ILOVEIT at 7-04-2011 11:33 PM (14 years ago) (m) Disadvantages Of Early Marriage.
Many people are marrying early these days. They would like to get into matrimony as soon as their courtship is over. Tying the knot is important to strengthen their relationship. They feel settling down in life early would help them set up their independent home. Whatever may be the advantages of settling down early in life, the fact remains there are problems to be faced if one gets into matrimony too quickly.
Examples are : 1. Responsibility has to be shouldered at a very young age. One has to take on household responsibilities, child rearing responsibility etc. There is no adult to guide or help out. 2. Missing out on the fun of teenage life and being young. The drudgeries of married life can get to you. They deprive you of your youth. 3. Health also can get affected as early pregnancy can have a negative impact on overall health. 4. Breakdown of marriage is possible. Often the young couple is immature to shoulder major responsibility and end up fighting with each other. Adjustment problems may arise. 5. Education also gets affected. The young couple may not be able to pursue higher education as they have to take on the responsibilities of family budget. 6. Work opportunities are limited for the youngsters. Since their education levels are low, they cannot get highly paid jobs. 7. Bringing up children may be difficult. Their knowledge of child care may be limited and parental guidance is also not there. They may not be able to provide the appropriate care for their child.
Marrying early may seem very romantic and convenient, but it has its problems. Couples need to get to know each other better and this takes time. Rushing into a marriage, which may not last long does not appear the right thing to do. In some countries, where child marriage is prevalent, efforts are on by respective Governments to dissuade such a practice.
hmmm! but you didn't give a specific years of marriage or that of so-called "early marriage"..you made some good points but don't you know that late marriage has it disadvantage as well huh? so mr poster marriage should be base on two mature thing mentally matured and financial stable..that's my own view though.
The difference between GENIUS and STUPIDITY is that, genius has it limits.. Posted: at 7-04-2011 11:33 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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estilizo at 7-04-2011 11:47 PM (14 years ago) (f) ok now,noted.
THE BEST WAY TO REVENGE IS TO FORGIVE..........FORGIVE THE TEARS OF A HURTFUL PAST. Posted: at 7-04-2011 11:47 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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just passing because i am not yet ready for one right now Posted: at 7-04-2011 11:50 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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ILOVEIT at 7-04-2011 11:56 PM (14 years ago) (m) Disadvantages Of Early Marriage.
Many people are marrying early these days. They would like to get into matrimony as soon as their courtship is over. Tying the knot is important to strengthen their relationship. They feel settling down in life early would help them set up their independent home.
Whatever may be the advantages of settling down early in life, the fact remains there are problems to be faced if one gets into matrimony too quickly.
Examples are : 1. Responsibility has to be shouldered at a very young age. One has to take on household responsibilities, child rearing responsibility etc. There is no adult to guide or help out. 2. Missing out on the fun of teenage life and being young. The drudgeries of married life can get to you. They deprive you of your youth. 3. Health also can get affected as early pregnancy can have a negative impact on overall health. 4. Breakdown of marriage is possible. Often the young couple is immature to shoulder major responsibility and end up fighting with each other. Adjustment problems may arise. 5. Education also gets affected. The young couple may not be able to pursue higher education as they have to take on the responsibilities of family budget. 6. Work opportunities are limited for the youngsters. Since their education levels are low, they cannot get highly paid jobs. 7. Bringing up children may be difficult. Their knowledge of child care may be limited and parental guidance is also not there. They may not be able to provide the appropriate care for their child.
Marrying early may seem very romantic and convenient, but it has its problems. Couples need to get to know each other better and this takes time. Rushing into a marriage, which may not last long does not appear the right thing to do. In some countries, where child marriage is prevalent, efforts are on by respective Governments to dissuade such a practice.
hmmm! but you didn't give a specific years of marriage or that of so-called "early marriage"..you made some good points but don't you know that late marriage has it disadvantage as well huh? so mr poster marriage should be base on two major factors, mentally matured/fit and financial stable..that's my own view though.
The difference between GENIUS and STUPIDITY is that, genius has it limits.. Posted: at 7-04-2011 11:56 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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HOPEA23 at 8-04-2011 01:33 AM (14 years ago) (f) ok this is for under age people..like 15 to 21 .
LOVE COMES TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN IT...LET TALK ABOUT LOVE. Posted: at 8-04-2011 01:33 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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frayobkk at 8-04-2011 02:40 AM (14 years ago) (m) na true tell then mostly YORUBA guys
Jesus replied, "What is impossible with men is possible with God." Luke 18:27 Posted: at 8-04-2011 02:40 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Ameen007 at 8-04-2011 04:50 AM (14 years ago) (m) that writen note no mak sense at al. Dats anoda way pple run away frm responsibilities nd promote adultry al in d name of enjoying youthful age. Plz try nd grow up ehn! Posted: at 8-04-2011 04:50 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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mcena at 8-04-2011 08:15 AM (14 years ago) (f) interesting! Posted: at 8-04-2011 08:15 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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Nice topic,, but it depends on d ppl involved...tho u r very rite in som points Posted: at 8-04-2011 08:23 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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Ok, I see.. Posted: at 8-04-2011 09:40 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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lovethbab at 8-04-2011 09:52 AM (14 years ago) (f) ME I WANT TO GET MARRIED AT MY YOUNG AGE. Becos i want to grow old wit my children, so dat when am 45yrs my children will then be between 20 and 25, so i will enjoy my kids. Not when am 60yrs then my kids will be 10 and 15 yrs old Posted: at 8-04-2011 09:52 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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gimac at 8-04-2011 09:56 AM (14 years ago) (m) u r totally right. post on point
yes pointless Posted: at 8-04-2011 09:56 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Dan_Fulani at 8-04-2011 10:25 AM (14 years ago) (m) Nice one. I will like to ask this little but silly question. What age do you think a man should get married?  It is not a silly question. The answer will actually vary for everyone. The right time for marriage is when the couple is ready. To be ready here means many things: Maturity, Acquired education or marketable skills, Responsible, and found the suitable match.
Maturity: The couple is old enough to think and behave like adults. And are both responsible adults.
Education/Skills: Acquiring an education or skills is important in order to be able to financially provide for the family
Responsibility: There are bound to be disagreements in the marriage. Responsible couples are able to selle their differences through communications. Be responsible also means not cheating on your partner and loving and treating your partner with respect. Suitable Match: Both parties have to make sure they both share same vision, goals, and there is not conflicts in religion and moral values.
dan fulani Posted: at 8-04-2011 10:25 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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blessedme at 8-04-2011 10:31 AM (14 years ago) (f) i hear Posted: at 8-04-2011 10:31 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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OK
I bet u, when u wan chop cake, na then u go knw say oven dey. Posted: at 8-04-2011 10:46 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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simele at 8-04-2011 12:15 PM (14 years ago) (m) Nice one. I will like to ask this little but silly question. What age do you think a man should get married?  95YRS Posted: at 8-04-2011 12:15 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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sophiebaby at 8-04-2011 12:29 PM (14 years ago) (f) ok
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* Posted: at 8-04-2011 12:29 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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oyindabty at 8-04-2011 12:39 PM (14 years ago) (f) Nice one. I will like to ask this little but silly question. What age do you think a man should get married?  It is not a silly question. The answer will actually vary for everyone. The right time for marriage is when the couple is ready. To be ready here means many things: Maturity, Acquired education or marketable skills, Responsible, and found the suitable match.
Maturity: The couple is old enough to think and behave like adults. And are both responsible adults.
Education/Skills: Acquiring an education or skills is important in order to be able to financially provide for the family
Responsibility: There are bound to be disagreements in the marriage. Responsible couples are able to selle their differences through communications. Be responsible also means not cheating on your partner and loving and treating your partner with respect. Suitable Match: Both parties have to make sure they both share same vision, goals, and there is not conflicts in religion and moral values.
dan fulanidan fulani U are rite but why you dey advertise ur name all about now dan fulani Posted: at 8-04-2011 12:39 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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I hia Posted: at 8-04-2011 12:56 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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