Hopeless pig,drop dead.

And a silly reply from a silly person

Simple ! because they want to be heard and seen. You said it all, 'short people', so they would want to make a noise for their voice to be heard especially in this country where they are discriminated against for a reason that's no fault of theirs.



Abeg make all the short people speak out so your voice will be heard...

i use palm kernel  oil its good it will only stain a white shirt. 

I am so sorry for you Aki, I just dey cry for you...

I'm a female, 28 years old. My Husband is a little older than me, 32, and we are married for 3-4 years now;dated for 2 years before that. I don't really have any major complaints with my husband, just the usual marital ups-downs. I started Post graduate school in 2011 and most of my classes involve group work. We are usually assigned to groups by professors and some professors allow us to choose our group members. So I happened to know this guy. There were no feelings in the first semester and we were all getting to know each other. Now, since the beginning of this semester, Jan 2012, I've realized that I'm a little attracted to this guy.

This guy is actually younger to me(27 years old), of a different ethnicity, of a different religion and yet I feel a strong connection. He seems to have a lot of principles, my husband does too, but I've not met too many men with principles. He does not behave his age, he actually acts older like may be a 30 year old or something. I'm so attracted that I've actually started dressing - up for my classes, which I never did in my first semester. I look forward to seeing him, to talking to him and just being with him. We usually only discuss classes/study. He knows i'm married and we both never hang out or something(this is because of lack of time and if he would invite me to hang out, i might end up going!!). I feel so sad to say this but I'm even segxwally attracted to him to a small extent. This guy is not the drop-dead good looking guy, his looks are not even average. I shoudn't say this but I want to mention it to let you all know that my attraction is not just physical. We had a  break 2 weeks ago and not seeing him for 2 weeks is killing me.

I am a very self controlled and disciplined person myself and I'm feeling so silly and small to know that I have this issue. I've never ever found any guy more attractive than my husband.I will be gradauting in december and that thought is scarying me because i won't be able to see this guy. I feel I'm acting like a teenager

What's going on here with me? I don't even want advice like " stay away" etc because I know that's what I should be doing anyway. I am aware that this is totally wrong and immoral of me. I feel guilty but the excitement is also addictive. May be there are issues in my marriage that need to be fixed, but I seriosuly don't even think about my marriage these days. All on my mind is : my classes, exams, this guy, dressing - up, talking to him and being together.

P.S.: I feel so bad admitting to this. .. I need ur advices..

Matured comments please

Miss Chioma Ifunanya Obiora was crowned the most beautiful igbo girl in Nigeria, no doubts igbos are beautiful people!

When it comes to lawlessness we know Nigeria and South American countries are always in front of the pile, just yesterday a foolish igbo boy called Kelechukwu Ogbonna Orji got hold of an innocent journalist and carried out jungle justice on him for ALLEGEDLY posting a story about Kelly Hansome begging producers for movie role (After his music career died). Fact has it that kelly Hansome wasnt too happy with the publication and vowed to take the reporter down anywhere and anytime he sees him.

Mr. Hansome eventually got his wishes and when he came in contact with the said reporter he and his bunch of thugs leached on him and even forced him to take a picture with the publication in his boxers. I am confused but if it was in a proper country like USA, Kelly Hansome should be frying in prison by now for his despicable actions.

I hope the law get hold of this criminal called Kelly Hansome before he devours another innocent soul

sophie this is really good i must say. but i need private tutorial on this particular topic,   

When it comes to dealing with beautiful women, lots of men mess things up, then wonder why they aren't getting any response. Before i tell you how to deal with beautiful women you must first make sure that this women you are dealing with knows that she is beautiful (LIKE ME    ). After all, lots of attractive people have self image problems and don't even know that they are attractive!!
(What i am going to talk about here are the very beautiful people who already know that they are beautiful.)

Beautiful women requires special treatment (YES)

* Be a nice guy and you are doomed: Those women are always complemented all the time and are always chased by people. Being overly nice with them or even being nice would result in turning them off, all what will come up in their minds will be "ok, you are yet another fan".

 * Don't complement them at all: Complements do miracles when you reassure a person about something that he has doubts about. When telling an average looking woman that she is beautiful then that would make her feel really good but when telling a great looking woman that she looks great she will only love herself more.

 * Be bold!!: do something unexpected even if its criticizing them. A woman like that is always used to compliments once someone criticizes her (in a decent way) she will try to gain his acceptance and she is going to be the one chasing him, after all no ones likes rejection. 

* Show her that you are better than her: Those women consider themselves perfect and they believe that they deserve the best. i used to tell my male friends that the only way to attract such women is show them that you have a higher total score than them. Show them that you are that average guy and you are doomed, show them that you are really good and they will think that they can do better or show them that you are better than them and they will be impressed.

Dealing With a Beautiful Woman? >>>>>>  You need to be different, unusual and mysterious but in the same time you must never be needy, pushy or nice. Its the mixture of being nice enough not to be considered cold and being cold enough not be considered a nice guy.

I have received so many messages from men asking me what I desire in a man, so below please find my answer I do not have time to reply to all of the messages, hopefully those that sent such will read.



I need someone who is striving for excellence in all aspects of life.  Especially mentally because I need a man that I can have a conversation with.

I need someone who is striving for excellence spiritually because I don't need to be unequally yoked...believers mixed with unbelievers is a recipe for disaster.

I need a man who is striving for excellence financially because I don't need a financial burden. It is of the essence that my future mate is capable of taking care of himself, as I am capable of taking care of myself. I believe in the Bless Many and Burden few policy.

I need someone who is sensitive enough to understand what I go through as a woman, but strong enough to keep me grounded.

I need someone who has integrity in dealing with relationships. Lies and game-playing are not my idea of a strong man.

I need a man who is family-oriented. One who can be the leader, and provider to the lives entrusted to him by God.

I need someone whom I can respect... In order to be submissive, I must respect him.I cannot be submissive to a man who isn't taking care of his business.

And by the way, I am not looking for him...He will find me.
He will recognize himself in me.He may not be able to explain the connection, but he will always be drawn to me.
God made woman to be a help-mate for man. I can't help a man if he can't help himself.