First of all, one has to consider oneself before anything. Have you impregnated or coerced a woman into having an abortion before? If the answer is NO, save it. Second of all, have you been once married with children or did you by chance have a child or children with someone before? If the answer is NO, still save it! Finally, are you marrying on grounds of desperation or mutual benefit? If it turns out to be NO, why marry someone with a child when in the long run, you'll start having problems with the person? Question is, in the quest to getting married and asking God for a life partner, do you actually ask God for someone with a child or children? Why the excess baggage?
In spite of how righteous and pretentious some folks tend to be on this forum, they will not do it deep down. I hate self-righteousness. Trying to come here and pretend like you are in support of people marrying those with kids. Some even go to the extent of saying they will marry divorcees. Divorce can only be made possible and lawful on the grounds of adultery. So would you marry a woman who divorced the husband other than adultery?
Everyone should go to God in prayers and ask for their life partners and not come on this forum to paint a picture of perfection.
Pls sir lemme ask u sometin...A young woman, lets say 23, get married nd after 6 months got preggy. Her husband na Police he be. One night she get call frm d office sayin her hubby got shot nd died.
She is left wit d pikin nd no husband.....My question is, does dis woman not deserve to b loved again?
Nobody dey pray to meet partner wey get child already..also nobody dey aks to get sick,lose job in economic crisis,be cheated on etc but tins happen in dis life. Am sure God is there for divorced women as well...
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