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101  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Signs Of Infidelity!Be aware! (Page 24) on: 20-11-2010 12:22 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 18-11-2010 07:03 AM
Quote from: Vixenx on 18-11-2010 05:57 AM
Oh yea one more thing. When you get to the point of suspecting infidelity in your marriage or relationship. The best thing for you to do is just let it go because it will get worst as time goes on and It might even lead him/her to cheat if they weren't doing it before. Do you know how many people that have gone out and cheated just because they THINK their spouse is messing around just by reading that GARBAGE that is posted? and come to find out it's totally not even it.....? in your own words" oh plz"

If you want to close your eyes to the craps some ppl serve their partners, that's solely your problem!
But s**t happens, my dear, and many ppl can't live with it!
When u suspect that they cheating, to let it go?GOOD JOKE!  Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy

Oh,and don't worry, I know to make the difference when they cheat or not! It doesn't mean that if they
do 1 thing from all those,they are automatically cheating, but let's not encourage ppl to close their eyes
when their partners are cheating!




Why should I start causing problems for my relationship based on*POSSIBLY WHAT'S COPIED AND POSTED BY A 15 YR OLD GIRL WHO DOESN'T KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT RELATIONSHIP*? Tell us you didn't copy and paste this and you actually MONITORED your relationship and came up with these findings yourself. Cheesy Cheesy........Many men and women who didn't have any problems before will now run and start badgering their spouses because they read these nonsense. Then they will start complaining of their men and women cheating lol. * Honey remember last month when you came home late but said you were at work late, I think you were cheating on me........come see these signs posted by bittersweet! Cheesy Cheesy.

I am not asking people to close their eyes; am just saying that these things you got here doesn't mean HE/SHE is cheating! but one thing i can tell you is this................

Those people that does these things to their men that you posted. And I mean will constantly get up in their faces will surely loose him to another WOMAN!!!


--He will not want to come home because of your nonsense and stays far far away from home.
--When it comes time to be intimate will he back off because HE IS NOT TURNED ON by your constant accusations.

PLZ get real and stop messing with people who doesn't know any better and who are NOT IN TOUCH with reality.
102  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Signs Of Infidelity!Be aware! on: 20-11-2010 12:13 PM
Quote from: ILOVEIT on 18-11-2010 02:02 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 13-11-2010 09:18 AM
-Sudden increase in time away from home.

-Cheating husband or wife is often unavailable while at work.

- Cheating spouse leaves house or goes to other rooms to talk on the telephone.

- Cheating spouse uses computer alone and secretly.

- Cheating spouse asks about your schedule more often than usual.

- Mileage on car is high yet he/she reports only short distance errands.

- Clothes smell of perfume or cologne.

-Unexplained payments on bank statements.

-Cheating spouse has more cash on hand without accountability.

-Cell phone bills contain calls with long duration.

- Cheating wife or husband has unexplained receipts in wallet or purse.

- Cheating spouse has suspicious cell phone numbers stored or dialed.

- Your spouse seems bored.Bored with u,with job,with kids,with hobbies,with life in general.

- Your spouse seems to want danger or thrills in his/her life.

- There is considerably less intimacy in your relationship.Your s** life is practically non-existent.

-You notice your spouse has a sense of confusion about self.

- Your spouse has become lazy,especially around the house.

- Your spouse is more negative.

- You can't get your spouse to communicate with u.

- Your spouse gets very defensive if u mention infidelity or affairs.

- Your spouse is suddenly more attentive than usual.

- Your partner is working longer hours at work.

-Your spouse is dressing nicer,looking nicer.

- Your spouse is indifferent to family events like birthdays and holidays.

- You find your partner has been lying to u about a variety of things.

- Money becomes more of an issue between the two of u.

-He/she doesn't want to go anywhere or do anything with u anymore.

-You can't even get your partner to fight with u.

- You feel as if u are being avoided.

- Your spouse seems more secretive.

-You discover lipstick smudge on shirt.

- You learn that u have an STD and u've not strayed!

story + story= story ..far far from reality(not enough reason)

THAT'S EXACTLY WHAT I SAID!!!!!!!!!!

Because these lists can mean something else other than CHEATING,. The same goes for females too..if you're having personal issues your moods will change. If you are sad, your moods will change. Will it be proper for YOUR man to start accusing you of messing around based on these things when all he has to do is try and talk to you.
103  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: CHRISTMAS! WHAT ROLE DOES IT PLAY IN UR RELATIONSHIP? on: 19-11-2010 10:07 PM
Quote from: Michro on 19-11-2010 06:50 PM
It is now very obvious and generally believed by our ladies that as every Xmas and New Year celebration approaches, MALE LOVERS do raise a kind of false accusations against their girl friends/partners  and send them away so as to deny their request for XMAS presents/shopping; and eventually call for reconciliation after the celebrations.
What role does XMAS & New Year celebrations plays in ur own relationship?

The first time hearing about this thing is here on Naijapals. And I think someone said something about Valentine's Day too. So could it be just something happening in Nigeria alone? Very dumb and it doesn't make any sense to me either.
104  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Morning sickness on: 19-11-2010 12:29 AM
Quote from: juleshotluv on 18-11-2010 07:36 PM
I thought its only pregnant women that have morning sickness? Huh? Grin  I have been having morning sickness now for a couple of days now Sad :'( ...whats up with that? Huh? My body is hotter than an oven  Shocked :'( ...Where are all the doctors in the house?

Hormonal Imbalance.
105  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: How long should be spent in the bathroom? (Page 20) on: 18-11-2010 12:22 PM
There is no time limit for taking a shower. For me its both hygiene and a relaxation time . After showering I just like to be in the bubbles with my drink and listen to music for 2 hours or more. Feels really calming.
106  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: 8 Reasons He Cheats on: 18-11-2010 12:16 PM
You people just copy and paste other people's madness and lives as your own........lol hehe. Don't worry someone will start bugging their girfriends/boyfriends after reading.
107  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Igbos come show your proverbs skills (Page 24) on: 18-11-2010 06:44 AM
Ura na atum
108  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: stil in luv wif my x on: 18-11-2010 06:35 AM
Quote from: preciouslyme on 18-11-2010 06:24 AM
eya anyways remember he is an EX 4 a reason

 Grin
109  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Signs Of Infidelity!Be aware! (Page 24) on: 18-11-2010 05:57 AM
Oh yea one more thing. When you get to the point of suspecting infidelity in your marriage or relationship. The best thing for you to do is just let it go because it will get worst as time goes on and It might even lead him/her to cheat if they weren't doing it before. Do you know how many people that have gone out and cheated just because they THINK their spouse is messing around just by reading that GARBAGE that is posted? and come to find out it's totally not even it.....? in your own words" oh plz"
110  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Signs Of Infidelity!Be aware! on: 18-11-2010 05:49 AM
Quote from: bittersweet on 13-11-2010 04:17 PM
@Vixenx:Seriously now,do you expect a cheater to communicate with u about all those stuffs?
Oh,plz!
Lipstick on his shirt because he works with females? Oh,come on!If he works with females,
they must kiss that way?What's there?
Oh,come on!
You can't ignore some signs if u want to,but they are for real, and trust me, these are only a few!


You must have some insecurities to even begin suspecting your man of infedelity just because of all those things you copied and pasted. Internet is filled with loads of crap people read and mess their minds up. Many people don't even know how to live without reading about it from the internet lol. Someone comes up with lists of their insecurities and there you go jumping to conclusiong like "oh sh@t my man must be cheating". If you read what I wrote after wards I said that many times those signs DOES NOT! mean a man is cheating. So i guess you are one of those that diagnose yourself based on symptoms someone else copied and pasted as being "a disease" so you think you got irt too right? lol

To answer your question a cheating can break and confess because it is not impossible. Secondly I guess all of your man's co workers just do handshakes right? lol How much effort does it take to get a lipstick or even a make up on a shirt? doesn't take much and that can happen just from leaning and giving someone a hug.

The problem with some of ya'll females is that you suspect too much and its starts to play tricks on you. Stop it!

A man that is stressed will abstain from sex and all these things you lists...duhhhhhhhhh you gotta talk to him and find out what is going on or you will run and download another copy and paste to tell you what to do lol.

Internet is not real life---you are living with the man and your relationship is real. Stop living your lives through someone who is trying to make money by posting or writing books about infedelity because I can gurantee you that.........THEY ARE NOT EVEN FOLLOWING THEIR OWN ADVICES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 
111  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Igbo's only (Page 161) on: 18-11-2010 05:32 AM
Hahahahahaha

112  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Is naijapals only patronized at night? on: 18-11-2010 05:04 AM
Quote from: emepretty on 17-11-2010 02:32 PM
I have noticed that during the day, there are hardly any members online.But at night...naijapals is like Shocked Shocked Shocked a market place.Rowdy, noisy, intresting.....my question is where does everyone go during the afternoons?Are they all asleep or what?

Lol different time zones is the cause.
113  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Telling Parents You're Pregnant! on: 13-11-2010 04:06 PM
Mommy! Oh my gosh I got knocked up! Shocked Shocked
114  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Signs Of Infidelity!Be aware! on: 13-11-2010 03:59 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 13-11-2010 09:18 AM
-Sudden increase in time away from home.

-Cheating husband or wife is often unavailable while at work...Doesn't mean he/she is cheating

- Cheating spouse leaves house or goes to other rooms to talk on the telephone...Not really. They can still be near you and talk while pretending to be talking about something else unrelated. The cheating wife/husband may have codes to use with the other person when they are with their husband/wife.

- Cheating spouse uses computer alone and secretly...Not really

- Cheating spouse asks about your schedule more often than usual...Not really

- Mileage on car is high yet he/she reports only short distance errands...Not really

- Clothes smell of perfume or cologne...Men/women wears colognes too and they could have hugged someone wearing different cologne doesn't mean there's cheating going on.

-Unexplained payments on bank statements...Lol funny. There is no such thing as unexplained payments --not everything we spend money on is shared between husband and wife--it is spent on something I/He needs or wants

-Cheating spouse has more cash on hand without accountability...Not true

-Cell phone bills contain calls with long duration...And if he is the talkative type who stays on the phone for hours, then what?

- Cheating wife or husband has unexplained receipts in wallet or purse...Again, there is no such thing.

- Cheating spouse has suspicious cell phone numbers stored or dialed..Suspicious? Do you know all his/her co workers to suspect a specific number to be suspicious?

- Your spouse seems bored.Bored with u,with job,with kids,with hobbies,with life in general...Hmm could be stressed by something else other than cheating. You have to communicate with your spouse and make him or her comfortable to talk to you.

- Your spouse seems to want danger or thrills in his/her life...Lol, that's not cheating. He/she developed a new hobby. Something we all do doesn't mean cheating.

- There is considerably less intimacy in your relationship.Your s** life is practically non-existent....If a man is a skilled cheater. He will still have the same amount of sex with you so you won't notice a thing. Lack of sex can mean a lot of things. Again when someone is stressed as I stated above. It affects their life in general including their sex life.....does not mean he is cheating.

-You notice your spouse has a sense of confusion about self...Has nothing to do with cheating. How many people are confused about themselves?

- Your spouse has become lazy,especially around the house..Meaning?

- Your spouse is more negative..And this means he is cheating?

- You can't get your spouse to communicate with u..Set the mood right and he/she will.

- Your spouse gets very defensive if u mention infidelity or affairs...He/she could be sick and tired of being constantly accused of infidelity.

- Your spouse is suddenly more attentive than usual...A cheating spouse WON"T

- Your partner is working longer hours at work..There is such thing as overtime.

-Your spouse is dressing nicer,looking nicer...Meaning?

- Your spouse is indifferent to family events like birthdays and holidays...Once or twice to a function maybe all he/she needs. Not everyone loves to be around crowd.


- You find your partner has been lying to u about a variety of things...How do you know he/she is lying? just because you think so?

- Money becomes more of an issue between the two of u...Yeaa that's an issue for any family.

-He/she doesn't want to go anywhere or do anything with u anymore...Find out why---some people are moody. Today they're great, next they are snappy. That's how I am

-You can't even get your partner to fight with u..Not everyone loves drama. They'd rather ignore you than exchange words.

- You feel as if u are being avoided...Yes if you are becoming a pain in the butt with all the accusations.

- Your spouse seems more secretive...Who isn't?

-You discover lipstick smudge on shirt...Lol LOl Cheesy--Am sure he works with females and friends who wears lipsticks--does not mean a thing.

- You learn that u have an STD and u've not strayed!
---Of course not. Just finding a way to eliminate yourself.
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Lol, many people go through these without cheating. We tend to jump to conclusion a lot because of signs we see. Just like some people starts to notice a symptom they will diagnose themselves as having something when in fact. There are thousands of other things that can cause the same exact symptoms.

Look you married your wife/husband out of millions of others because you trust them and believe in them. You didn't marry doubtfully or else you would not have married them. people goes through things in marriage and you are supposed to talk to one another. Communication! Communication! and that's how you get to know what they are going through and you have to make the person comfortable to be able to talk to you. These signs doesn't mean anything for different things contributes to someone displaying these kinda behavior. You know  your wife/husband.
115  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: He's taking a Piss on: 9-11-2010 03:47 PM
Quote from: diplomatik on  8-11-2010 06:24 PM
poster my mood no good to talk anything constructive..antything u wan do carry go jor

Lol good girl Grin
116  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: TRUE or FALSE on: 9-11-2010 03:45 PM
Quote from: yuggie on 26-10-2010 02:11 AM
Is it true that any woman that thinks d way 2 a man's heart is through his stomach is aiming a little too high.

Yes, try the balls Grin
117  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Love on: 9-11-2010 01:51 PM
Quote from: macfemz on  9-11-2010 12:37 PM
How precisely  do u sustain a relationship and keep the fun?

You must be a kid
118  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: do naija girls worth to be loved by naija dudes on: 9-11-2010 01:50 PM
Topic:do naija girls worth to be loved by naija dudes

What makes Naija men extra special apart from the rest of the men that Naija girls aren't worth?
119  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: BAD TEETH!!!..... on: 9-11-2010 01:49 PM
Quote from: omorewa on  3-11-2010 01:35 AM
BEFORE IT WAS TRIBAL MARK, BAD BREATH etc. 

NOW IT IS ABOUT TEETH Undecided
 
what has bad teeth got to do with relationship/marriage even FRIENDSHIP Huh?

after all WE ALL SAY TRUE LOVE IS THE BEST

will you be ashamed to show off your boyfriend or girlfriend even your friends if they have bad teeth

SOME PEOPLE ARE SCARED TO KISS SOMEONE WITH BAD TEETH... Embarrassed na wa oo Smiley



Ewwwwww! there is no excuse in the world for someone's teeth to be that way.
120  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Why do some ladies glue themself to a guy on: 9-11-2010 01:46 PM
Quote from: O-Zane on  9-11-2010 07:02 AM
Even if d guy doesn't want them around, could that be love.

There could be something keeping her there and not all men speak the truth. If you are telling the girl one thing and saying another, what makes you think she's going to leave? Men could be bashing a girl and at the same time screwing her. Act as if he doesn't want her but when the girl tries to leave they will beg and stop her from doing so. They do this sometimes to make themselves look good around their boys; especially if their friend think the girl is not so good looking for him to be with. But when in private love this girl to death.

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