lol we are actually the same height but he knows what my preferences are and also that He is all I want and need in a man

O my.......where did this come from in what she wrote


and @poster maybe this post would have been better in confessions where your Identity is kept private, because now you have told a thousand strangers your family business as well just like your husband, well I pray things work out in your marriage

stunning

every decision a man or woman makes is a choice, if you choose not to date a person soley on the color of their skin alone and u also hate that race of people then its pure racism, but if its just not your preference it means you  just know what you like, I am not attracted to Caucasians(Oyinbo) because I like black men but I have Caucasian(Oyinbo) friends. I prefer a dark skinned tall man to a lighter skinned man but I dont care much for African American men either, just because I am more into my Naija men, simply a choice, that's life lol but that doesn't mean I will never love another in fact my Hubby is a light skinned short Naija man lol but I love him all the same

@poster, you are fine just the way you are, no need to flirt some guys are actually turned off by it, you can still be admired and get the same attention but you will still need to work on your confidence 

thats the koko abi? respected

I dont like it, too close for comfort, God forbid the relationship doesn't last or ends badly, then everyday you come home he is right there, not for me...

no religion is without sin, no man is without sin, and if there are some false prophets in the world, lets not judge the whole religion based on individuals sins, @poster just because you do not see, gays coming out publicly in your religion does not mean they are not there, Posts, and comments like this is what leads to war in various religions, what ever happened to respecting one another, and setting aside differences, but then again I guess you are entitled to your opinion.....

Oh my goodness reading through some of this posts I am appalled,  is this what Niajapals is all about? is this what we Nigerians do best, fight and insult ourselves like we lack proper up bringing I am really in tears at the site of all of this, I came here in hopes of mingling with my people and this is one of the first posts I land on, I read about 5 pages and this just tore me apart................can we just leave the insults alone please..................being Nigerian used to mean culture and respect above most things   :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(

yes 4 people that let stereotypes form their opinions for them

complete BS............................even AKATA men are running from AKATA women..................please get your facts straight no disrespect just stating a fact

wow what  why would you go through that and then leave her? just trying to understand here

one word beautiful

LOL 100% for attitude

sounds like you guys need to spend one on one time together and the truth will begin to reveal itself

wow I dont envy her

Beauty is a matter of OPINION and has nothing to do with where a person is from

everyone has their preference but as for me something about a mans dark skin is very attractive.................love the skin you are in all