Sorry Pal, you are in a Devil and Deep Blue sea situation here. If you tell her love ( you have already said you don't) you would be lying. Lying to someone who is dangerously on the edge like her will lead to something even more dangerous like having her keep you caged so that even your female family members will not be able to be around you without her being violent, she will also want you to do only what she likes, and see who she likes you to see and threaten violence when you show that you are drifting away from her. On the other hand, telling her you do not love her will make carry out the threat she made. As much as I would advise honesty here, this girl sounds like she is emotionally unstable and is obsessed with you. One rather mischievous option would be to fake the fact that you and your family had to move from your present address and please do not leave her your new address or she will stalk you like a serial Killer.

I know how the 'Ladies man' tag seems to get most men on an Ego trip high, but i love here is the fact that you've finally come to the Cross roads. That is only the start to the road to recovery. Most people may prescribe rehab for Sex addiction but over 60-70% of people who go for Sex Rehab always relapse into the habit again. One thing anyone needs to do when going for war is a proper evaluation of your enemy's strength and Strategy and your strength and strategy. You have to consider very carefully the fact that when you start this recovery process there is no going back. Starting seeing yourself as being a person who can live without having sex with strangers.
1.  Always remind yourself every morning that the person you were is going to change after you have prayed to God to Help you change (You are really going to need God here!).
2.  Avoid anything that will remind you of the Life you want to change (anything relating to Sex or even intimacy)
3.  Old friends and Old flames will be a real challenge here so make your mind to stay away from them until you can be around them without wanting sex. tell people that you are not the same who likes sex that much anymore and mean it!
4.  Get something to occupy your time and take your mind off sex.
5.  Avoid being alone with anyone (especially females) and in dark rooms.
6.  Anyone who does not want to believe you do not want sex, you may have to be very rude and tell the person to leave you the hell alone!

Good luck in your quest for change!

Unless the husband and wife set limits to their Marriage as to what they can do to each other without physical violence, I really do not see a problem here. i would gladly shave my Wife's pubic hair it came to it. That's why we're married. No secrets between each other which also includes sex issues .

Men always associate money with the finer things in Life. For us, Money gives you the confidence to get the finest ladies. Men feel they have to buy their way into a lady's heart

Forgive me if I say that you have a Devil and the Deep Blue sea situation on your hands here. Most Nigerian Men tend to be too traditional and say sex early in a relationship spoils it. That's for guys who their relationship with the woman revolves solely around sex. maybe, it could lead to the relationship getting boring or monotonous. But, on the other hand, most men are really not into platonic relationships either. For me, Sex spices up a relationship. BTW, most women may see you as being queer if you do not make segxwal advances at them in a relationship

Great! another one with the Girlish Celebrity crush. Get real lady! I am quite sure he's got at least 15 other girls who have his picture plastered all over their rooms. I'd find myself a person who would most likely notice me. Tonto Dikeh is a Sexy looking celebrity I like but I certainly do not make this much of a big deal of my attraction to her. You are seriously bargaining for a Major dose of 'Chimkpam' (Tiv for 'broken heart') here.

Talk about having the tables turned on you. Serves them right! I really wonder why people still think of molesting women in these times. Most women these days are getting more and more liberal so, I consider molesting as being barbaric and completely unnecessary. I, for 1, would not even rape a girl even if she asked me to

And what would you say about Nigerian women with an Old fashioned Victorian-era approach to sex? Not showing any emotion during sex, afraid to experiment beyond the good old missionary position and even refusing to have oral sex done to them. Those points count only when the woman is segxwally liberated and the guy seems to come from the 19th century. I suspect that most women would be afraid that a man would think that they are the loose type if they express themselves or try to show a man how they like to be pleasured.

Many People get married for a lot of the wrong reasons instead of the right ones then end up finding out the hard way the truth behind the statement 'marry in haste, regret at leisure'. Marriage is never something that should engaged in without serious consideration of the implications and what it entails. One should be careful about the reasons for your engaging in marriage in case you end starting a journey that you may not finish.

Why would ladies be disappointed when a man displays his nature? Even women would have to admit that you all want man who has more than just a casual interest in you. If you are with a man and he talks to you like you you are not attractive, I'm quite sure a good number of women would be disappointed term him a 'phyuk up'. Sorry but as morally inappropriate  as it seems to be, a man is usually turned by what is physical which happens to be the woman's physical endowments. Most women are aware of this so they make the most of it. Some girls like putting on Jeans that make the most of their behind while some like low-cut dresses to emphasize their cleavage. Women, I'm sorry to be blunt honest here, only like a gentleman when it suits them. They all secretly want a man who pants after them like a Rabid dog.

Most of the times people lose track when the 'Flirting' is going too far. The two parties involved need a clear and well-defined boundary with which they should operate. If the person flirting is married then that is forbidden territory which is aptly termed 'Infidelity'. If they are two people, neither of whom are in a relationship, then go ahead and flirt with each other. But, do not put the wrong ideas into each others heads. One of the main reasons why flirting turns into a bitter contest for revenge is one of the two parties starting teasing and misleading the other. Do not toy with a Tiger or Tigress and think you can deny him or her their due!

Enough Said! Whoever posted will have to deal with the wrath of the average Nigerian woman who thinks she is doing her best to change her skirt-chasing husband's ways without success.

I have heard about the 'Do me, I do you, God no vex' doctrine. Recently, I have come to realize that when you use such an excuse to seek redress for any wrong done to you become no better than the people who are guilty of that crime. The fact that someone stole from you does not mean you steal from another person in revenge.

If you choose to set the Dog free, You have little control over what the Dog does. I think you should have smelt a rat in your friend's solution to your problem. However, you did not say how your friend is reacting in this present situation of things.

Sorry, But in a society like Nigeria, Women always like the 'Status Quo' to be maintained. Men have to make the first move in everything except where women reserve the authority to ask for money without prompting and without the option of refusal on the man's part. Maybe in more 'westernized' societies would that have been possible. However, men also do not help matters with their rather archaic approach to the same matters as well. Don't get me wrong. I am for women taking their place in traditional male issues. I don't know if other men are of similar mind.

Sorry to be the one to break it to you but in 8 out of 10 love scenarios, nice guys usually do finish last. Forget all that 'Tongue in cheek' statement about  women wanting nice guys with a good sense of humor. What women really want are Bad boys who look like Nice guys. A true-to-type nice guys will not get the girl  he has his eye on. Some faster-talking Bad boy has already swept her off her feet while the nice guy was being romantic. He is one who stays behind to pick up the pieces of her broken heart after the Bad Boy has had his fill.

I would say that the girl just found a man who just wasn't meant for her. Pity it was the hard way! What's the guy's problem? Does he intend to write her autobiography? Why the desperate interest in her family history? As far as she doesn't have an incurable illness or incurable tendency to infidelity, I would say that the Guy is just a compulsive perfectionist who may end not getting his queen until he is due for voluntary retirement. Everyone has a history (May be bad or good). But if you spend the rest of your life looking for a complete angel to marry then you are on the wrong planet! Try Heaven!

Sex-texting can lead to cheating in a relationship where both parties are either looking for a reason to cheat or have no emotional discipline in the relationship. Sex-texting is actually meant to spice up a relationship with your partner. Like someone already said above, it depends who is sex-texting and to whom?

Need any further comments? Gbam!

How would you judge your performance with a woman when you're having sex with her? Would you prefer she give a 'football match-style' commentary for you to know how she feels?