Am Married & Having a Crush On Another (Page 8)

Hi Sister!
I really support your courage in sharing this problem. Basically, anyone who says you are evil must be hiding something. We are all human and as humans, we are created to gravitate towards a good that we perceive in our environment. What I see in this situation is that this guy is an embodiment of what you hold deep in your being as good. The truth is you can not resist being attracted to this goodness and it is indeed very natural. Apparently, this guy's principles make him truly God-like and being made in the image of God, we should be attracted to such if we still have the essence of the purity of God. Yes, it is okay to be attracted to his beautiful personality but it is not right to offer ourselves to him because you now belong to your husband (and your husband to you). Also, sometimes, when we have been working together with someone for a while, we kind of get "used" to them and will naturally miss thier company if they are absent - this too is very natural.
However, when a person decides to give himself to another for the sake of the most Lovable and Admirable God, he/she has to fight tooth and nail to remain faithful to this giving. My sister I know its not easy but you are not in a perculiar situation.
I can imagine you might be finding it difficult to talk to your husband about it but if there is a way of talking with him about these things, it is usually the best way to diffuse these pressures. You should talk to some truly God-fearing and understanding person about these feelings. Its all part of the battle we have to fight as fallen man (and woman). Cheer up, pray and stay awake. You will come out victorious!

Posted: at 25-04-2012 11:45 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie

God bless u bro

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Posted: at 25-04-2012 12:23 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Nice advice guys!

Posted: at 25-04-2012 01:10 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

 

Posted: at 25-04-2012 01:17 PM (13 years ago) | Grande Master

Posted: at 25-04-2012 01:20 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

AM SO SO DISAPPOINTED IN YOU, A MARRIED WOMAN HAVING  A CRUSH ON AN UNDERAGED GUY, AND U EXPECT PPL TO CLAP 4 U
LISTEN MARRIAGE IS 4 MATURED BRAIN AND NOT 4 EVERY ONE. WHAT U ARE HAVING IS A PROBLEM OF MIND SET. AS A MARRIED WOMAN U SHLD  DRAW A LINE IN BETWEEN  SOME CERTAIN THING THAT COULD JEOPARTIZE UR MARRIAGE . U NEVER RESPECTED UR MARRIAGE AND UR HUSBAND THAT S WHY .BY THE TIME A MARRIED WOMAN SETS HER MIND ,IMAGINATION AND THOUGHTS ON ANOTHER MAN THATS  WHEN SUCH DIRTY FEELINGS COMES IN. YOU CLAIM TO HAVE SELF CONTROL , BUT BELIEVE U ME ,U HAVE NO CONTROL , U WERE JUST ACTING ON PRETEND AND FEAR OF THE PPL ARROUND. I LL ADVICE U TO TURN TO GOD , READ UR BIBLE ,FAST AND PRAY , AND BETTER STILL FOCUS ON UR HUSBAND , TALK TO HIM ALWAYS . IF U DO NOT SAY NO TO THE DEVIL ,HE LL SAY YES IN UR LIFE AND MARRIAGE AND REGRET SHALL BE URS. SO U BETTER TAKE THOSE RUBISH FEELINGS OUT UR MIND AND CONCENTRATE ON UR MARRIAGE B4 U RUIN UR LIFE.

Posted: at 25-04-2012 01:41 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

 

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Posted: at 25-04-2012 01:50 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Thanks sis 

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Posted: at 25-04-2012 01:53 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Hav bin betta....one of those dull days u knw 

Posted: at 25-04-2012 01:55 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

yeah..same here  

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Posted: at 25-04-2012 01:58 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero