Quote from: dolphinkate on 26-12-2009 06:43 PM
There is nothing wrong to love a single mom. As somebody said bfore, beeing a single mom is not a sin. It means not, that she has bad character or that she got her children by mistake at teenage age. Many among them became victims of their former husbands and got dumped later. There r much more destinys and reasons why becoming a single mother. Is not good to judge so easy about ppl. Such ladies r good cause they r taking all the responsibilities alone and trying to raise the kids well. While the father of the kids run away from his duties.
But u need to know, that dating and loving a single mother is a different quality of relationship compare to date childless single ladies. A man (or woman) needs much more tolerance, responsibility and maturity, if deciding to go with a woman, who has children already. A man must be ready to accept her children as his own ones. And a single mother cant just go anywhere, go out just like that. A single mom must always ensure first, that her children r in good hands. Responsible single moms usually dont go out , r working hard to provide all the needs for their children. So, if u man r not ready to accept of becoming a step father, or not willing to accept her past and that she will not give birth to her 1st baby for u, and if u r not ready to take uncomfort cause the children need her attention first, then pls dont start relation with a single mother.
If u r able have a sweet relationship with a single mother and if u r able to be a good father of her children, then u must be a good responsible loving man and one can congratulate u for ur kindness and maturity. The single lady and her children will love and respect u forever.
But u need to know, that dating and loving a single mother is a different quality of relationship compare to date childless single ladies. A man (or woman) needs much more tolerance, responsibility and maturity, if deciding to go with a woman, who has children already. A man must be ready to accept her children as his own ones. And a single mother cant just go anywhere, go out just like that. A single mom must always ensure first, that her children r in good hands. Responsible single moms usually dont go out , r working hard to provide all the needs for their children. So, if u man r not ready to accept of becoming a step father, or not willing to accept her past and that she will not give birth to her 1st baby for u, and if u r not ready to take uncomfort cause the children need her attention first, then pls dont start relation with a single mother.
If u r able have a sweet relationship with a single mother and if u r able to be a good father of her children, then u must be a good responsible loving man and one can congratulate u for ur kindness and maturity. The single lady and her children will love and respect u forever.
Are u a single mum? if so i am interested to hook up with u. Keep in touch love. I am in UK, wher are u love. Thanks 4 ur understanding. [email protected]