What an interesting post you coined there baby girl
so fun to be red but at the same time really educative.

While I`m a real friend to some, I`m a simple friend to some others and to the least, a combination of both.

It`s really crazy in here!
What`s going on here Uprising? ha! goodness me!

Were you told that one can marry a river? well, not Betty, no, no and no again!
 
It`s sweet to hear that however. How I wish you were not a rivulet but human,  marriage deliberations might have commenced
You`re just being naughty dude!

Can someone tell me at what age marriage could be termed "late"?.
I wouldn`t know why everyone seems to agree with this argument. I see it quit differently.

An unofficial research report shows that over 35% Nigerian ladies graduate from tertiary institutions married, while about 41% graduate with engagement rings on their fingers. About 5% of the later breaks up after graduation.
That means that over 70% of our ladies marry before or shortly after graduation and doesn`t necessarily mean that the rest (less than 30%) remains unmarried until old age.

I however agree that there`re ladies, who marry or would want to marry at late 30s & early 40s but they`r a very insignificant minority in Nigeria.

On the other hand, education opens a new version of wisdom and knowledge and therefore introduces a new lifestyle as a result of a new life perspective, behavioral change that matches the new life, and completely different sets of ideologies (the speedy reduction of family sizes among the middle class is evidential;one,two or three children as against 11, 12,13...).

The new lifestyle contradicts the traditional African cultural practices.
Women now understand themselves as "whole", (full human) with rights & respect, independent entities and no more mere kitchen servants & child production machines that answers --yes Sir-- to every erection without love making.

Again, bearing in mind that there`re more educated women than men in the present day Nigeria, most women find it very difficult to adjust back to the world of uneducated men in marriage due to the shortage of educated men, after haven been introduced to a completely new world.
The fear of misunderstanding of ideas, unnecessary arguments,  wrong interpretation of lifestyle, wrong & irresponsible presentation of oneself in the public, unlit future full of ordinarily avoidable uncertainties that might not be avoided due to ignorant partner etc., force some women to chose satisfying themselves & utilizing their freedom before venturing into such marriages.

Ascribing it to the hope of abroad based Nigerian guys is a misunderstanding that emanates out of ignorance attached to the believe "I know" due to a few cases of such.
And even if that could be true, then the guys must have known the lifestyle the ladies seek for and not just for the sake of being abroad or being financially buoyant.

Permit me to ask: must a lady marry? must she marry early? must she even marry a Nigerian based...?
A change of attitude on the side of our beloved, honored, most cherished & celebrated Nigerian men `ll go a long way to correcting this "minority lifestyle" if that must be.

There`s nothing wrong with what you do pal.
"Oyibo" does it after all; Don`t even think of stopping, what for?
Enjoy yourself to the fullest Nigga!!!.

I wouldn`t know if you`v ever tried your mother and sisters?
Please do, if you haven`t. You`ll enjoy them better than your step daughter.
And hei, don`t you have daughters? visit their bedrooms tonight and I bet you, you `ll not stop screaming neither would u ever regret.

Just go on, on anything female around you & don`t forget the ones on the streets. You don`t need to beg for it.

Just enjoy yourself, life is short you know.

You guys should please stop coining untrue stories just to attract attention, arouse unnecessary sympathy and cause more damages to the already damaged state.

I took time to research this story only to find out it was a manufactured story. No Nigerian paper nor website carried the story and I`m yet to read it in any foreign site. We should lean not only to discourage but to encourage ourselves here.

To cause damage is the simplest thing to do in matter of seconds but to repair costs decades of hard work.

Showing up is not enough dude
tell us what you think and probably the arguments behind your opinion

Lest I forget,

We love Afro-Americans; Nigerians and None-Nigerians alike.  And for a few, who brings them bad name,  get a life!!!.

hahahahahaha

You guys are really funny

That could be because of unrefined arguments and irresponsible choice of words like yours.

Why wouldn`t people in the third-black-unlit-underdeveloped-hard & hot world with no govts. but wise, enlightened, intelligent, coordinative, educated, open & hardworking...
not hate others like you, who`re from the same genealogical tree with them but arrogant, rejective, full of superiority complex, yet unenlightened & in most cases uneducated & uncultured, even in the industrial-free-democratized-lit-well governed heaven of a world?

We`re all in the gutter, but some of us are looking at the stars
To live is the rarest thing in the world. Most people only exist but do not live.

Nothing that is what knowing can be taught!

60s and 70s?

I wonder if the sectionalist (PDP) cares at all.

But isn`t this national terrorism? Isn`t it horrifying enough?

These are men and women with O-Level certificates (bought GCEes) and others with degrees from different home & abroad universities but never saw the four-Walls of the university.
These are men, who cannot introduce themselves with good English sentences,rather, with a combination of English & pidgin-English.
Men that are yet to learn, how to present themselves to the public.
Men, who could not interpret the a law they made by themselves in 2009 but yet earn more than people, who exhaust their intellectual & political acumen on daily basis for the betterment of their societies.

What a shame to my dear state; Nigeria

I wouldn`t wanna met him. Don`t ask me who but I`d always wanna meet you.

This post is yet to be authenticated

mmm, what a great lose.

Condolences!!!

I think some are really scared while some others don`t take it serious, both of which could be understood.

I`v ordered for one. I hope it `ll be beautiful.

Abiakwaghi m ebe a tata. Chere ka m gafere, biko.

Back-stage news, call it gossip if want but some earn their bread from it.
More popularity for the pretty girl.

Hahahahahahahahaha

`ll be back pls