The questions that really need addressing here are: Did you start dating her solely because you wanted to have sex with her or is there something else you are not telling us? Is Sex all that exists between you two?

I have to say here that the issue of the timing of sex in a relationship is highly overrated. if you look at things more closely when you have sex in a relationship is not a necessary determinant of how long the relationship will last. it is only a move that puts the female on the advantage of keeping the man for longer than just one night

Depends on the Girl or girls that you have around you at that point in time. Girls are not exactly the same everywhere you go. You may have to keep trying out girls before you get the right one (for a Girlfriend relationship)

It's really a devil and deep blue sea situation. Not confessing would still complicate things as when the other party finds out your coming clean would not mean anything. On the other hand, your confessing would only give you a clean conscience not a guarantee that your partner will forgive you. It's chance that you have to take (that is confession) in the interest of the health of things between you two.

Its entirely your choice. If 'You like to try, Before you buy' then go for it. Most people feel that waiting for the wedding night makes the marriage more successful. I beg to disagree. The Marriage depends entirely on the two parties involved here. As far as I know, Delaying sex until after the wedding doesn't mean on of the two parties won't stray in the course of the marriage. After all, after you buy a car, Its the way you maintain it that will decide how long it remains usable for your mobility.

Why spend so much time and energy looking for something when you're more likely to find Hens with teeth in their beaks? Virgins are good to get but there's no evidence that when you find that elusive virgin that she'll be with you till death parts you both. Stop setting too high standards for yourself or you'll end up old and gray before you settle down. 

She's not your Wife. You're not obliged to stick with her, Just let her go!

That's if your husband agrees with you. No hunter chases two rabbits in different directions should expect to catch both of them (you usually end up losing both). You may finally have to choose between your husband and the black guy.

I don't have any problem with gender equality. I only see discrepancies in Gender Equality with a 15-minute head start for the women. In life, you take the bitter with the sweet. If women want to equals with men, no problem. I just have a problem where women want be equal with men (which was abhorred by our fore-fathers), but still want the 'Statusquo' of men making the first move in everything to be maintained. There should be no Sacred Cows in this matter. The man does all the calling in a relationship, he does  all the buying he takes the lead in everything that involves spending money and resources. No pain, No gain. If they women want the equality they seek then let them earn it like they want men to earn everything they think that we have earned.

I would disregard all that asking after age stuff. Just be yourself and tell her how you feel. I know how that sounds but, it definitely sounds better than the option of dying in silence. Worst case scenario is she'll say 'No' with some excuse about why she said that. You may feel crushed after she does that but it ain't going to kill you (TI says 'Whatever doesn't kill you makes you stronger'). Besides you'll be the wiser if she were to turn you down (God Forbid it happens!). I think you should be more worried about your next course of action is her answer were to be 'Yes'. That's because you'll both be in New Relationship territory (which I would have to say is more or less uncharted waters for the 2 of You).

Guy, run like hell! That's one Love triangle you don't want to get mixed up in.

This is the oldest subject in Humanity. Logically, It would be expected that a Good Girl would go for a Good guy. In reality, Most women dream of a having a Life filled with excitement. Most Good Guys are too predictable which is what many women don't like. Predictability equates Boredom. Most Bad Boys, on the other hand have the added advantage of having the money to 'Trip' the girl. So, the girl is blinded by all the glamor that that the bad boy creates. She ends up walking into a silky web not suspecting that she will be bitten by a spider. When she has had her heart broken (Bitten by the spider), she can react in one of two ways. She can avoid all guys or next time go for a guy who is sincere and avoid one who who only offers you a good time and a broken heart at the end of it all. Not everything that glitters is gold. A guy who has money has little or no chance of remaining faithful to a girl as the money is simply something that either makes him feel the girl is after his money so he wants to get as many girls as he feels the money can get him or he's an incurable player who just can't stay true to one girl. A guy who doesn't have the money and chooses to be a player would be a total fool as he may find many girls who would settle for a guy without the cash so stick with the one you got (A bird in hand is worth 2 in the bush). Ladies, have to decide whether they want excitement or commitment and that it's very rare before you get both in the same place. it's simply a matter of choice. 

i don't know whether they're traditional or not but all I know is that they look incredibly sexy on women. I love seeing them on women especially when they're naked (Sorry, the frankness people).

Many Guys say that Rape is the result of a lady tempting them. One way to overcome any temptation is to avoid an atmosphere that encourages temptation. Most times a girl will be giving Body Language that indicates the green light but in reality she's just teasing. while some girls usually invite rape I really don't think the perpetrator (The man) is completely innocent. You have a secret weapon called the Will to choose. You can choose to say yes to what you think she's offering you or No and go your way. Rape is a completely unnecessary action. why resort to it when there are Prostitutes who wouldn't mind offering it to you any way you wish if you can't control yourself? If you decide to rape a girl, as a man you take the lion share of the blame for putting yourself in the situation that makes it possible. Control is what puts Human Beings at the Apex of civilization. We can say 'No' when we want to choose when to say 'Yes'. No girl, no matter how much she becomes a tease, should be raped. Rape no matter how much the temptation is excusable. As a man you can let the girl go is she becomes too unmanageable for a relationship.

One thing in Life I desperately try to avoid is the 'Fatal Attraction' or Unrequited Love Syndrome. You may problem have a change in the situation in the future (only if the lady's not Nigerian, Mind you!!!!). Apologies to the Ladies in the house anyway. Any sensible man or woman should do all they can to avoid knocking his head against a brick wall. Anyone who doesn't love you may not love you ever again. The chance of the person a total '180' to love you again is really, really slim and that's really not good. Try to be careful before you start investing emotion into a relationship. I'm not saying that giving yourself in a relationship is bad, just don't get caught in the trap of giving love that won't be returned. This applies to men as well as women

You either hang on to get your share of the 'National Cake' or Dump her and find a girl that's all yours alone. Choice is yours!

Since Phones and the internet became a norm in this country, that's old news. Poetry makes more sense though

Would you prefer to discuss the latest church sermon or the bible during sex? Dirty talking for some people is the only way they can get an orgasm (which is the second most important goal during sex besides conception). Besides, why all the 'Who will bell the cat attitude?' If the girl wants to talk dirty during sex, I don't see that as a problem. As a man, I need to know how the lady's feeling and my performance level

In Life, the package is more important than the packing that it comes in. if her honeypot is good,why worry about all that hair? Ladies usually love hairy guys so why can't we return the favor. I know there's a guy wouldn't care a hoot about all that hair. Ugly women still get married so why should that hair stand in the way of a guy who would love her?

Why would you be looking for a virgin at this time? You would had better luck finding one during the late 80's. These days, I wouldn't even be able to vouch for any girl above 14 in Nigeria. Just take what you see and live with as best as you can. Old age and 'Konji' go kill you if you begin look for things wey hard to find or have already been found by some other guy