Quote from: sophiebaby on 30-07-2012 10:58 AM
Interestingly enough, even guys themselves often don’t know what they want from the woman they are seeing. Their vision might be blurred by a strong lust to the degree where they themselves don’t know what they want until after they satisify their segxwal urges. a guy who thinks that he is interested in dating a certain woman, might change his mind immediately after having sex with her, realizing that he wants nothing else from her but what he just received again a one-night stand, but the one that he didn’t plan to have. It can be painful and unfair to women, but he doesn’t really have a control over that.
What do you expect when a lady thinks giving in to segxwal demand would secure her a place in a guy's heart and thereafter starts nagging and choking the guy up with demands and ownership stuffs? Ladies should understand that a guy looking for a lasting relationship would not pressure her for sex and if she 'bribe' him with sex when they barely knew each other, she is DOOMED. On the other hand, a guy who pressure a lady for sex has shown what he wanted, so why hunt in an already conquered territory? My submission is that a lady is the architect, to a very large extent, of whatever happens to a relationship after sex is given and taken.