@ Poster..am d last to promote divorce but even whn ur wife was at point of confession, she kept lying.... It will b very difficult Posted: at 27-05-2012 08:59 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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sharonlea at 27-05-2012 09:27 AM (12 years ago) (f) that is a family affair sorr i cant say anything Posted: at 27-05-2012 09:27 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie | |
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teral at 27-05-2012 09:30 AM (12 years ago) (m) that some women for you, my guy life gos on if i where you i we sent her away she could kill you, but dont transfer that anger to your kids still love them Posted: at 27-05-2012 09:30 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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osupia at 27-05-2012 09:50 AM (12 years ago) (m) 50kobo so ur wife na maradona........u ar finished
kikikkikikkikikikikkikkikikikikkikii............................no na hagi Posted: at 27-05-2012 09:50 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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osupia at 27-05-2012 09:56 AM (12 years ago) (m) Hello poster, there is nothing to trust anymore. How can you trust her again? If I were you, the best thing to do is to let her live your house, because anytime you are on top of her what you will remembering is how that her ex is harmaring her
kikkikikikikkikikikkkkikikikikikkikikkikii....................show remembrance na waooooooooooooooooooo Posted: at 27-05-2012 09:56 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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Osiki at 27-05-2012 10:32 AM (12 years ago) (m) Men are sometimes responsible for the actions of their girl-friends or wives because they appear too cool to them! My mother told me that what a man requires/needs from his woman/wife is fear and NOT love, because the latter can easily be abused! That is sounding Machiavellian even though my mother has never read the Prince in her life. Concerning the topic, the best SOLUTION is for the man to take another wife (without driving/divorcing the first one) and they will help him to monitor each other. Alternatively, show her your "NEW GIRL-FRIEND" and the decision to stay or live will be hers to make. I wish you the best of good luck! Posted: at 27-05-2012 10:32 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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Regenesis at 27-05-2012 10:40 AM (12 years ago) (f) ......
Be yourself. Posted: at 27-05-2012 10:40 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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mimo581 at 27-05-2012 10:44 AM (12 years ago) (f) Reply |
Even if i talk now,wetin you go do dey your mind so why westin my time,,,well make i still manage talk my own...ask her,drive her,tell her,make her,kick her,get her,posue her out of your house...use ur brain oooo bcus she fit go tell court say no be you get children ooo..women are wicked Posted: at 27-05-2012 10:59 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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aso4life1 at 27-05-2012 11:20 AM (12 years ago) (m) no more trust cos ONCE enter MUST always ENTER......................
if u attack my papa house, I'll retaliate but if you are peace loving,I will embrace you Posted: at 27-05-2012 11:20 AM (12 years ago) | Hero | |
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K-TRUTH at 27-05-2012 11:23 AM (12 years ago) (m) Hard to trust and Hard to stop having affairs. Posted: at 27-05-2012 11:23 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Neglito at 27-05-2012 12:18 PM (12 years ago) (m) Kick her ass boy. she is a dangerous liar. Posted: at 27-05-2012 12:18 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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steveoneal at 27-05-2012 01:00 PM (12 years ago) (m) STAY IN THE MARRIAGE UNTILL YOU GO SIX FEET BELOW;;; WHAT A STUPID QUESTION; Posted: at 27-05-2012 01:00 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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JoeOdimo at 27-05-2012 01:53 PM (12 years ago) (m) Hahahahahahaha!now na you mugu for your wife she be mumu mak God help dey 2 of you oooooooooooooh:p:p:p Posted: at 27-05-2012 01:53 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie | |
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isbigo at 27-05-2012 02:13 PM (12 years ago) (m) THAT IS WOMEN FOR U,THEY ARE NOT TO BE TRUSTED.AS U SEE ME SO,NA IM MAKE I NEVER MARRY OOHH.MY MAMA SAY IF I NO CARRY A WOMAN COME HOME THIS YEAR,SAY MAKE I NO NEAR NIGERIA.ANYWAY,I GAT 2 KIDS MENNHH,A GIRL AND A DUDE Posted: at 27-05-2012 02:13 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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1ola at 27-05-2012 02:25 PM (12 years ago) (m) My wife lied and lied about what had happened with an old boyfriend from her schooldays. In the end it was her lover’s wife who told me it was a full-blown affair.
I’m 48 and my wife’s 46. We’ve just celebrated our silver wedding anniversary and had booked to go away for a week. The day before we were due to leave my wife rang me at work in tears. She said I needed to come home but didn’t say why. I rushed home and she told me someone had put something on Facebook saying she’d had an affair. She said it wasn’t true but when I asked her if she’d been seeing someone, she said she’d met a guy for dinner. He was an ex-boyfriend from years ago. She said they’d only had dinner, nothing more. She said she’d never do anything to hurt me or the kids – we’ve two teenage girls. We went on holiday that night and had a good time until the last night.

I couldn’t sleep. I kept wondering whether she was telling me the truth. The next morning I asked her if she’d slept with this guy and she admitted she had but just the once. I broke down in tears. My wife received a text from her ex’s wife as soon as we got back home. She wanted to speak to my wife but my wife said she couldn’t face it so I rang her. She told me they’d been having an affair for six months starting last October and asked that my wife leave her husband alone.
My wife still tried to deny it at first but I cried and pleaded with her to be honest. We’ve talked, argued and cried but I still find it hard because I’m sure she hasn’t told me everything. She started going out “with a girlfriend” on Wednesday nights more than a year ago and that is when I now know she accepted this guy on Facebook.
I am heartbroken. It’s put a huge strain on our marriage.My man,
People can say what they like, my man stay with your wife, it is your family and not anybody else, people saying rubbish here without knowing the actual fact are not been sincere with themselves, most of them will stay with their family and will not want it destracted by an allegation from a woman scorned. You got information from a rival woman and you believe it 100% against your wife explanation, that shows there is not love from begining because an element of trust should be plentiful in relationship. Woman are ready to destroy potential enemy, other women they thought are danger to them, it is possible that the man may have told his wife innocently that he met your wife and whether he has said good things about her previously to his wife, and things are not going well between them anymore or the woman is just an evil jealous bitch.
My man, if you love your wife, your kids and you believe in your mind that your wife loves you then please keep your marriage together, just give are a condition if there is any more situation where he need to lie to you, then that is the end, that she should not try to protect you, anything she should tell you.
Mind you 80% of women particularly Nigerian women are not wife materials, they are only brilliant when they are girlfriends, so be careful of taking a drastic action that you might regret., particularly if it comes out that the allegation are far fetched.
Lastly most of the people advising you on this forum are young, majority are not married, they dont know much about marriage or life as such. Wishing you good luck in whatever decision you might take.
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woe2men at 27-05-2012 03:01 PM (12 years ago) (f) Pls continue to trust her,u are one day closer to your grave each passing day.M-U-M-U. Posted: at 27-05-2012 03:01 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie | |
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woe2men at 27-05-2012 03:02 PM (12 years ago) (f) Pls continue to trust her,u are one day closer to your grave each passing day.M-U-M-U. Posted: at 27-05-2012 03:02 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie | |
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woe2men at 27-05-2012 03:03 PM (12 years ago) (f) Pls continue to trust her,u are one day closer to your grave each passing day.M-U-M-U. Posted: at 27-05-2012 03:03 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie | |
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