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Disadvantages Of Early Marriage.

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Disadvantages Of Early Marriage. on: 7 Apr 11, 06:44 PM (5 years ago) by
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Disadvantages Of Early Marriage.

Many people are marrying early these days. They would like to get into matrimony as soon as their courtship is over. Tying the knot is important to strengthen their relationship. They feel settling down in life early would help them set up their independent home.

Whatever may be the advantages of settling down early in life, the fact remains there are problems to be faced if one gets into matrimony too quickly.

Examples are :
1. Responsibility has to be shouldered at a very young age. One has to take on household responsibilities, child rearing responsibility etc. There is no adult to guide or help out.
   
2. Missing out on the fun of teenage life and being young. The drudgeries of married life can get to you. They deprive you of your youth.
   
3. Health also can get affected as early pregnancy can have a negative impact on overall health.
   
4. Breakdown of marriage is possible. Often the young couple is immature to shoulder major responsibility and end up fighting with each other. Adjustment problems may arise.
   
5. Education also gets affected. The young couple may not be able to pursue higher education as they have to take on the responsibilities of family budget.
   
6. Work opportunities are limited for the youngsters. Since their education levels are low, they cannot get highly paid jobs.
   
7. Bringing up children may be difficult. Their knowledge of child care may be limited and parental guidance is also not there. They may not be able to provide the appropriate care for their child.

Marrying early may seem very romantic and convenient, but it has its problems. Couples need to get to know each other better and this takes time. Rushing into a marriage, which may not last long does not appear the right thing to do. In some countries, where child marriage is prevalent, efforts are on by respective Governments to dissuade such a practice.
Reply #1 on: 7 Apr 11, 07:37 PM (5 years ago) by
Kennee (24005 | Addicted Hero)
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We hear

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Reply #2 on: 7 Apr 11, 07:45 PM (5 years ago) by
bittersweet (14348 | Hero)
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Quote from: Kennee on  7 Apr 11, 07:37 PM
We hear

Yes,we do! Cheesy

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Reply #3 on: 7 Apr 11, 07:46 PM (5 years ago) by
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Nice one. I will like to ask this little but silly question. What age do you think a man should get married?  Huh?
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Reply #4 on: 7 Apr 11, 07:48 PM (5 years ago) by
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Quote from: D-Ark on  7 Apr 11, 07:46 PM
Nice one. I will like to ask this little but silly question. What age do you think a man should get married?  Huh?

Don't think at a particular number for that!
If it's what u want, and if u feel mature enough to assume such a responsibility, then do it!

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Reply #5 on: 7 Apr 11, 07:51 PM (5 years ago) by
yukicares4u (2137 | Gistmaniac)
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Ok poster...i'll blow the whistle 2 others...lol Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

nice post anyways.
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Reply #6 on: 7 Apr 11, 08:01 PM (5 years ago) by
dirtykid (17774 | Hero)
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Noted !! Let me wait for another 45yrs then, so i can get married at age 65yrs, I think that will be ok at that time  Grin Grin Grin

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Reply #7 on: 7 Apr 11, 08:05 PM (5 years ago) by
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u r totally right. post on point
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Reply #8 on: 7 Apr 11, 09:09 PM (5 years ago) by
KUDOS-GUTSY (320 | Upcoming)
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NOTED, BUT I WAN MARRY FIRST AT YOUNG AGE MAKE I SEE WETIN GO HAPPEN Cool Cool Cool Cool Cool Cool Cool Cool Cool
 Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss
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Reply #9 on: 7 Apr 11, 09:12 PM (5 years ago) by
jessawa (24 | Newbie)
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Good post, nowadays people are just blindfolded by the desire of getting married and  most of the ladies end up cheating on their men cuz they didn't have enough fun when they were young, same thing for the men.
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Reply #10 on: 7 Apr 11, 09:16 PM (5 years ago) by
Youngstoriez (4538 | Gistmaniac)
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watever....poster
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Reply #11 on: 7 Apr 11, 09:20 PM (5 years ago) by
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Quote from: dirtykid on  7 Apr 11, 08:01 PM
Noted !! Let me wait for another 45yrs then, so i can get married at age 65yrs, I think that will be ok at that time  Grin Grin Grin
see ur mouth

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Reply #12 on: 7 Apr 11, 09:28 PM (5 years ago) by
Youngstoriez (4538 | Gistmaniac)
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 Grin
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Reply #13 on: 7 Apr 11, 09:34 PM (5 years ago) by
interpo77 (4626 | Gistmaniac)
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hmmm, so,all these re the disadvantages of early hubby/wifey?
ok, i will tell ma glu to keep that idea of getting married now till 2015
she is on ma neck  Grin Grin Grin
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Reply #14 on: 7 Apr 11, 09:37 PM (5 years ago) by
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Quote from: xena15 on  7 Apr 11, 09:20 PM
Quote from: dirtykid on  7 Apr 11, 08:01 PM
Noted !! Let me wait for another 45yrs then, so i can get married at age 65yrs, I think that will be ok at that time  Grin Grin Grin
see ur mouth

 Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy

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Reply #15 on: 7 Apr 11, 09:54 PM (5 years ago) by
KUDOS-GUTSY (320 | Upcoming)
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@ DIRTYKID I NA-ESE ESE Huh? Huh? Huh? Cool Cool Cool Cool Cool Cool Cool Cool Cool Grin Grin Grin
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Reply #16 on: 7 Apr 11, 09:56 PM (5 years ago) by
williams100 (1225 | Gistmaniac)
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nice tips mr poster..will take them under advicement.
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Reply #17 on: 7 Apr 11, 10:38 PM (5 years ago) by
KUDOS-GUTSY (320 | Upcoming)
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MAKE I GO PERFORM FOR STAGE I DEY COME BACK Cool Cool Cool Cool Cool Cool Cool Cool Cool Cool Cool
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Reply #18 on: 7 Apr 11, 10:43 PM (5 years ago) by
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MATRIMONY IS NO CHILD'S PLAY SO I AGREE WITH YOU POSTER
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Reply #19 on: 7 Apr 11, 11:19 PM (5 years ago) by
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Quote from: superdiva on  7 Apr 11, 08:05 PM
u r totally right. post on point

Yu go Agree be4 na

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