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To each her own abeg.

Cliche, pleasure, uncertainty, displeasure... whatever!

Quote from: dodobaby on 5-01-2011 09:21 AM

im dating this 27year old guy,he,s financially stable,caring, responsible and marriage material the problem is he is too matured such that he act,s like a 40 year old man there,s no romancing,how do l change him because the love is fading out out slowly.....

So U are with him cos of the convenience that comes with being with him?

lets hope i come back when this thread is still fresh. Now sha i've got to go.

Quote from: omorewa on 29-12-2010 01:06 AM

why, should he or she be jealous when they have moved on too..

i would rather make him jealous with his date....

Happens.

Quote from: hayjay75 on 13-07-2008 08:24 PM

can you marry who is 10yrs older or younger to you?yes?no?give reason please my good people.

When I was quite younger I had the age gap pegged at 10years younger than me and no more and one year older than me max.
Now I've gained more knowledge in these things I would go 15years younger and still one year older. My reasons: Personal.

Quote from: esonu on 29-12-2010 02:07 PM

lets assume u had a gurl u were going out with when u were still very young, mistakenly u impregnated her but u couldn't marry her cos u are not yet ready to marry then..now u are financially buoyant,old enough to settle down and the lady u impregnated then is still single, will u marry her or look for someone else? ladies how will u feel if a guy who impregnated u at a tender age gets matured and decide to marry another woman?

Question is: Did we (the lady and I) nurture the relationship against the odds? Did we keep it real till now? If yes then possibly; if no, then not likely.

Quote from: terdue on 28-12-2010 10:01 AM

PLEASE GUYS HOW DO YOU COPE WITH WOMEN,ESPECIALLY MARRIED MEN?

Build Ur character and integrity before U get married. He's no man that can't say NO.

Quote from: blessedme on 29-12-2010 09:45 AM

I mean by dressing and also turning his d!ck into her toy and always caressing him at every slightest opportunity

Not a crime to do it once in a while or when she feels like but if that becomes her priority to know greater end she should be ready to stick to him when eventually because he indulges her actions they end up poor?

Quote from: esonu on 29-12-2010 01:50 PM

How does one regain trust in a relationship? lets assume ur guy/gurl has lie to u or went to bed with another guy or gurl and at the end,u discovered what happened..when the person pleads for forgiveness and promise to be faithful, will u ever trust him/her again?

Trust that is lost can be regained. It is not given. It is earned. If she can earn my trust again then she will have my trust, but I will not give it to her just like that.

Repentance is when u have a change of heart and work to live a new life, not when U ask for forgiveness.

Quote from: sojekin2 on 26-12-2010 04:40 AM

hello pals, i meet my gf 3 months ago on facebook. we were good chatters and before i knew it, i feel deeply in love with her.we always chat almost everyday on 2go and we usually call ourselves and send text messages to each other. i had a heart break 2 months before i came to Europe. my problem is that, i really love my new gf so much and i dont want to lose her. i have tested her in so many ways but she seems to be faithful. and i would be coming to nigeria specially to see her next yr. pls pals advice me on what to do. i dont want to have a heart brk the second tym. what should i do, should i continue loving my sweethrt behind curtains?

Dude, take it one step at a time. Ur getting urself worried already. that will instill fear in U and fear will end up crippling Ur opportunities to make good something u enjoy.

Quote from: omorewa on 22-12-2010 02:57 AM

IS IT TRUE?....... WHAT COULD PUSH A WOMAN INTO DOING THIS???

GUYS DO YOU BELIEVE YOUR WOMAN/ GIRLFRIEND EVEN ORDINARY FEMALE FRIEND CAN BEAT YOU?

LADIES HOW WOULD YOU FEEL IF YOUR MAN TELL YOU THAT HIS EX USE TO BEAT HIM Shocked

(ANYWAY I TRUST LADIES IN NP CAN'T DO THIS NA)

gosh i didn't know that some women are wrestlers oo(UNDERTAKER)beating up their guy...

Some do. Guys aren't all strong and/or aggressive; girls aren't always weak and docile.

Quote from: bittersweet on 26-12-2010 04:19 PM

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Quote from: samboko on 25-12-2010 06:13 PM

At what point do you stop loving someone you ever loved?

There is no point, unless of course u think we are drones, in which case life will be boring and we won't really everyu fall in or out of love.

Quote from: bittersweet on 25-12-2010 06:17 PM

At the "cheating point "!

Bullsh*t

Excuse me?
What was that? Angry

~~Binta~~ I mean, BitterSweet, Did u miss me?

I said bullsh*t cos that's not true. When u discover Ur partner is cheating is when U realise how much u do love them or never really did.

Quote from: proly on 23-12-2010 10:23 PM

plz can u marry a man dat u dnt luv very urgent

U don't love or u don't feel in love with? I'm probably late anyway so...

Quote from: esonu on 22-12-2010 06:21 PM

what is it u find so attractive in ur gurl/boyfriend which makes u believe he or she is the best lover in the whole and for that reason, u will never let him/her go?

Eyes, Lips, (smile), Skin colour, waist, hips, butt, height.

Not everyone thinks the same or shares the same values. He might be telling a true story.

Quote from: xgel on 25-12-2010 11:52 PM

What should you do if you met a guy on the Internet and you are a little concerned that he won't like you if he meets you?

Meeting someone u met on the net in reality usually is initially awkward for both parties, but if u both can be mature and realize that u have to catch up with reality and update "Ur servers" enough to get comfy, the initial awkwardness soon passes and the friendship can make headway.

Quote from: omolanre on 25-12-2010 08:43 PM

I LOVE SOMEONE BUT I DON'T NO HOW TO TELL HER. Angry

I hope U at least have a relationship with her; a platonic one if nothing more cos if U don't then U myt be going ahead of urself and that could be disastrous. take it slow guy; get her attention and make her fond of u first then help her discover she's in love with u before u reveal Ur feelings to her. Girls have a strange way their minds function. best u put her in the lead.

Quote from: PreetyInstinct on 24-12-2010 05:52 AM

We'll not exactly,

But do you eva find dat when ur with some1 for a while, u start picking up some of their habits or ways that they do things?

& do the things that ur partner/spouse teach u stay with yu? even if u both separate.

Huh?

It happens. Some things we pick up become a part of our personalities permanently. Pick ur friends carefully. Iron sharpeneth Iron.

Quote from: colenzo on 26-12-2010 04:01 PM

so what if u get married and down there get real bad smell what will you do

Refer her to a gynecologist. U know what hospitals are don't U?