I Met dis guy Somewhere and ever since the day i met him he has been so nice 2 me. Initially, i wanted us 2 be just friends but he insisted and pleaded with me 4 us 2 be intimate friends, saying that he has passed through series of hart breaks and he dosn't want me to break his heart. To a point he became so caring and loving, and i fel in love with him despite the nature of church he attends (O O O Bu), my mind was made up 2 be with him and everything went on well untill Early Last Month when he pleaded dat i should visit him, initially i neva wanted to, but just 2 let him knw dat i also felt somthn 4 him i agreed 2 visit him. On my way travelln,on arrival at the town, i stoped a bike 2 take me home unknown 2 me dat dis bike was one of those bad boys in town i entered the bike and he pretended going 2 my direction and later took me 2 somewhere different and it was very late dat i couldn't seek 4 help anywhere. i arrived on a saturday and i was delayed till on monday b4 i was release on monday evening, b4 den, my phone was collected 4rm me unknw 2 me dat dey called my uncle and requested 4 a sum of N20.000 b4 i'll be release and it was after the payment was done on monday dat i was release. Imediately when i came home, i asked my younger sister if she ve heard anythn from my guy, and she told me dat he was bordered at first but later he sent her a text dat i've tricked him. even after i explained everythn 2 him d next day He neva believed me, he abandoned me until i left the town back 2 my base and now he's sending me text msgs as if he cares about me, pls what should i DO? My hart bleeds each time i remember wat i've passed though and I'm confuse

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Posted: at 1-11-2010 04:31 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

Do u still love him like u used to?

Posted: at 1-11-2010 04:37 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

this is a mouth full

Posted: at 1-11-2010 04:42 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Sorry babe for the hell you went through in  hands of those jerks...i sincerely felt for you being there with those heartless kidnapper, but it's an adventure, now you haveyour story, we all have encountered similar ones or even worse... but you must stop feeling that it was becos of this ur guy that made you go through such pain..maybe he dn't understand...yeah, at first i would think it was all lies that you didn't even come if i were your guy..he cares and that i know..it's only that you were unfortunate that day, he must have probably prepared luscious treatment for you but was saddened by your not showing up....sorry girl

Posted: at 1-11-2010 04:48 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

TAKE SOME TIME OFF TO THINK REALLY DEEP ABT DIS WHO KNOWS

Posted: at 1-11-2010 04:53 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Where is LOVE without TRUST........If you give me the impression that you dont trust me one bit, I will take a WALK.........God knows how I hate to be doubted when I have said the truth........

Posted: at 1-11-2010 04:55 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

i ve always said that love is WICKED,now look at the sacrifice you went through just because of this guy..mayB the caring one's re not yet BORN

Posted: at 1-11-2010 04:58 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Where is LOVE without TRUST........If you give me the impression that you dont trust me one bit, I will take a WALK.........God knows how I hate to be doubted when I have said the truth........

Y? most u hate saying d Truth, Cos there is no truth in U

Posted: at 1-11-2010 05:02 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

heya sorry... but first chill out jor

Posted: at 1-11-2010 05:03 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Where is LOVE without TRUST........If you give me the impression that you dont trust me one bit, I will take a WALK.........God knows how I hate to be doubted when I have said the truth........

Y? most u hate saying d Truth, Cos there is no truth in U

You are probably seeing double............read that last statement again and tell me what you see.......

Posted: at 1-11-2010 05:07 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

am speechless .....

Posted: at 1-11-2010 05:08 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

heya sorry... but first chill out jor

Hmm I jump no comments 4 nw

Posted: at 1-11-2010 05:08 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

I Met dis guy Somewhere and ever since the day i met him he has been so nice 2 me. Initially, i wanted us 2 be just friends but he insisted and pleaded with me 4 us 2 be intimate friends, saying that he has passed through series of hart breaks and he dosn't want me to break his heart. To a point he became so caring and loving, and i fel in love with him despite the nature of church he attends (O O O Bu), my mind was made up 2 be with him and everything went on well untill Early Last Month when he pleaded dat i should visit him, initially i neva wanted to, but just 2 let him knw dat i also felt somthn 4 him i agreed 2 visit him. On my way travelln,on arrival at the town, i stoped a bike 2 take me home unknown 2 me dat dis bike was one of those bad boys in town i entered the bike and he pretended going 2 my direction and later took me 2 somewhere different and it was very late dat i couldn't seek 4 help anywhere. i arrived on a saturday and i was delayed till on monday b4 i was release on monday evening, b4 den, my phone was collected 4rm me unknw 2 me dat dey called my uncle and requested 4 a sum of N20.000 b4 i'll be release and it was after the payment was done on monday dat i was release. Imediately when i came home, i asked my younger sister if she ve heard anythn from my guy, and she told me dat he was bordered at first but later he sent her a text dat i've tricked him. even after i explained everythn 2 him d next day He neva believed me, he abandoned me until i left the town back 2 my base and now he's sending me text msgs as if he cares about me, pls what should i DO? My hart bleeds each time i remember wat i've passed though and I'm confuse

I don't know if your story is true. If you are, forget about the guy. If you are not a liar, delete that guy from your life. You sound like a foolish innocent girl. If your story is not a lie, delete that guy permanently from your life.

Posted: at 1-11-2010 05:11 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

dis one na waec o..

Posted: at 1-11-2010 05:14 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

I feel pity for u!well i think u should first of all relax your mind in other to get over the trauma you went through in the hands of those bastards. then you can think properly before taking any decision.my view is,If you still have a strong feeling for him then give him a second chance cuz non is perfect.....i think everybody deserve a second chance.peace

Posted: at 1-11-2010 05:28 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

sorry.....hope they didnt rape u ??lolz

Posted: at 1-11-2010 05:29 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

U've been turning down his invitation thats why he thinks this is one of ur excuses.I'll think thesame way too.Well d guy cares so give him a chance to prove it.U myt not knw what u have till u lose it

Posted: at 1-11-2010 05:31 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Hmmm u may be right here sha

Posted: at 1-11-2010 05:35 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

@poster i don't the guy trust u or maybe he feels u don't want to visit him and u are using that as an excuse, i think u shld hv a break with him let him see his mistake and y he shld trust u

Posted: at 1-11-2010 05:58 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

I Met dis guy Somewhere and ever since the day i met him he has been so nice 2 me. Initially, i wanted us 2 be just friends but he insisted and pleaded with me 4 us 2 be intimate friends, saying that he has passed through series of hart breaks and he dosn't want me to break his heart. To a point he became so caring and loving, and i fel in love with him despite the nature of church he attends (O O O Bu), my mind was made up 2 be with him and everything went on well untill Early Last Month when he pleaded dat i should visit him, initially i neva wanted to, but just 2 let him knw dat i also felt somthn 4 him i agreed 2 visit him. On my way travelln,on arrival at the town, i stoped a bike 2 take me home unknown 2 me dat dis bike was one of those bad boys in town i entered the bike and he pretended going 2 my direction and later took me 2 somewhere different and it was very late dat i couldn't seek 4 help anywhere. i arrived on a saturday and i was delayed till on monday b4 i was release on monday evening, b4 den, my phone was collected 4rm me unknw 2 me dat dey called my uncle and requested 4 a sum of N20.000 b4 i'll be release and it was after the payment was done on monday dat i was release. Imediately when i came home, i asked my younger sister if she ve heard anythn from my guy, and she told me dat he was bordered at first but later he sent her a text dat i've tricked him. even after i explained everythn 2 him d next day He neva believed me, he abandoned me until i left the town back 2 my base and now he's sending me text msgs as if he cares about me, pls what should i DO? My hart bleeds each time i remember wat i've passed though and I'm confuse

I don't know if your story is true. If you are, forget about the guy. If you are not a liar, delete that guy from your life. You sound like a foolish innocent girl. If your story is not a lie, delete that guy permanently from your life.
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THE FACT THAT  U LIE ALOT DOSN'T MEAN EVERYBODY DOES SAME. THIS IS MY STORY AND I NEED ADVISE 4RM U. DO U THINK IT'S VERY EASY TO DELETE HIM JUST LIKE DAT? BELIEVE ME U WON'T WANT 2 EXPERIENCE SAME IN UR LIFE

Posted: at 2-11-2010 11:16 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie

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