Why in 9ja, wife's money is hers while husband's money is theirs? (Page 4)

 

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Posted: at 24-04-2012 01:05 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Abeg see comment...Lamo
Generally in the  Nigerian culture, men are the head of the house and are RESPONSIBLE to support their family financially.  Well, because of this ideology most women do not see the need to contribute financially as it is a burden for the man to bear. But in the western  world the reverse is the case. Everything is  50:50 ie they couple bear the financial burden together.
  Trust me dudes, just accept that responsibility bcos an average 9ja woman would assume that her hubby is not financially cable(aka broke ass ) to support his family if she has to contribute. It is not the woman fault  because we live in a society where responsibilities are shared between men and women. And unfortunately for men you guys hold big responsibilities such as finance.. If you want peace to reign and your ego as a man to remain intact just do what is expected of a man. A 9ja woman is more likely to contribute once in a while but if she  sees it as her duty then in most cases the woman would see herself as the head of the family particularly if she earns more then her hubby.

Posted: at 24-04-2012 01:09 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

hehehehe...my sister, i tire oo! see ths topic wey i bring come here na for church lessons the wahala start oo! most women just dey whisper dem no gree contribute for church

Posted: at 24-04-2012 01:14 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

see war! for ur mind u don talk carry yansh comot abi? i tell u say i no fit take care of my woman ni abi u knw read the topic wella. i fit take care of u join my woman sef. if the topic take style style affect u confess for here. dnt use wuru-wuru & mago-mago dey pour the topic on me cos its nt abt me but the general 9ja women believe.

SHIKENA!!

Posted: at 24-04-2012 01:19 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

No, the topic no affect me ooo, na becos ur babe no gree give u money na e make u come post this one here.  No worry i go remember u in my prayers so that she will help u

Posted: at 24-04-2012 01:29 PM (12 years ago) | Hero

tnx my dear. i dont have a problem taking care of a woman even if she's making money more than me bt refuse to contribute. am rich enuf to pay for som1's scholarship but the truth is, guys are now seeing things differently & they won't marry a woman who is koboless or respect a wife tht over-depends on them.

Posted: at 24-04-2012 01:43 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

Sorry bros, back to sender.  My guy respect me die and he does not care how much i earn.  I support wen i feel like doing so and he appreciates it

Posted: at 24-04-2012 01:49 PM (12 years ago) | Hero

 

Posted: at 24-04-2012 01:53 PM (12 years ago) | Hero

hmm... good answer! but b4 u go dear, cn u tell me wht a woman's duty is?

Posted: at 24-04-2012 02:05 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

His helper..in the sense that she cook...satisfy him very well in bed, make him happy u know...women got a lot to do..so the only one of the things a woman will wants from her man is just to let the money to keep flowing ...and leave the rest for her...she s capable of taking care of them.

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Posted: at 24-04-2012 02:17 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero