How is this game"Keeping Relationship" played? (Page 2)

first of all ... Successful relationships take hard work. They don't happen in a vacuum. They occur when the couples in them take the risk of sharing what it is that's going on in their hearts and heads.

1. Understand that men and women are very different... We're not from Mars or Venus; we're not even in the same solar system. Understanding and celebrating our differences will make living together more peaceful, interesting and fun.

2. Honor your man in some way every day... Every morning, you have the opportunity to make your relationship sweeter and deeper by recommitting to your mate. Feeling respected and cherished by the one you love makes life much nicer.

3.  Anger is a waste of time... Anger also is a relationship killer because it makes you self-absorbed and won't allow you to see the good. If you are annoyed with your man, give yourself some time to calm down and then gently discuss what's going on for you....

4. Get regular tune-ups... Go to a couples/bf n gf (if any) workshop, talk with a counselor or read a relationship book together at least once a year. Even if you don't think that you need ideas, and the process alone will strengthen your connection.

5.  Find a way to become and stay best friends. For some, this sounds unromantic, but for those who live it, most say it's the best part of their time together.

6.   Be responsible for your own happiness..no other person can make you happy..It's something that you have to do on your own. If you feel that it's your partner's fault, think again, and look within to find out what piece may be missing for you.

7. Give what you want to get..... Our needs change with time. If you'd like to feel understood, try being more understanding. If you want to feel more love, try giving more. It's a simple program that really works....

8.  All arguments stem from our own fear or pain. When upset occurs, check out what's going on inside you rather than getting angry with your partner. Truth is that we usually aren't upset for the reasons we think we are.

First of all welcome back
Second don't u ever stick out your tongue again if u really wanna get positive answers lol

Anyway, there's a saying that goes, a way to a man heart is his stomach ,hope I quote it right.
Maybe there are something you ain't doing right, not that most of the ladies, that know how to keep a man are better than you. U just have to know how to treats your man right..make  him feels like a man not a baby.
Just be yourself..not like others
Above all the steps u needs to follow to keep a solid relationship, is first before going into a relationship pray over it.

This is for when the dude agree to stay in a relationship
But how about some that are not satisfy even though u did all these just to please him.

u cant do a thing to please ur man..please him and urself

first of all ... Successful relationships take hard work. They don't happen in a vacuum. They occur when the couples in them take the risk of sharing what it is that's going on in their hearts and heads.

1. Understand that men and women are very different... We're not from Mars or Venus; we're not even in the same solar system. Understanding and celebrating our differences will make living together more peaceful, interesting and fun.

2. Honor your man in some way every day... Every morning, you have the opportunity to make your relationship sweeter and deeper by recommitting to your mate. Feeling respected and cherished by the one you love makes life much nicer.

3.  Anger is a waste of time... Anger also is a relationship killer because it makes you self-absorbed and won't allow you to see the good. If you are annoyed with your man, give yourself some time to calm down and then gently discuss what's going on for you....

4. Get regular tune-ups... Go to a couples/bf n gf (if any) workshop, talk with a counselor or read a relationship book together at least once a year. Even if you don't think that you need ideas, and the process alone will strengthen your connection.

5.  Find a way to become and stay best friends. For some, this sounds unromantic, but for those who live it, most say it's the best part of their time together.

6.   Be responsible for your own happiness..no other person can make you happy..It's something that you have to do on your own. If you feel that it's your partner's fault, think again, and look within to find out what piece may be missing for you.

7. Give what you want to get..... Our needs change with time. If you'd like to feel understood, try being more understanding. If you want to feel more love, try giving more. It's a simple program that really works....

8.  All arguments stem from our own fear or pain. When upset occurs, check out what's going on inside you rather than getting angry with your partner. Truth is that we usually aren't upset for the reasons we think we are.

sis, if i tell u i do virtually all these will u bliv? dey ar just not genuine. its only d genuine ones and those dat want to b in a r/s dat dis is applicable to. i cant be understandin when i know he's playing games na..for e.g on vals day, my by (now ex) didnt call nor sent text whereas i did both, wen i asked y, he said dia was network prblm, d next day i saw him, a gurl was used as his screen saver...so tellme, how understandin can u be in this case??

Looks like women are having  filed day here. That saying is an old version. Any Girl who thinks that the way to a man's heart is through his stomach i think is aiming a little bit higher than the real target. Just bring Ur aim just slightly below his stomach and u'll find the real easy door.  
Jukky i am beginning to feel that this thing called RELATIONSHIP is a waste of energy.

Have ever given ur man a hard core fcuk? i mean u on him...  play games..like WAX NOSTALGIC? 

Have ever given ur man a hard core fcuk? i mean u on him...   play games..like WAX NOSTALGIC?  

U don kolo...
Sex cannot hold a man

lol..that val dey network bin dey worry na... but seriously...if u kip all those tins in ur hrt..like the screen saver tin..u'll end up killing ursef