There is a serious issue in Nigeria for many years where married couples are suppose to be partners but nooooooooo! Instead, a wife working & making money on her own, ties her money to herself while she believes her husband's money belongs to her. Even cases where the wife is making money more than her husband she still expects her husband to feed & pay all the bills in the house including her own bills.
Some wives will even wait till their husbands get back from travels before collecting money for feeding the children while the ones they made on their own are pocketed. Situations where some wives buy properties or cars in their own names while their husbands buy properties with their names like Mr Jude & Mrs Princess Okere for property title documents but same can't be said of most 9ja women. The best u will get frm most 9ja women is borrowing which alws leads to fight & insults if the husband failed to return it on time.
Now my question is - is this fair to we guys or husbands in this society? Why will a woman pocket her own interest funds while she spends the token her hubby makes claiming her money is hers while his money is theirs? Wht the hell is the meaning of this? Smells like a day light scamming....
Guys, is this fair enough? Ur wife spending frm ur money while she keeps hers without even letting u smell it?
Ladies, can your money be shared btw u & ur husband's equally like men do their wives (note I said husband nt boy friend)?
Ladies again , if u are making money more than ur hubby, will u be kind enuf to relieve him of som major burdens in home expenses without collecting it back claiming tht u only borrowed him e.g. paying house rent without asking back even if he's nt tht broke?
I believe marriage suppose to be a partnering thing to show love & support not a choking life decision....
Posted: at 24-04-2012 08:00 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
sophiebaby at 24-04-2012 09:48 AM (12 years ago) (f)
Quote from: Thomax on 24-04-2012 08:00 AM
There is a serious issue in Nigeria for many years where married couples are suppose to be partners but nooooooooo! Instead, a wife working & making money on her own, ties her money to herself while she believes her husband's money belongs to her. Even cases where the wife is making money more than her husband she still expects her husband to feed & pay all the bills in the house including her own bills.
Some wives will even wait till their husbands get back from travels before collecting money for feeding the children while the ones they made on their own are pocketed. Situations where some wives buy properties or cars in their own names while their husbands buy properties with their names like Mr Jude & Mrs Princess Okere for property title documents but same can't be said of most 9ja women. The best u will get frm most 9ja women is borrowing which alws leads to fight & insults if the husband failed to return it on time.
Now my question is - is this fair to we guys or husbands in this society? Why will a woman pocket her own interest funds while she spends the token her hubby makes claiming her money is hers while his money is theirs? Wht the hell is the meaning of this? Smells like a day light scamming....
Guys, is this fair enough? Ur wife spending frm ur money while she keeps hers without even letting u smell it?
Ladies, can your money be shared btw u & ur husband's equally like men do their wives (note I said husband nt boy friend)?
Ladies again , if u are making money more than ur hubby, will u be kind enuf to relieve him of som major burdens in home expenses without collecting it back claiming tht u only borrowed him e.g. paying house rent without asking back even if he's nt tht broke?
I believe marriage suppose to be a partnering thing to show love & support not a choking life decision....
Poster..bfor i comment... answer dis Q... Is ur wife pocketing her money? if yes? why are u pocknosing into her pocket? huh
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 24-04-2012 09:48 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Poster..bfor i comment... answer dis Q... Is ur wife pocketing her money? if yes? why are u pocknosing into her pocket? huh
hahahaha... ur response says it all.... shows am right cos if am nt, u wud av just given me a simple answer! chai! women too dey do ojoro, see as u dey dodge the answer.
Posted: at 24-04-2012 09:51 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
exever100 at 24-04-2012 10:24 AM (12 years ago) (f)
na only suffer head like u dey see all dis one as prob,a man that knows his worth knows his responsibilities......provide 4 ur family,spend and stop complaining suffer head!
Posted: at 24-04-2012 10:24 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
ugotonder at 24-04-2012 10:32 AM (12 years ago) (m)
ANY WOMAN DAT LOV KEEPING HER OWN MONEY TO SPEND OR DEPEND ONLY ON HER HUSBANDS MONEY IS SO SO STUPID AND FOOLISH CUS WOMAN SUPOSE TO BE A HELPER TO D HUSBAND, BESIDES WHO IS SHE KEEPING DAT HER MONEY 4? ANY WOMAN DAT IS DOIN SO, D MAN SHLD KNOW DAT SHE IS SPENDIN DAT HER MONEY ON ANODA GUY OUTSIDE AND SUPOSE TO BE DISMISS FROM HOME 4 SURE
Posted: at 24-04-2012 10:32 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
na only suffer head like u dey see all dis one as prob,a man that knows his worth knows his responsibilities......provide 4 ur family,spend and stop complaining suffer head!
wht the hell did u mean by tht? pls if u aint matured enuf for a more compose & sensitive topic, get ur dirty ass out of my thread. for ur information, i'm more comfortable than ur bf or hubby can ever be & i take good care of my family alws.
Posted: at 24-04-2012 10:42 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
ugotonder at 24-04-2012 10:45 AM (12 years ago) (m)
WHY SHLD A WOMAN MAKE HER HUSBAND KOBOLESS WHILE SHE SUPOSE TO SUPORT D MAN AND CONTRIBUTE A LITTLE TO BUILD UP D FAMILY 4 THEIR OWN BETERMENT, OR IS IT A BAD TIN DAT D MAN RELIEF HER OUT OF BOUNDAGE BY MARRYIN HER CUS ANY WOMAN DAT HAS NO HUSBAND IS IN A BOUNDAGE OR A CADGE WAITING 4 D DAY SHE WILL GET OUT OF IT AND BE FREE [ DATS WEN SHE GETS MARRIED] SO WHY CNT DEM REALISE DAT D MAN HAV HELPED DEM OUT OF THEIR BOUNDAGE DAT THEY SHLD HELP HIM BACK TO PUT D FAMILY TOGETHER INSTEAD OF MAKING HIM KOBOLESS OR MONEYLESS
Posted: at 24-04-2012 10:45 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
Mthcew,na poverty dey disturb u,go beg ur wife make she give you money no come here dey complain for us.
na so immature bitches dey rant. its just a topic for wht happens in our society so get a life bitch!!! no one is talkin abt guys been broke here or any husband needing help here. am only bringing out a topic tht was discussed in church & mostly happens in a family. if u ar frustrated with ur life already pls take ur frustration out on ur sugar daddy!
Posted: at 24-04-2012 10:46 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
exever100 at 24-04-2012 10:49 AM (12 years ago) (f)
Quote from: Thomax on 24-04-2012 10:42 AM
wht the hell did u mean by tht? pls if u aint matured enuf for a more compose & sensitive topic, get ur dirty ass out of my thread. for ur information, i'm more comfortable than ur bf or hubby can ever be & i take good care of my family alws.
console urself......good 4 u anyway!!
Posted: at 24-04-2012 10:49 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
ugotonder at 24-04-2012 10:53 AM (12 years ago) (m)
GAL IM SORRY 4 U CUS UR BRAIN IS ROTATIN LIK A HAND OF CLOCK 4 MONEY AND UR MATERIALISTIC, IM SORRY 4 D PERSON WHO IS DATIN U OR WHO WILL MISTAKENLY MARRY U CUS HE HAV MADE D GREATEST MISTAKE OF HIS LIFE DAT WILL RULE HIS TALENT AND HIS LIFE AS WELL, NA UR TYPE WILL BE GOIN TO CHALETS TO GET MORE MONEY
Posted: at 24-04-2012 10:53 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
ugotonder at 24-04-2012 10:59 AM (12 years ago) (m)
THOMAX UR RIGHT BRO, DAT BITSH IS FRUSTRATED ALREADY AND SHE IS A CHALET TYPE, IF U PAY HER 200 NAIRA U WILL SLEEP WITH HER OVERNIGHT, LOOK AT HER SHE IS TOO SKINY AND TINY LIK
Posted: at 24-04-2012 10:59 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
sophiebaby at 24-04-2012 11:03 AM (12 years ago) (f)
Quote from: ugotonder on 24-04-2012 10:59 AM
THOMAX UR RIGHT BRO, DAT BITSH IS FRUSTRATED ALREADY AND SHE IS A CHALET TYPE, IF U PAY HER 200 NAIRA U WILL SLEEP WITH HER OVERNIGHT, LOOK AT HER SHE IS TOO SKINY AND TINY LIK
u u fat? huh..stingy man like u
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Posted: at 24-04-2012 11:03 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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