman is a culture ,The person that sends out the invitation pays the bills

No... So if it is not an african culture, why would she expect the man to pay. Your last statement is inaccurate. What culture is that you speak of because over here in the states, everyone foot their movie ticket bills.. man or woman.

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- onyiis at 20-10-2010 12:21 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:18 PM
Quote from: onyiis on 20-10-2010 12:12 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:05 PM
Quote from: blessedme on 20-10-2010 11:04 AM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:46 AM
Only Africans still have this mentality of If someone invites you to somewhere, they should automatically foot your BILL. We are in the 21st century people.
if u are not from Africa pls dnt say a thing
cos african mentality will never be rule away by the western mentality

i hate it when peeps say african mentality!!!
every state, country, globes, continents have thier own mentality
and they are all living by thier own mentality
y dont we live by our own mentality and practice our culture and make it better if we want
rather than trying to adopt some other mentality
You cannot choose what you want to be enslaved in the mentality and when it comes to other things that will benefit you, you cry uncivilized. How about this.. The african mentality is that the women should be very submissive to their husbands and also clean the house, cook for and serve their husbands. Take care of the kids, wash the dishes and is inferior to the man. So are you cool with this?


The African culture did not see women as beeing inferior rather as "the weaker sex " that need to be nutured and cared for . Our fore fathers "curted and cherished" our mothers but those things the present day guys seems to forget
No actually they are inferior to the man... If not why would a man give the woman a command and she quickly does what she is asked to do... If that is not inferiority, I don't know what is.


That is not inferiority at all !!! That is respect and obidience............the Bible and african tradition requires that from a woman

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- typicalman84 at 20-10-2010 12:24 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: onyiis on 20-10-2010 12:21 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:18 PM
Quote from: onyiis on 20-10-2010 12:12 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:05 PM
Quote from: blessedme on 20-10-2010 11:04 AM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:46 AM
Only Africans still have this mentality of If someone invites you to somewhere, they should automatically foot your BILL. We are in the 21st century people.
if u are not from Africa pls dnt say a thing
cos african mentality will never be rule away by the western mentality

i hate it when peeps say african mentality!!!
every state, country, globes, continents have thier own mentality
and they are all living by thier own mentality
y dont we live by our own mentality and practice our culture and make it better if we want
rather than trying to adopt some other mentality
You cannot choose what you want to be enslaved in the mentality and when it comes to other things that will benefit you, you cry uncivilized. How about this.. The african mentality is that the women should be very submissive to their husbands and also clean the house, cook for and serve their husbands. Take care of the kids, wash the dishes and is inferior to the man. So are you cool with this?


The African culture did not see women as beeing inferior rather as "the weaker sex " that need to be nutured and cared for . Our fore fathers "curted and cherished" our mothers but those things the present day guys seems to forget
No actually they are inferior to the man... If not why would a man give the woman a command and she quickly does what she is asked to do... If that is not inferiority, I don't know what is.


That is not inferiority at all !!! That is respect and obidience............the Bible and african tradition requires that from a woman
LOL... If the woman is lower in rank with respect to the order of power in a family, then that is called Inferiority... Please do not make the word inferior sound so bad. it's just simple English.

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- onyiis at 20-10-2010 12:25 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:21 PM
Quote from: onyiis on 20-10-2010 12:14 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:06 PM
let me also clarify that a man paying for the woman's movie ticket is not part of the African Culture.

[b]Mind you that "going to see a movie with a lady" is not an african culture[/b] .So if u want to borrow another man's culture then do it to the full .

Where going to see a movie with a woman is a culture ,The person that sends out the invitation pays the bills

No... So if it is not an african culture, why would she expect the man to pay. Your last statement is inaccurate. What culture is that you speak of because over here in the states, everyone foot their movie ticket bills.. man or woman.

Where i am , it is the same culture , anybody can foot the bills depending on a mutual agreement . mind you this is a case of "two love birds"
Like i said the norm is the he who invited the other should pay the bills and if he is not in a situation to do that financially ,he should tell the other before hand anaut it and not "standing her " at the counter to pay her bills

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- blessedme at 20-10-2010 12:26 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:05 PM
Quote from: blessedme on 20-10-2010 11:04 AM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:46 AM
Only Africans still have this mentality of If someone invites you to somewhere, they should automatically foot your BILL. We are in the 21st century people.
if u are not from Africa pls dnt say a thing
cos african mentality will never be rule away by the western mentality

i hate it when peeps say african mentality!!!
every state, country, globes, continents have thier own mentality
and they are all living by thier own mentality
y dont we live by our own mentality and practice our culture and make it better if we want
rather than trying to adopt some other mentality
You cannot choose what you want to be enslaved in the mentality and when it comes to other things that will benefit you, you cry uncivilized. How about this.. The african mentality is that the women should be very submissive to their husbands and also clean the house, cook for and serve their husbands. Take care of the kids, wash the dishes and is inferior to the man. So are you cool with this?
yes that is what the african mentality says and that is what a woman should do to keep her home
even d bible say wife sumit unto ya husband.

lemme tell u that aside from d normal celebrations, marriage is an individual thing
u as the man can decide to run ya home which ever way it will benefit you provided ya wife understand
it is every man's culture and colour that makes us diff from others
so pls stop d critism
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- typicalman84 at 20-10-2010 12:27 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: onyiis on 20-10-2010 12:25 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:21 PM
Quote from: onyiis on 20-10-2010 12:14 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:06 PM
let me also clarify that a man paying for the woman's movie ticket is not part of the African Culture.

[b]Mind you that "going to see a movie with a lady" is not an african culture[/b] .So if u want to borrow another man's culture then do it to the full .

Where going to see a movie with a woman is a culture ,The person that sends out the invitation pays the bills

No... So if it is not an african culture, why would she expect the man to pay. Your last statement is inaccurate. What culture is that you speak of because over here in the states, everyone foot their movie ticket bills.. man or woman.

Where i am , it is the same culture , anybody can foot the bills depending on a mutual agreement . mind you this is a case of "two love birds"
Like i said the norm is the he who invited the other should pay the bills and if he is not in a situation to do that financially ,he should tell the other before hand anaut it and not "standing her " at the counter to pay her bills
Gbam... that was what I said... and then i said it is not the responsibility of the man to pay for the movie ticket for the woman. the poster is under the impression that when a man and a woman goes to a movie theater, the man should foot the bill because he is a man.

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- onyiis at 20-10-2010 12:29 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:24 PM
Quote from: onyiis on 20-10-2010 12:21 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:18 PM
Quote from: onyiis on 20-10-2010 12:12 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:05 PM
Quote from: blessedme on 20-10-2010 11:04 AM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:46 AM
Only Africans still have this mentality of If someone invites you to somewhere, they should automatically foot your BILL. We are in the 21st century people.
if u are not from Africa pls dnt say a thing
cos african mentality will never be rule away by the western mentality

i hate it when peeps say african mentality!!!
every state, country, globes, continents have thier own mentality
and they are all living by thier own mentality
y dont we live by our own mentality and practice our culture and make it better if we want
rather than trying to adopt some other mentality
You cannot choose what you want to be enslaved in the mentality and when it comes to other things that will benefit you, you cry uncivilized. How about this.. The african mentality is that the women should be very submissive to their husbands and also clean the house, cook for and serve their husbands. Take care of the kids, wash the dishes and is inferior to the man. So are you cool with this?


The African culture did not see women as beeing inferior rather as "the weaker sex " that need to be nutured and cared for . Our fore fathers "curted and cherished" our mothers but those things the present day guys seems to forget
No actually they are inferior to the man... If not why would a man give the woman a command and she quickly does what she is asked to do... If that is not inferiority, I don't know what is.


That is not inferiority at all !!! That is respect and obidience............the Bible and african tradition requires that from a woman
LOL... If the woman is lower in rank with respect to the order of power in a family, then that is called Inferiority... Please do not make the word inferior sound so bad. it's just simple English.


I dont know if u really knows the meanining of "inferior" ................beeing of lesser quality !!!

That does not in any way apply to the situation at hand because if the guy thought that the lady was inferior ,then he would have paid the billls without asking her since she is inferior to him .

The guys action just potrayed that "the lady is equal to him" Though he did it in a very wrong manner

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- typicalman84 at 20-10-2010 12:30 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: blessedme on 20-10-2010 12:26 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:05 PM
Quote from: blessedme on 20-10-2010 11:04 AM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:46 AM
Only Africans still have this mentality of If someone invites you to somewhere, they should automatically foot your BILL. We are in the 21st century people.
if u are not from Africa pls dnt say a thing
cos african mentality will never be rule away by the western mentality

i hate it when peeps say african mentality!!!
every state, country, globes, continents have thier own mentality
and they are all living by thier own mentality
y dont we live by our own mentality and practice our culture and make it better if we want
rather than trying to adopt some other mentality
You cannot choose what you want to be enslaved in the mentality and when it comes to other things that will benefit you, you cry uncivilized. How about this.. The african mentality is that the women should be very submissive to their husbands and also clean the house, cook for and serve their husbands. Take care of the kids, wash the dishes and is inferior to the man. So are you cool with this?
yes that is what the african mentality says and that is what a woman should do to keep her home
even d bible say wife sumit unto ya husband.

lemme tell u that aside from d normal celebrations, marriage is an individual thing
u as the man can decide to run ya home which ever way it will benefit you provided ya wife understand
it is every man's culture and colour that makes us diff from others
so pls stop d critism
We are not talking about the bible here. we are talking about tradition and tradition says.. the man is the man and will always be the man. There is no...if a man chooses to run his home.... Isn't it the western culture that brought christianity into africa anywayz.. so what is your point here?

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- onyiis at 20-10-2010 12:31 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:27 PM
Quote from: onyiis on 20-10-2010 12:25 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:21 PM
Quote from: onyiis on 20-10-2010 12:14 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:06 PM
let me also clarify that a man paying for the woman's movie ticket is not part of the African Culture.

[b]Mind you that "going to see a movie with a lady" is not an african culture[/b] .So if u want to borrow another man's culture then do it to the full .

Where going to see a movie with a woman is a culture ,The person that sends out the invitation pays the bills

No... So if it is not an african culture, why would she expect the man to pay. Your last statement is inaccurate. What culture is that you speak of because over here in the states, everyone foot their movie ticket bills.. man or woman.

Where i am , it is the same culture , anybody can foot the bills depending on a mutual agreement . mind you this is a case of "two love birds"
Like i said the norm is the he who invited the other should pay the bills and if he is not in a situation to do that financially ,he should tell the other before hand anaut it and not "standing her " at the counter to pay her bills
Gbam... that was what I said... and then i said it is not the responsibility of the man to pay for the movie ticket for the woman. the poster is under the impression that when a man and a woman goes to a movie theater, the man should foot the bill because he is a man.


That is not what she meant . Read the topic very well and u will understand the situation  Grin Grin Grin Grin

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- typicalman84 at 20-10-2010 12:32 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: onyiis on 20-10-2010 12:29 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:24 PM
Quote from: onyiis on 20-10-2010 12:21 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:18 PM
Quote from: onyiis on 20-10-2010 12:12 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:05 PM
Quote from: blessedme on 20-10-2010 11:04 AM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:46 AM
Only Africans still have this mentality of If someone invites you to somewhere, they should automatically foot your BILL. We are in the 21st century people.
if u are not from Africa pls dnt say a thing
cos african mentality will never be rule away by the western mentality

i hate it when peeps say african mentality!!!
every state, country, globes, continents have thier own mentality
and they are all living by thier own mentality
y dont we live by our own mentality and practice our culture and make it better if we want
rather than trying to adopt some other mentality
You cannot choose what you want to be enslaved in the mentality and when it comes to other things that will benefit you, you cry uncivilized. How about this.. The african mentality is that the women should be very submissive to their husbands and also clean the house, cook for and serve their husbands. Take care of the kids, wash the dishes and is inferior to the man. So are you cool with this?


The African culture did not see women as beeing inferior rather as "the weaker sex " that need to be nutured and cared for . Our fore fathers "curted and cherished" our mothers but those things the present day guys seems to forget
No actually they are inferior to the man... If not why would a man give the woman a command and she quickly does what she is asked to do... If that is not inferiority, I don't know what is.


That is not inferiority at all !!! That is respect and obidience............the Bible and african tradition requires that from a woman
LOL... If the woman is lower in rank with respect to the order of power in a family, then that is called Inferiority... Please do not make the word inferior sound so bad. it's just simple English.


I dont know if u really knows the meanining of "inferior" ................beeing of lesser quality !!!

That does not in any way apply to the situation at hand because if the guy thought that the lady was inferior ,then he would have paid the billls without asking her since she is inferior to him .

The guys action just potrayed that "the lady is equal to him" Though he did it in a very wrong manner
That is not the only definition of inferior. Why are you nick picking? inferior also means--lower in rank, position, or status; subordinate

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- onyiis at 20-10-2010 12:33 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:30 PM
Quote from: blessedme on 20-10-2010 12:26 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:05 PM
Quote from: blessedme on 20-10-2010 11:04 AM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:46 AM
Only Africans still have this mentality of If someone invites you to somewhere, they should automatically foot your BILL. We are in the 21st century people.
if u are not from Africa pls dnt say a thing
cos african mentality will never be rule away by the western mentality

i hate it when peeps say african mentality!!!
every state, country, globes, continents have thier own mentality
and they are all living by thier own mentality
y dont we live by our own mentality and practice our culture and make it better if we want
rather than trying to adopt some other mentality
You cannot choose what you want to be enslaved in the mentality and when it comes to other things that will benefit you, you cry uncivilized. How about this.. The african mentality is that the women should be very submissive to their husbands and also clean the house, cook for and serve their husbands. Take care of the kids, wash the dishes and is inferior to the man. So are you cool with this?
yes that is what the african mentality says and that is what a woman should do to keep her home
even d bible say wife sumit unto ya husband.

lemme tell u that aside from d normal celebrations, marriage is an individual thing
u as the man can decide to run ya home which ever way it will benefit you provided ya wife understand
it is every man's culture and colour that makes us diff from others
so pls stop d critism
We are not talking about the bible here. we are talking about tradition and tradition says.. the man is the man and will always be the man. There is no...if a man chooses to run his home.... Isn't it the western culture that brought christianity into africa anywayz.. so what is your point here?



Mind you i said both the Bible and African tradition and not just the bible alone

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- typicalman84 at 20-10-2010 12:34 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:27 PM
Quote from: onyiis on 20-10-2010 12:25 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:21 PM
Quote from: onyiis on 20-10-2010 12:14 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:06 PM
let me also clarify that a man paying for the woman's movie ticket is not part of the African Culture.

[b]Mind you that "going to see a movie with a lady" is not an african culture[/b] .So if u want to borrow another man's culture then do it to the full .

Where going to see a movie with a woman is a culture ,The person that sends out the invitation pays the bills

No... So if it is not an african culture, why would she expect the man to pay. Your last statement is inaccurate. What culture is that you speak of because over here in the states, everyone foot their movie ticket bills.. man or woman.

Where i am , it is the same culture , anybody can foot the bills depending on a mutual agreement . mind you this is a case of "two love birds"
Like i said the norm is the he who invited the other should pay the bills and if he is not in a situation to do that financially ,he should tell the other before hand anaut it and not "standing her " at the counter to pay her bills
Gbam... that was what I said... and then i said it is not the responsibility of the man to pay for the movie ticket for the woman. the poster is under the impression that when a man and a woman goes to a movie theater, the man should foot the bill because he is a man.


That is not what she meant . Read the topic very well and u will understand the situation  Grin Grin Grin Grin

What is really happening? where is the love and care professed by guys
where is d shield a guy is suppose to provide for his girl


So what exactly does this mean?

Posted: at 20-10-2010 12:34 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- typicalman84 at 20-10-2010 12:35 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:30 PM
Quote from: blessedme on 20-10-2010 12:26 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:05 PM
Quote from: blessedme on 20-10-2010 11:04 AM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:46 AM
Only Africans still have this mentality of If someone invites you to somewhere, they should automatically foot your BILL. We are in the 21st century people.
if u are not from Africa pls dnt say a thing
cos african mentality will never be rule away by the western mentality

i hate it when peeps say african mentality!!!
every state, country, globes, continents have thier own mentality
and they are all living by thier own mentality
y dont we live by our own mentality and practice our culture and make it better if we want
rather than trying to adopt some other mentality
You cannot choose what you want to be enslaved in the mentality and when it comes to other things that will benefit you, you cry uncivilized. How about this.. The african mentality is that the women should be very submissive to their husbands and also clean the house, cook for and serve their husbands. Take care of the kids, wash the dishes and is inferior to the man. So are you cool with this?
yes that is what the african mentality says and that is what a woman should do to keep her home
even d bible say wife sumit unto ya husband.

lemme tell u that aside from d normal celebrations, marriage is an individual thing
u as the man can decide to run ya home which ever way it will benefit you provided ya wife understand
it is every man's culture and colour that makes us diff from others
so pls stop d critism
We are not talking about the bible here. we are talking about tradition and tradition says.. the man is the man and will always be the man. There is no...if a man chooses to run his home.... Isn't it the western culture that brought christianity into africa anywayz.. so what is your point here?



Mind you i said both the Bible and African tradition and not just the bible alone
The Bible is different from Tradition.

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- xter at 20-10-2010 12:36 PM (14 years ago)
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gals wont value men until they grow old and lonely that's when willingly they wil splash cash on guys as dem sugar mummy

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- onyiis at 20-10-2010 12:37 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:24 PM
Quote from: onyiis on 20-10-2010 12:21 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:18 PM
Quote from: onyiis on 20-10-2010 12:12 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:05 PM
Quote from: blessedme on 20-10-2010 11:04 AM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:46 AM
Only Africans still have this mentality of If someone invites you to somewhere, they should automatically foot your BILL. We are in the 21st century people.
if u are not from Africa pls dnt say a thing
cos african mentality will never be rule away by the western mentality

i hate it when peeps say african mentality!!!
every state, country, globes, continents have thier own mentality
and they are all living by thier own mentality
y dont we live by our own mentality and practice our culture and make it better if we want
rather than trying to adopt some other mentality
You cannot choose what you want to be enslaved in the mentality and when it comes to other things that will benefit you, you cry uncivilized. How about this.. The african mentality is that the women should be very submissive to their husbands and also clean the house, cook for and serve their husbands. Take care of the kids, wash the dishes and is inferior to the man. So are you cool with this?


The African culture did not see women as beeing inferior rather as "the weaker sex " that need to be nutured and cared for . Our fore fathers "curted and cherished" our mothers but those things the present day guys seems to forget
No actually they are inferior to the man... If not why would a man give the woman a command and she quickly does what she is asked to do... If that is not inferiority, I don't know what is.


That is not inferiority at all !!! That is respect and obidience............the Bible and african tradition requires that from a woman
LOL... If the woman is lower in rank with respect to the order of power in a family, then that is called Inferiority... Please do not make the word inferior sound so bad. it's just simple English.


I dont know if u really knows the meanining of "inferior" ................beeing of lesser quality !!!

That does not in any way apply to the situation at hand because if the guy thought that the lady was inferior ,then he would have paid the billls without asking her since she is inferior to him .

The guys action just potrayed that "the lady is equal to him" Though he did it in a very wrong manner
That is not the only definition of inferior. Why are you nick picking? inferior also means--lower in rank, position, or status; subordinate


Good you know all these diffinitions and i still stand to tell you that the African tradition does not in any way take women to be of lower quality to men .

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- blessedme at 20-10-2010 12:38 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: onyiis on 20-10-2010 12:14 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:06 PM
let me also clarify that a man paying for the woman's movie ticket is not part of the African Culture.

[b]Mind you that "going to see a movie with a lady" is not an african culture[/b] .So if u want to borrow another man's culture then do it to the full .

Where going to see a movie with a woman is a culture ,The person that sends out the invitation pays the bills

No... So if it is not an african culture, why would she expect the man to pay. Your last statement is inaccurate. What culture is that you speak of because over here in the states, everyone foot their movie ticket bills.. man or woman.

Where i am , it is the same culture , anybody can foot the bills depending on a mutual agreement . mind you this is a case of "two love birds"
Like i said the norm is the he who invited the other should pay the bills and if he is not in a situation to do that financially ,he should tell the other before hand anaut it and not "standing her " at the counter to pay her bills
Gbam... that was what I said... and then i said it is not the responsibility of the man to pay for the movie ticket for the woman. the poster is under the impression that when a man and a woman goes to a movie theater, the man should foot the bill because he is a man.
dont get me wrong, any body could have foot the bill
but wat am saying is that d dude shouldnt ve pop up a surprise at the counter
by buying his ticket and asking her to buy hers too

am sure u wouldnt do that
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let me also clarify that a man paying for the woman's movie ticket is not part of the African Culture.

[b]Mind you that "going to see a movie with a lady" is not an african culture[/b] .So if u want to borrow another man's culture then do it to the full .

Where going to see a movie with a woman is a culture ,The person that sends out the invitation pays the bills

No... So if it is not an african culture, why would she expect the man to pay. Your last statement is inaccurate. What culture is that you speak of because over here in the states, everyone foot their movie ticket bills.. man or woman.

Where i am , it is the same culture , anybody can foot the bills depending on a mutual agreement . mind you this is a case of "two love birds"
Like i said the norm is the he who invited the other should pay the bills and if he is not in a situation to do that financially ,he should tell the other before hand anaut it and not "standing her " at the counter to pay her bills
Gbam... that was what I said... and then i said it is not the responsibility of the man to pay for the movie ticket for the woman. the poster is under the impression that when a man and a woman goes to a movie theater, the man should foot the bill because he is a man.


That is not what she meant . Read the topic very well and u will understand the situation  Grin Grin Grin Grin

What is really happening? where is the love and care professed by guys
where is d shield a guy is suppose to provide for his girl


So what exactly does this mean?


Heheheheheeeeeeeeeeeeee !!! so Glad you have seen the light ..................even without removing your glasses  Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

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Only Africans still have this mentality of If someone invites you to somewhere, they should automatically foot your BILL. We are in the 21st century people.
if u are not from Africa pls dnt say a thing
cos african mentality will never be rule away by the western mentality

i hate it when peeps say african mentality!!!
every state, country, globes, continents have thier own mentality
and they are all living by thier own mentality
y dont we live by our own mentality and practice our culture and make it better if we want
rather than trying to adopt some other mentality
You cannot choose what you want to be enslaved in the mentality and when it comes to other things that will benefit you, you cry uncivilized. How about this.. The african mentality is that the women should be very submissive to their husbands and also clean the house, cook for and serve their husbands. Take care of the kids, wash the dishes and is inferior to the man. So are you cool with this?


The African culture did not see women as beeing inferior rather as "the weaker sex " that need to be nutured and cared for . Our fore fathers "curted and cherished" our mothers but those things the present day guys seems to forget
No actually they are inferior to the man... If not why would a man give the woman a command and she quickly does what she is asked to do... If that is not inferiority, I don't know what is.


That is not inferiority at all !!! That is respect and obidience............the Bible and african tradition requires that from a woman
LOL... If the woman is lower in rank with respect to the order of power in a family, then that is called Inferiority... Please do not make the word inferior sound so bad. it's just simple English.


I dont know if u really knows the meanining of "inferior" ................beeing of lesser quality !!!

That does not in any way apply to the situation at hand because if the guy thought that the lady was inferior ,then he would have paid the billls without asking her since she is inferior to him .

The guys action just potrayed that "the lady is equal to him" Though he did it in a very wrong manner
That is not the only definition of inferior. Why are you nick picking? inferior also means--lower in rank, position, or status; subordinate


Good you know all these diffinitions and i still stand to tell you that the African tradition does not in any way take women to be of lower quality to men .
When you say lower quality, it sounds so bad.. but then let's look at the other definition of Inferior and you will see that being a rank under the man means she is inferior to the man.

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Only Africans still have this mentality of If someone invites you to somewhere, they should automatically foot your BILL. We are in the 21st century people.
if u are not from Africa pls dnt say a thing
cos african mentality will never be rule away by the western mentality

i hate it when peeps say african mentality!!!
every state, country, globes, continents have thier own mentality
and they are all living by thier own mentality
y dont we live by our own mentality and practice our culture and make it better if we want
rather than trying to adopt some other mentality
You cannot choose what you want to be enslaved in the mentality and when it comes to other things that will benefit you, you cry uncivilized. How about this.. The african mentality is that the women should be very submissive to their husbands and also clean the house, cook for and serve their husbands. Take care of the kids, wash the dishes and is inferior to the man. So are you cool with this?
yes that is what the african mentality says and that is what a woman should do to keep her home
even d bible say wife sumit unto ya husband.

lemme tell u that aside from d normal celebrations, marriage is an individual thing
u as the man can decide to run ya home which ever way it will benefit you provided ya wife understand
it is every man's culture and colour that makes us diff from others
so pls stop d critism
We are not talking about the bible here. we are talking about tradition and tradition says.. the man is the man and will always be the man. There is no...if a man chooses to run his home.... Isn't it the western culture that brought christianity into africa anywayz.. so what is your point here?



Mind you i said both the Bible and African tradition and not just the bible alone
The Bible is different from Tradition.


Quite true and u know when more than one factor is confirming the autenticity of a phenomenon , then all doubts should be cast away as to its validity and originality  Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

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