Real, true love is unconditional !!!

Date: 02-02-2012 2:00 pm (12 years ago) | Author: Akin Al-ameen
- at 2-02-2012 02:00 PM (12 years ago)
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Real, true love is unconditional. All other “kinds” of love are not really love. Most people on this planet have never experienced unconditional love in their entire life.To love someone unconditionally means that you love the person exactly as they are, exactly as they were before, and exactly as they will be in the future – because people change all the time, so if you love the person, you will love them even if they become something you disagree with. True love is not about you or your pleasure or your amusement. It’s not about what you get out of it or what the other person can give to you. It’s not about having a trophy you can show off with and tell people “This is *MY* girlfriend/boyfriend/wife/​husband/son/daughter/​whatever”. You do not “own” anyone. It’s not about you feeling ‘proud’ to be with someone who always agrees with everything you say and do and never does anything you disagree with. Unconditional love means that the person can just live their life exactly as they choose and you will always be there for them no matter what.

There aren’t any different types of love. There is only love. The different “types” that people perceive are either love mixed with other things, or different ways of expressing love.For example, the typical example of unconditional love is a real mother’s love for her child that's a good example of the purest form of love.
 A real mother will have sleepless taking care of her kid.she will go to sleep hungry just to make sure the kid eats in the morning.No matter what d baby did at night the mother will still wake up in the morning and still find joy in her child.She will refuse to function when the baby is down.And when the baby grows up and he decides to go or make any choice the mother allows him to make any choice as long as he is happy with the choice.The mother never feels like the child is indebted to her for the love and care she gave him when D kid is growing up.

Erotic love” is the one everyone is always talking about.If you love someone and U are segxwally attracted to them, then that’s exactly what you are. you love the person, and you’re also segxwally attracted to them.Two seperate concepts.This is why it’s entirely possible (and quite common) to be segxwally attracted to someone without actually loving the person at all.A lot of people get confused with this and think that if they love someone, they must get love back in return.they put all their efforts to show the person they love and care,but loving someone does not really guarantee the person has to love you back.Most people these days only have infatuation about physical appearance and personal achievements and fame.Some men are attracted to a woman *Ass&Boobs, and will go into a relationship with her just because of that.Some ladies are attracted to a man because of his height,money,position,stat​us and fame and because of this they start a relationship with no single feelings of love but they claimed its love because D infatuation is giving them sleepless nights and they think its love..sometimes ppl get married in this type of situation.but after a while problem will start because those things that attracts both of them is not there anymore or they got tired of it.

** Akin Al - Ameen **
 

Posted: at 2-02-2012 02:00 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
- Adikpe at 2-02-2012 02:17 PM (12 years ago)
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Nice piece.

True love is rare to find, because ladies nowadays seems to love you for what you have rather than for who you are.
Posted: at 2-02-2012 02:17 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- modavi at 2-02-2012 02:48 PM (12 years ago)
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YEA... Wink
Posted: at 2-02-2012 02:48 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- chicco77 at 13-09-2012 08:50 PM (11 years ago)
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hmmmmmmmm
Posted: at 13-09-2012 08:50 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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