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1  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: How to Know If a Guy Likes You (Page 13) on: 16-04-2011 09:00 PM
It's funny...

because if you have to sit there and develop methods to see whether a guy likes obviously means you are interested in the guy. why can't a lady, in this circumstance, just simply walk up to a guy and express herself? is it a false sense of chivalry that's stopping her??
2  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Would you allow your Guy or Girl to do this? on: 16-06-2010 08:33 AM
Depends on where my mindset is. If it's "just a chick im with"...i wouldn't care....however, i'd do worse. It was a girl i was serious about...then ermm....No. If she wants to do anyway...ill just be like peace. That's disrespect
3  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Why 9ice’s marriage broke down on: 18-05-2010 04:25 PM
Why do we care about these guy's personal life?? does it help us sleep better at night knowing about 9ice's failed marriage?
4  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Pastor Scales Fence To Evade Arrest on: 18-05-2010 04:23 PM
the pastor asked for like almost 500,000...she was a dumb chick. If a pastor told me that im his spiritual advisor and asked me to give him even half of that tell him to kiss my ass in the name of Jesus.
5  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: THE WORSE U CAN DO FOR LOVE on: 28-04-2010 01:14 AM
I used to kill myself...but now,....Nada
6  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Should married women go clubbing? on: 28-04-2010 01:11 AM
Wife go clubbing? sure, if she's comfortable with me going to the strip club.
7  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: My Wife To Be Cannot Cook Very Well. Does It Matter? on: 21-01-2010 12:28 PM
If She can't cook...NO RING ON THAT FINGER HOMIE lol...picture coming home..thinking ur gonna get some jollof rice and some sex. all u gonna get is some mcdonalds and before u try to have sex, ull probably get heart-burn
8  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: what character in a woman makes you crazy and love her the more on: 21-01-2010 12:26 PM
When a girl listens. That's all I need
9  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: WILL YOU RE-DATE HIM OR HER AFTER BREAKING UP DUE INFIDElITY:::: on: 19-11-2009 08:51 PM
Nope...well..i would but now ill treat her like shit...she'll become a jumpoff.
10  Forum / Family / Re: My Wife Loves Sex Too Much, Says 60-Year Old Man on: 19-11-2009 08:48 PM
lucky man...he should just pop open a bottle of viagra and continue onnnnn
11  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Most Embarrasing moment on: 22-06-2009 02:49 AM
Quote from: Toks-E on 20-06-2009 09:45 PM
Quote from: jmobbz on 20-06-2009 08:26 PM
u wouldn't want to know..... too nasty...and it involved someone's face? do u now get an idea?? lol

kai, i wander hw the slap sounded.....u knowwww, lyke an atomic bomb  Grin Grin Grin

lol....u think when I mention face...I mean slap??? maybe I should've said someone's Nose....someone got "milk" in their Nose...

do u understand better?

12  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: can u operate same bank account wit ur partner? on: 22-06-2009 02:48 AM
Never...don't care how much I love her.

If we end up having a joint account....u better believe it'll not be my main account.
13  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: What do u think. on: 20-06-2009 08:40 PM
Quote from: ebemka on 19-06-2009 09:26 PM
I've bin in relationship for quite a long time wiv a lady.
I loved her so much that i was ready to do anything for her love, but she didn't like me that much: she prefered some other nasty guys than me.
It amazes me, when i observe that she gets jealous when she see me hangin out wiv other girls.
What do u think?
Would it be better if i should continue tryin to win her love or other wise...
Cuz, she drives me crazy each time i luk into her eyes.

"I loved her so much that I was ready to do anything for her love"...

in a way...this doesn't make any sense're saying that you love her but she does not love you... LOVE her and she doesn't even LIKE you "that much"...boy, you're in trouble.

Sounds like she's into playing games. I don't know how you really personally feel about her, but if she's all about the games, then I'd move on man and find someone who won't take you for is too short for that bullshit. Don't try to change yourself to be like the "other guys"...just be you and someone who will value you/accept you for who you are...will show up.
14  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Its Relationships a Distraction? on: 20-06-2009 08:35 PM
Quote from: princemech on 18-06-2009 05:13 AM
I wonder sometimes if this so called "relationship" that we seek is simply a distraction from our lives and our purposes here. What do we gain from relationships that allow us to become better people? Do relationships truly bring out the best in us? When they end in divorce do we take responsibility for our part in it and move on our true path in life? I wonder what young children learn from watching us adults fumble in relationships.

Are relationships a distraction from our true purpose in life?

You sound cynical (but so do I most of the time). Relationships, in my opinion, aren't really a "distraction". There is a purpose for relationships...which is to learn. You might say "but learn what?" learn what to do and what not to do when it's time for God to actually bring you into the position where the person you meet is intended to be in your life as a wife/husband. Sounds like bullshit...but its the truth. If you were never in a relationship, how would u know if you're in love? Wouldn't it suck to be with someone for so long only to realize you didn't actually love them? I'm talking about REAL love...not that stupid shit like "oh baby...i think about u everyday" or "I love kissing you" blah blah. This is what relationships do...they simply teach you. The problem with people is that they think EVERY relationship they get into is going to be permanent...which is a lie. Relationships are equal to the people in your life. Not every one is going to work...but every one is definitely going to teach you or influence your views on certain aspects of your life.

The point of life is to learn and grow. Avoiding relationships is counter-productive to this. Take everything (enjoyment, heartbreak, etc) as it is and use it to GROW. Eventually....eventually, (assuming you learn well from your experiences) you'll be in a position where you'll begin to focus on courtships rather than relationships.
15  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Most Embarrasing moment on: 20-06-2009 08:26 PM
u wouldn't want to know..... too nasty...and it involved someone's face? do u now get an idea?? lol
16  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: GIRLS GIRLS GRILS!! on: 20-06-2009 08:21 PM
Quote from: cjluis on 20-06-2009 12:59 PM
Is this true ? .... Girls are like internet virus, they enter ur life, scan ur pocket,transfer ur money,edit ur mind, download their problems, delete ur smiles and hang u for ever, Beware................!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

17  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Ladies,Will U wait For Him on: 20-06-2009 07:01 PM
Quote from: realbebe on 16-06-2009 01:50 PM
ok poster let me be sincere
9ja guys still dey grow up in that aspect of life
if i approach a guy and xpress my feelins the guys go dey talk say no be him call me say na me call am so u see why girls no dey too walka talk

Not always...when a girl comes up and approaches me...I put on a smile and do what needs to be

I never look at her funny or judge her cuz I don't like chasing too many girls anyway. So when she chases me, it kills the time/effort so why would I complain?
18  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: does he like me? on: 20-06-2009 05:35 AM
Quote from: pepigambit on 19-06-2009 07:59 PM
men wit an a** like dat wat the hell is that guy u beta chek yasef......

how could ya see her ass...that pic is so small...and plus, in my experience, Jeans can be deceiving
19  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: can u ever? on: 20-06-2009 05:33 AM
20  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Someone pls tell me...If love ever existed on: 17-06-2009 02:51 AM
Quote from: diplomatic on 16-06-2009 09:41 PM
I've gone out with 3 girl friends in 3 months.
They ended up dumping me telling me they dont love me.
What do you i do?

I really hate when people abuse the word love. 3 girls in 3 months and none of them love you...big ****ing surprise dude. Trying committing and actually establishing a long-term relationship before you cry about a girl not loving you.
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