@eagle eye
obstinance: isnt a good quality, being opinionated is(maybe that's what you mean)
if not, it means basically you crave ,a myopic human, who just sees things from the self perspective
such a person wont be healthy i a relationship as the 'me' 'my' factor tends to creep in
rigid. . . .that's also another small trait in the word(pix this, sex must always be on the bed, with the lights off)
anyways cant think of more,at least not yet.
my three would be
sassy,honest and intelligent
And this is supposed to be a good quality
i will take obstinance instead of sassy, i believe
choices varies ok.... different strokes for different
folks.