Did already but will do again if U want me to break it down.

GBAM!

If U have nurtured other forms of intimacy properly and haven't ignored them, It's easier to know when a spouse is being unfaithful. U don't have to undress them and measure anything.

The countenance and carriage of a person who has been unfaithful to someone is hard to conceal.

Anyway, best not to go looking for signs. Pray God draws Ur spouse to Himself and he/she submits to the wil of God and U won't have to worry about these things that breed fear and destruction to what can be good.

What is wise in heaven can be stupid on earth and what is stupid on earth can be wise in heaven. Scripture expressly lays down guidelines/instructions for marriage. He who has ears to hear, and he who knows what is right to do and fails to do it, to him it is sin.

U grew up abroad didn't U? Either that or bible study has not been a habit in Ur life? Liberal as U sound it seems U are open to the idea of divorce if things aren't ok?

My God expects me to serve him according to His will not my perceptions and He expects me to obey even when i do not understand or feel like it. Now if a man chooses to marry according to the ordinaces of God, God expects that man to live the life of a married man as he prescribes and as a service to God not man. Living for Ur wife or husband based on how U feel or don't feel is not the way to be the right spouse. God first, others follow and if Ur spouse is not playing his or her part, we will each answer to God and give account to Him of all He entrusts us with. it's that simple.

How e take concern U?

Hmmm. I see.

I believe those called to submit are wives to husbands. Don't get it twisted.

A good life is a service to God. Wives should submit to their husbands as a service to God, whether the husband shows his love or not. Husbands should love their wives as a service to God whether the wives are submissive or not. At the end we will stand every person alone and God will judge us all. Who has been found faithful in his/her calling as wife or husband will be rewarded.

These instructions were without condition. Abi dem don dey remix Bible?

Everything is acceptable if the two can agree and within the matrimonial covenant.

Better to be diplomatic about sex: what goes and what's a no-no shouldn't be hard and fast rules unless of course they violate Ur person or are contrary to God's ordinaces.

Sex knows no gender till conception takes place. There's nothing wrong with a man or woman expressing themselves with their partners and both sexes have libidos and the urge to satisfy or be satisfied is not gender biased.

With the right person in the right relationship, sex can be a wonderful thing.

Of course if U built the relationship on sex in the first place U shouldn't expect that communication of other forms on other levels will be so smooth or welcome.

Intimacy should be built one simple block after the other.

Erm, what's this post about?

True love makes U a stronger person. It redefines Ur character, refining it and makes U more Godlike than anything else can.

Now if it's the lovzy dovzy feeling based love U are talking about, Ur answer could be yes.

I didn't go away o. I've just been more inactive here than active lately, but I'm always one notification away.

Who force U come. Temptation works from inside out, not the other way around. If the kitchen is to hot for Ur good, stay out.

Its at times like this that the Defense Industries Corporation should step up and put this guy to work on a large scale with all the financial backing and support he needs. Don't say I told U so but one day if nothing is done with him by the Nigerian government, U might hear that "he now works for NASA"

After small girls don show us the way finish say dem no send why we go gree say dem don change when dem don old? A leopard never changes it's spots and boys scouts learn to be prepared.

Mos def one guy don wound U for this life or wound person wey U like well well. Babe, take it easy na. Haba!

Na only goat dem dey pursue?

Follow her lead with just enough space to keep U in contact while preserving her comfort.

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Depends on what school of thought U belong to. Personally if the I think girls would have fewer problems if they could keep their legs closed longer than they feel they should.