"my gal friend loves party more dan she loves me"..gush!! (Page 2)

Date: 04-03-2011 10:50 pm (13 years ago) | Author: ruff ryddar
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- laydeelaracraft at 5-03-2011 12:30 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: ILOVEIT on  5-03-2011 12:16 AM
Quote from: laydeelaracraft on  5-03-2011 12:03 AM
Quote from: ILOVEIT on  4-03-2011 11:47 PM
Quote from: ruffryddar on  4-03-2011 11:42 PM


d thng is she's not a paid perfomer but just likes being in d party with her friends.sometimes,she avoids discussing her outing wth me b4 she goes out... not until die minute,she wll tell me in a rush...bla..bla..bla..and i just free her but i never suspected any infidelity,just that i dont want 2b hash on her.



really? the story is getting clearer.hmmmm they said the truth hurt but i have to say it...guy the hand writing is already on the wall,just need to be expose officially.
need more info bout her frns! yu need to carry out research, infact beg yur mates to carry out covert research on her frns to find out the kind of people that they r. yur frns attends last minute parties? Well let me tell yu sumting about most galz, we hardly ever do last minute parties cuz they hair, nail, dress, shoes and bags r on-point.

I noe Iloveit n most ppl in the house r window dressing the issue esp since yu seem a lil blind in it....yu gotta set thingz straight cuz even if yur gal is as loyal as yu seem to think her frns mite have a bigger influence on her. One last thing, naija parties r about showing off, the women r showing off their looks (pretend or real) whilst the men r showing off wealth (again pretend or real)....enuf sed
he never mention living in naija..well which ever way,for the fact she doesn't inform him properly shows something is wrong some where trust that!i have witnessed this kind of scene b4...if the girl love him as he presumed, she will show some concern despite her friends influence..

true but yu dont have to b in naija to attend naija parties
Posted: at 5-03-2011 12:30 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ILOVEIT at 5-03-2011 12:33 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: onyin on  5-03-2011 12:28 AM
Quote from: ILOVEIT on  4-03-2011 11:47 PM
Quote from: ruffryddar on  4-03-2011 11:42 PM


d thng is she's not a paid perfomer but just likes being in d party with her friends.sometimes,she avoids discussing her outing wth me b4 she goes out... not until die minute,she wll tell me in a rush...bla..bla..bla..and i just free her but i never suspected any infidelity,just that i dont want 2b hash on her.



really? the story is getting clearer.hmmmm they said the truth hurt but i have to say it...guy the hand writing is already on the wall,just need to be expose officially.
Cheesy
ehen na....and he is even saying they don't reside in the same country only by video chat and phone..and he's madly in love.hmmm hmmmm..guy the choice is yours..enough said.

Posted: at 5-03-2011 12:33 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- onyin at 5-03-2011 12:35 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: ILOVEIT on  5-03-2011 12:33 AM
Quote from: onyin on  5-03-2011 12:28 AM
Quote from: ILOVEIT on  4-03-2011 11:47 PM
Quote from: ruffryddar on  4-03-2011 11:42 PM


d thng is she's not a paid perfomer but just likes being in d party with her friends.sometimes,she avoids discussing her outing wth me b4 she goes out... not until die minute,she wll tell me in a rush...bla..bla..bla..and i just free her but i never suspected any infidelity,just that i dont want 2b hash on her.



really? the story is getting clearer.hmmmm they said the truth hurt but i have to say it...guy the hand writing is already on the wall,just need to be expose officially.
Cheesy
ehen na....and he is even saying they don't reside in the same country only by video chat and phone..and he's madly in love.hmmm hmmmm..guy the choice is yours..enough said.
lol.ewoo.you read my mind.lol
Posted: at 5-03-2011 12:35 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- estilizo at 5-03-2011 12:36 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: kebella on  4-03-2011 10:58 PM
club gurl..............all yu need is patient n' prayer
thks KB,@poster thats it ooooooooo,enough prayers to sustain that intended marriage,good luck.

Posted: at 5-03-2011 12:36 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ILOVEIT at 5-03-2011 12:37 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: onyin on  5-03-2011 12:35 AM
Quote from: ILOVEIT on  5-03-2011 12:33 AM
Quote from: onyin on  5-03-2011 12:28 AM
Quote from: ILOVEIT on  4-03-2011 11:47 PM
Quote from: ruffryddar on  4-03-2011 11:42 PM


d thng is she's not a paid perfomer but just likes being in d party with her friends.sometimes,she avoids discussing her outing wth me b4 she goes out... not until die minute,she wll tell me in a rush...bla..bla..bla..and i just free her but i never suspected any infidelity,just that i dont want 2b hash on her.



really? the story is getting clearer.hmmmm they said the truth hurt but i have to say it...guy the hand writing is already on the wall,just need to be expose officially.
Cheesy
ehen na....and he is even saying they don't reside in the same country only by video chat and phone..and he's madly in love.hmmm hmmmm..guy the choice is yours..enough said.
lol.ewoo.you read my mind.lol
i don't read your mind,we reason together  Cheesy Cheesy

Posted: at 5-03-2011 12:37 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- ruffryddar at 5-03-2011 12:39 AM (13 years ago)
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thnx y'all...appreciate
Posted: at 5-03-2011 12:39 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- laydeelaracraft at 5-03-2011 12:41 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: ruffryddar on  5-03-2011 12:27 AM
Quote from: laydeelaracraft on  5-03-2011 12:03 AM
Quote from: ILOVEIT on  4-03-2011 11:47 PM
Quote from: ruffryddar on  4-03-2011 11:42 PM


d thng is she's not a paid perfomer but just likes being in d party with her friends.sometimes,she avoids discussing her outing wth me b4 she goes out... not until die minute,she wll tell me in a rush...bla..bla..bla..and i just free her but i never suspected any infidelity,just that i dont want 2b hash on her.



really? the story is getting clearer.hmmmm they said the truth hurt but i have to say it...guy the hand writing is already on the wall,just need to be expose officially.
need more info bout her frns! yu need to carry out research, infact beg yur mates to carry out covert research on her frns to find out the kind of people that they r. yur frns attends last minute parties? Well let me tell yu sumting about most galz, we hardly ever do last minute parties cuz they hair, nail, dress, shoes and bags r on-point.

I noe Iloveit n most ppl in the house r window dressing the issue esp since yu seem a lil blind in it....yu gotta set thingz straight cuz even if yur gal is as loyal as yu seem to think her frns mite have a bigger influence on her. One last thing, naija parties r about showing off, the women r showing off their looks (pretend or real) whilst the men r showing off wealth (again pretend or real)....enuf sed

i thnk u just hit d point nw...i av being having dat feelings too dat her friends are wide.also,we dnt stay in d same country we only spend tym on fone n video chat.
she talks marriage 2me all d tym even thou she knows am not rich 4 settling dwn nw.am just confused but stll investigating 2 knw more about her friends.
Pls explain sum more
1)where r yu based n where is she based?
2)how long av yu known her for?
3)av yu guyz ever met b4 or is this just new age e-dating?
Posted: at 5-03-2011 12:41 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onyin at 5-03-2011 12:43 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: ILOVEIT on  5-03-2011 12:37 AM
Quote from: onyin on  5-03-2011 12:35 AM
Quote from: ILOVEIT on  5-03-2011 12:33 AM
Quote from: onyin on  5-03-2011 12:28 AM
Quote from: ILOVEIT on  4-03-2011 11:47 PM
Quote from: ruffryddar on  4-03-2011 11:42 PM


d thng is she's not a paid perfomer but just likes being in d party with her friends.sometimes,she avoids discussing her outing wth me b4 she goes out... not until die minute,she wll tell me in a rush...bla..bla..bla..and i just free her but i never suspected any infidelity,just that i dont want 2b hash on her.



really? the story is getting clearer.hmmmm they said the truth hurt but i have to say it...guy the hand writing is already on the wall,just need to be expose officially.
Cheesy
ehen na....and he is even saying they don't reside in the same country only by video chat and phone..and he's madly in love.hmmm hmmmm..guy the choice is yours..enough said.
lol.ewoo.you read my mind.lol
i don't read your mind,we reason together  Cheesy Cheesy
Wink
Posted: at 5-03-2011 12:43 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- ILOVEIT at 5-03-2011 12:48 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: laydeelaracraft on  5-03-2011 12:41 AM
Quote from: ruffryddar on  5-03-2011 12:27 AM
Quote from: laydeelaracraft on  5-03-2011 12:03 AM
Quote from: ILOVEIT on  4-03-2011 11:47 PM
Quote from: ruffryddar on  4-03-2011 11:42 PM


d thng is she's not a paid perfomer but just likes being in d party with her friends.sometimes,she avoids discussing her outing wth me b4 she goes out... not until die minute,she wll tell me in a rush...bla..bla..bla..and i just free her but i never suspected any infidelity,just that i dont want 2b hash on her.



really? the story is getting clearer.hmmmm they said the truth hurt but i have to say it...guy the hand writing is already on the wall,just need to be expose officially.
need more info bout her frns! yu need to carry out research, infact beg yur mates to carry out covert research on her frns to find out the kind of people that they r. yur frns attends last minute parties? Well let me tell yu sumting about most galz, we hardly ever do last minute parties cuz they hair, nail, dress, shoes and bags r on-point.

I noe Iloveit n most ppl in the house r window dressing the issue esp since yu seem a lil blind in it....yu gotta set thingz straight cuz even if yur gal is as loyal as yu seem to think her frns mite have a bigger influence on her. One last thing, naija parties r about showing off, the women r showing off their looks (pretend or real) whilst the men r showing off wealth (again pretend or real)....enuf sed

i thnk u just hit d point nw...i av being having dat feelings too dat her friends are wide.also,we dnt stay in d same country we only spend tym on fone n video chat.
she talks marriage 2me all d tym even thou she knows am not rich 4 settling dwn nw.am just confused but stll investigating 2 knw more about her friends.
Pls explain sum more
1)where r yu based n where is she based?
2)how long av yu known her for?
3)av yu guyz ever met b4 or is this just new age e-dating?
that's the point..too much of cutting,cutting question..

Posted: at 5-03-2011 12:48 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- laydeelaracraft at 5-03-2011 12:56 AM (13 years ago)
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 Grin
Posted: at 5-03-2011 12:56 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- princess4jifs at 5-03-2011 06:53 AM (13 years ago)
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intend to marry what a party lady,ve u considered ur world[kids],she is not ready,but u have to talk to her ,if she is willing she ll stop.but if she dont stop run with out lookn back.cos u re abt to make a very great mistake.marriage is not child's play.
Posted: at 5-03-2011 06:53 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Hollermeelaycon at 5-03-2011 06:59 AM (13 years ago)
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Becareful of er bro.

Posted: at 5-03-2011 06:59 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- bittersweet at 5-03-2011 09:56 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: ruffryddar on  4-03-2011 10:50 PM
i dont knw if dis is normal of her..cos she can even spend like 2,3 days outside the town,all bcos of partying & clubbing.i so much love her and she also tells me she loves me too..but d party thing is making me weak 2 love her.

please,pals what can i do?i wish getting married 2 her but i wonder if this is how she will be living wth me.


She's not ready for any marriage now!
Sit her down and tell her what bothers you, and if you'll see that if she'll not even try to change it,u should reconsider
that relationship!

Posted: at 5-03-2011 09:56 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 5-03-2011 10:17 AM (13 years ago)
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But u r not in d same country?? wetin u expect from her sef??

make she sit down behind d computer d whole day, whole weekend  Huh? all in d name of luv...

giv her som freedom too, like u said u no suspect her of cheatin.... and u r not ready for marriage now

mayb she reason d same way, so she can still enjoy clubbin
Posted: at 5-03-2011 10:17 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- olame4 at 5-03-2011 10:39 AM (13 years ago)
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maybe u meet her at the party so dont blem her
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- princedafe at 5-03-2011 07:48 PM (13 years ago)
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nawa

go find another babe

only mammy water girls like behaving that way

Posted: at 5-03-2011 07:48 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Yhorss at 5-03-2011 08:24 PM (13 years ago)
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Important question; whr nd au did u meet her? D Yoruba ppl hv a sayin; a wife u marry partyin i.e. met her at a party, wil eventuali leav wt d drummers.. i.e. u cnt xpct her 2 sttop an habit she's prrbli cultivatd b4 she met u jst lyk dt, twil take some time, bt most definitli determinatn on her part. Jst try talkin with her (not at her or to her). She'l change wt time, hopefulli.
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- dirtykid at 5-03-2011 08:37 PM (13 years ago)
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If sh dance finish, it will end for her waist ... Make she take am easy.... Many have gone done the memory lane from there.

Posted: at 5-03-2011 08:37 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- estilizo at 5-03-2011 08:45 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: princedafe on  5-03-2011 07:48 PM
nawa

go find another babe

only mammy water girls like behaving that way


Shocked Shocked Shocked

Posted: at 5-03-2011 08:45 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- berry8330 at 5-03-2011 09:27 PM (13 years ago)
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Hey, take my lil silly advice, she might be a gemini or aquarius or somthing of that nature... Thats their personality except they see otherwise, there's nothing you can do to make them any different. As someone rightfully suggested, patience and prayer, but the question is how much longer can you relally wait??? She is 25, hmmm... Start letting go of her from inside for she might not change and even if she does, not right now... The question really is, what do you really want in a lady??? she still has YEARS ahead of her as well as friends that STRONGLY influence her, so, you dont really mean much to her right now.. "I love you" is a statement anyone can use, trust me. 
God be with you as you make to take your decision. Your happiness, joy and peace of mind lie in your hands... Get to understand yourself first then it will be easier to know what king of person you'll like to spend your life with... Its is easier said than done... I am presently doing this right now, and trust me, this it and will always remain the most difficult thing in the world for me, but i have to let go and fast...no more heart breaks!!!
Posted: at 5-03-2011 09:27 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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