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1  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Avoid The 7 Most Dangerous Dating Mistakes Men Make on: 10-03-2014 03:15 PM
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2  Forum / Relationships & Romance / HOW TO FIND LASTING LOVE on: 10-03-2014 02:51 PM


A healthy, loving relationship can enhance many aspects of your life, from your emotional and mental well-being to your physical health and overall happiness. For many of us, though, finding someone we want to share our lives with can seem like an impossible task. But don’t despair, even if you have a history of relationships that don’t last or if you feel burned out by traditional and online dating, you can still learn how to find lasting love. Life as a single person offers many rewards, including learning how to build a healthy relationship with yourself. However, if you’re ready to share your life with someone and want to build a lasting, worthwhile relationship, life as a single person can also be very frustrating.

Finding the right romantic partner is often a difficult journey, for several reasons. Perhaps you grew up in a household where there was no role model of a solid, healthy relationship and you doubt that such a thing even exists. Or maybe your dating history consists only of short, abrupt relationships where you or your partner gets bored too soon, and you don't know how to make a relationship last. You could be attracted to the wrong type of person or making the same bad choices, due to an unresolved issue from your past. It's also possible you're not putting yourself in the best environments to meet the right person, or that when you do, you don't feel confident enough to approach someone. Whatever the case may be, it's important to believe that a healthy romantic relationship for you exists in the future.
It's also important to recognize that relationships are never perfect and always require lots of work, compromise, and a willingness to resolve conflict in a positive way. To find and build any relationship worth keeping, you may need to start by re-assessing some of your misconceptions about dating and relationships that can prevent you from finding lasting love..

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5  Forum / Relationships & Romance / How to Avoid First Date Disasters on: 16-02-2014 03:47 PM


Some of us have been out of the social scene for so long that we forget how to act on a date. Then there are those who have never known the proper way to act in certain social situations. Perhaps the following advice will help.

MEN: Getting up your courage, you finally asked her out and to your surprise, she accepted. Everything seemed to go well, but each time you asked her out again, she was "busy".

Here are some examples of what to do, and what not to do on a date. If you are guilty of any of these on a first date, it is probably why she was always "busy" when you asked her out again.

Picking up your date: Try not to arrive early. She's trying to make herself beautiful for you and it will make her feel rushed. If you're going to be late, call her, even if you're only a few minutes late.

Being only five minutes late could make her think she's been stood up or that you're irresponsible and inconsiderate. The thoughts will grow with every passing minute and by the time you arrive, she won't be in the best of moods.

One of the worse things you can do is to drive up to her residence and blow the horn to let her know you're there. Always greet her at the door. If she comes out to greet you, don't stop and wait for her to get to you; meet her halfway.

Having a small token for her is always a good start. A single rose is nice or even a small #300 to #500 bouquet of flowers you can purchase at any grocery store and most convenience stores.

Don't "bathe" in cologne. People have allergies and you'll be together in the car for a while. Too much cologne can be suffocating. Always compliment her appearance, but don't over do it. A simple, "You look nice," will do.

It is not a good idea to try to hold her hand or put your arm around her when you pick her up for the first date. First dates are basically for getting to know each other. It's tacky to assume on a first date that she wants to hold your hand or have your arm around her. When you get to your destination, walk with her to the door, letting her enter first.

When you leave the restaurant, movies or wherever you take her, it may be appropriate to take her hand or put your arm around her, depending on how the date is going at that point.

Conversation:
Be yourself. Don't try so hard to be cool; it's a big turn-off. Don't talk shop. What you do for a living may be interesting to you but will probably bore your date to tears.

Never talk about past relationships. If it somehow comes into the conversation, don't put your past dates down. It's not mature and will make you look bad.

Try to start the conversation off by asking her about herself. Here are some good conversation starters:

How long have you worked at your job?

How long have you lived here?

Do you have family living in the area?

What do you like to do for fun?

Do you have any hobbies or special interests?

But don't barrage her with questions. One question should start a conversation. Allow her time to ask you a question. Don't answer her questions with your life story or bend her ear all the way to your destination about yourself. It makes you sound insecure, like you're trying to sell her on the idea that you're a great guy.

Manners and etiquette.
While women of today are independent, it is still a good idea to seat her at the table by pulling out the chair for her unless the waiter does it first.

Before ordering wine, ask her which she prefers. If she leaves the choice to you, and you're not sure, white wine may be a little dry for her taste and red may be too sweet so a nice rose wine would be a good choice.

Telling your date to order anything she wants is very tacky. It implies that you would ordinarily order the cheapest thing on the menu. Looking over the menu, volunteer what you are going to order before asking her what she is having.

Tip generously, but not overly so. A small tip makes you look cheap. If the tip is too generous, it makes you look frivolous.

Taking your date home:
Never ask your date if she had a good time. It makes you sound insecure. Most women will thank you for a nice evening.

It's always nice to mention how you enjoyed her company and it is a good time to ask if you can see her again. Her response will give you a clue as to how to handle the goodnight kiss.

Walk her back to her front door when the evening is over. Don't just let her out at her residence.

The goodnight kiss.
Asking her on the way back if she would like to see you again will determine what you should do when you walk her to her door. If she's reluctant to give you an answer, responding with "we'll see," or says she wants to see you again, but has to check her schedule, she could be simply brushing you off.

It may be best at that point to tell her again that you enjoyed her company, say goodnight with a smile and go back to your car.

If she readily accepts another invitation, you know the first date was successful. Take her hand at the door, say you enjoyed her company and kiss her goodnight.

WOMEN:

You have been hoping he'd ask you out and the day finally arrived. Everything seemed to go well, but he hasn't asked you again since.

Here are some examples of what to do, and what not to do on the first date. If you are guilty of any of these on a first date, it is probably why he never asked you out again.

When your date arrives:
It was once a popular belief that a woman should keep her date waiting so she could make her grand entrance. No one wants to be kept waiting, especially men. Be ready when he rings the doorbell.

If he brings you a token like a rose or a small bouquet of flowers, don't over react. It will make you look as if you've never received a gift from a man. A simple, "Oh how nice, thank you," will do.

Do not douse yourself with perfume. People have allergies and being in the small confines of an automobile for any length of time, it can be suffocating.

Always compliment his appearance, but only after he compliments yours. To do otherwise may look as though you are asking for a return compliment.

Conversation:
Be yourself. Don't try to be something you're not- it shows. Don't talk about problems you're having at work or with family/friends. It makes you sound like a complaining bellyacher

Never talk about past relationships. If it somehow comes into the conversation, do not put your past dates down. It's not mature and will make you look bad.

But don't barrage him with questions. One question should start a conversation. Allow him time to ask you a question. Don't answer his questions with your life story.

Manners and etiquette.
Never comment on the prices listed on the menu. If he couldn't afford to take you there, he most likely wouldn't have.

Don't prop your elbows on the table or lean against it. Sit up straight with hands in your lap, unless you're eating of course. Place the napkin in your lap, not on the table. If for some reason or another you have to say something with food in your mouth, cover it with the napkin.

Coming home from a date.
Always thank him for the evening. If you're getting close to home and he hasn't asked to see you again, he may be waiting until he takes you to your door. But it's okay to say you'd like to see him again at this point.

If he leaves you at your door with a halfhearted statement like, "maybe we can get together again sometime," then politely goes back to his car, he'll more than likely not ask you out again. If he kisses you goodnight, your first date with him was a success.

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13  Forum / Relationships & Romance / 5 Romantic Valentine's Day Ideas for a Date at Home on: 14-02-2014 11:06 AM
Are you a busy person, couldn't find a a babysitter or planning a last minute Valentine's day date? Try some of the following ideas in the comfort of your home:

Picnic in the living room - With a few purchases from the grocery store you can have a great date. Grab a few items such as fresh fruit, a drink of your choice, some caviar or other spread, french bread, flowers, chocolate, etc. Lay a blanket in the middle of the living room to set up your picnic, light a couple of candles, and put flowers in a vase.

Watch a movie or play video games - Watching a movie with your sweetheart is always a great way to connect and relax. Choose a movie that you both enjoy. A love story is always a great choice, or you can decide on the movie together by playing a game where you both choose one movie and then have the other guess which movie it is by providing clues. Make popcorn and enjoy the date. Playing video games together is a great way to connect with your sweetheart and catch up on some video games you haven't played in awhile.

Grilling and relaxing on the back porch - Cooking together is enjoyable and relaxing as it gives both of you time to take it easy. You can make your own dinner at home without having to make reservations to a restaurant. This way you can enjoy a quiet dinner together.

Look at old pictures together - Snack and look at your pictures together and the memories you made as a couple over the years. You may even put a scrap book together. If you don't have many memories yet, take silly pictures and talk to each other about the fun times you already had together. Chocolate and other fun snacks are a must as well as your favorite songs playing in the background.

Fashion show and dancing - Plan a short fashion show where you can try your best dresses and outfits (for guys) and make a runway in the hallway. When you both found your favorite outfits, dance the night away.

You can use these ideas for other date nights as well. To make Valentine's Day romantic do not forget the flowers, chocolates and little things you both enjoy. You may even have little surprise gifts for each other. Have a nice and romantic Valentine's Day!

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15  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Avoid The 7 Most Dangerous Dating Mistakes Men Make on: 14-02-2014 08:35 AM
Whats up pals,. I'm going to share MANY of the secrets I've learned about how to approach women. starting conversations, getting dates, and taking things to a "physical" level easily and without rejection.

Now let's get started..."The seven Most Dangerous Mistakes YOU Probably Make With Women And What To Do About It...

"Here Are The Top seven Reasons Why Men Fail WithWomen And How To Make Sure YOU Avoid Every One Of These Deadly Common Mistakes...

MISTAKE #1: Being Too Much of A "Nice" Guy Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem to be attracted to"nice" guys? Of course you have.Just like me, I'm sure you've had attractive female friends that always seemed to date "jerks"but for some reason they were never romantically interested in YOU. What's going on here?
It's actually very simple...Women don't base their choices of men on how"nice" a guy is. They choose the men they dobecause they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them.And guess what? Being nice doesn't make a woman FEEL that powerful ATTRACTION.A nd being NICE doesn't make a woman CHOOSE you. I realize that this doesn't make a lot of logical sense, and it's hard to ACCEPT... but GETOVER IT.Until you accept this FACT and begin to act on it, you'll NEVER have the success with women that you want.

MISTAKE #2: Trying To "Convince" Her To Like You
What do most guys do when they meet a woman that they REALLY like... but she's just not interested? Right! They try to "convince" the woman to feel differently.Well, I have news for you... YOU WILL NEVERCHANGE HOW A WOMAN "FEELS" WHEN IT COMES TO ATTRACTION! Never, ever, EVER.You cannot CONVINCE a woman to feel differently about you with "logic and reasoning".Think about it. If a woman doesn't "feel it" for you, how in the world do you expect to change that FEELING by being "reasonable" with her? But we all do it.When a woman just isn't interested, we beg, plead, chase, and do our best to change her mind. Bad idea. One that will never work.

MISTAKE #3: Sharing "How You Feel" Too Early InThe Relationship With Her
Another huge, and unfortunate, mistake that most men make with women is sharing how they"feel" too early on. Attractive women are rare.And they get a LOT of attention from men.Most men don't realize this, but attractivewomen are being approached in one way or anotherALL THE TIME by men. An attractive woman is often approached several times a DAY by men who are interested.This translates into dozens of times per week,and often HUNDREDS of times per month. And guess what? Attractive women have usually dated a LOT ofmen.That's right. They have EXPERIENCE.They know what to expect And one thing that turns an attractive women off and sends her running away faster than just about anything is a guy who starts saying "You know, I really, REALLY like you" after one or two dates.This signals to the woman that you're just like all the other guys who fall for her too fast... and can't control themselves. Don't do it. Lean back. Relax.There's a much better way...

MISTAKE #4: Not "Getting" How Attraction Works For Women
Women are VERY different from men when itcomes to ATTRACTION. You need to accept this fact, and deal with it.When a man sees a beautiful woman, he INSTANTLY feels a sexual attraction. But does the same apply for women? Do women feel sexual attraction to men based mostly on looks? Or is something else going on? Well, after studying this topic for over five full years now, I can tell you that women usuallyhave their "attraction mechanisms" triggered by things OTHER than looks. Have you ever noticed that you see a lot more average and unattractive men with beautiful women than the other way around? Think about it.Women are more attracted to certain qualities in men... and they're more attracted to the way a man makes them FEEL than they are to looks alone. If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a beautiful young woman. But it's not an accident. You have to LEARN how to do this And ANY guy can learn how...

MISTAKE #5: Thinking That It Takes Money And Looks
One of the most common mistakes that guys make is giving up before they've even gotten started...because they think that attractive women are onlyinterested in men who have looks and money... or guys who are a certain height... or guys who area certain age. And sure, there are some women who are only interested in these things. But MOST women are far more interested in a man's personality than his wallet or his looks.There are personality traits that attractwomen like a magnet...And if you learn what they are and how to use them, YOU can be one of these guys.YOU DO NOT have to "settle" for a woman just because you aren't rich, tall, or handsome. Let me say this again: If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly,you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.

MISTAKE #6: Not Knowing EXACTLY What To Do In Each Type Of Situation With Women Now I'm going to blow your mind...A woman ALWAYS knows what you're thinking.Women are approximately TEN TIMES better than men at reading body language. That's ten TIMES. I know, it might be hard to believe. But for example, if you're out on a date with a woman, and you want to kiss her, she knows it.And if you don't know exactly what to do and exactly HOW to kiss her, and you just sit there looking at her and getting nervous, she won't help!And this goes for ALL aspects of women and dating...Approaching a woman, getting her number,asking her out, kissing her, getting physical...everything. If you don't know what to do in each situation, you will probably screw it up... and LOSE EVERYTHING. And you KNOW it. It is VITALLY important that you know EXACTLY how to go from one step to the next with a woman... from the first meeting, all the way to the bedroom.

MISTAKE #7: Not Getting HELP This is the biggest mistake of all.This is the mistake that keeps most men fromEVER having the kind of success with women that they truly want. I know, guys don't like to make themselves lookweak or helpless. We don't like to ask for help. Hey, I've been there myself.Let me tell you a little about me and how I figured out how to be successful with women...About five years ago, I became fed up with thefact that I didn't know how to approach, meet, and get dates with women that I was attracted to. It frustrated the hell out of me. One night I was out with a friend, and I saw a woman I wanted to ask out, but I just couldn'tget up the nerve to do it. I can still remember that night... right on the spot I made the decision to do whatever it took to learn how to be successful with women and dating.Well, after a lot of hard work and trying all kinds of crazy things, I finally figured it all out. I can now approach just about any woman and get her number almost instantly. I've dated models. I've dated actresses, and I've dated nice, normal, regular girls as well. It has a very rewarding experience. I no longer feel that sick, insecure feeling... like Idon't know how to meet women... and I might wind up alone. I know that anytime, anywhere, I can go out and meet attractive women.

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