My Husband No Longer Desires Me segxwally (Page 3)

Date: 28-06-2012 1:24 pm (10 years ago) | Author: uduak Sophia Monday
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- Ifemylove at 29-06-2012 12:13 AM (10 years ago)
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in this case, i think the appearance of the woman is no longer attractive to the man. some women think they are out of fashion because they have 3 to 5 Children, they start dressing like their grand mother, forgetting that she had her children very early. she should try and look sexy to her husband in order to gain back his attention..
Posted: at 29-06-2012 12:13 AM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- stanchidi at 29-06-2012 12:13 AM (10 years ago)
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commit the matter 2 God and ask dat he renews the first love u had 4 each other
Posted: at 29-06-2012 12:13 AM (10 years ago) | Newbie
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- modavi at 29-06-2012 01:06 AM (10 years ago)
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Ma'am if you like,do plastic surgery just to become like those Asian girls,a man that wants to cheat will cheat. No be by beauty. U need patience and prayers.
Posted: at 29-06-2012 01:06 AM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
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- modavi at 29-06-2012 01:09 AM (10 years ago)
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Ma'am if you like,do plastic surgery just to become like those Asian girls,a man that wants to cheat will cheat. No be by beauty or appearance oh. U need patience and prayers.
Posted: at 29-06-2012 01:09 AM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
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- FRANKLYNJUDGE at 29-06-2012 01:30 AM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 28-06-2012 01:24 PM
My husband and I have been married for 17 years and have 3 children - 15, 12 and 10. We have been going to marriage counseling since he announced 6 months ago that he no longer finds me attractive and feels that we are more like best friends.



For the past 10 years, I have been the one to initiate our love making, this has made me feel like sex is a chore, and over time I simply gave up trying so much. It has now led to an almost non-existent sex life. In counseling we have covered many areas that have affected our relationship, and have been able to work on building a stronger level of trust and respect. It has also helped my husband share his feeling more easily with me. Last night, I discovered that he has another facebook account that he uses to chat to other women (mainly Asian women - since visiting China a few times for business, he seems to have become "obsessed". He has had pics of asian girls on his laptop). He says his chats are not segxwal, but that he finds the conversations stimulating. He has also discussed our relationship with these strangers. When I asked him about it, he was open and honest with me (I think). I feel so angry and lost, as I have no idea where our relationship is headed. He once again said that he no longer desires me segxwally and that our relationship feels more like a friendship. When we have made love he said he simply doesn't feel anything for me - this hurt immensely. When I asked him if he was attracted to Asian women, he could not answer, and honestly was not sure. He still enjoys my company and loves to cuddle (but that's about the depth of our intimacy). I am confused, because if I keep my distance from him, he notices and complains that I do not cuddle him anymore?Huh? He told me he would  try and make our marriage work, but I do not know how much longer I keep feeling this way.

What Do I Do, I am Confused---Help Me!  Cry Cry Cry Cry

Do this now.
Posted: at 29-06-2012 01:30 AM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
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- malvin2525 at 29-06-2012 01:33 AM (10 years ago)
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17 years old marriage don try now, let the man try another soup abeg
Posted: at 29-06-2012 01:33 AM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- FRANKLYNJUDGE at 29-06-2012 01:33 AM (10 years ago)
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Yes if you do that he will beg you. nonsense
Posted: at 29-06-2012 01:33 AM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
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- joeraphjr at 29-06-2012 01:51 AM (10 years ago)
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Not much to say, But "If your husband start putting on this serious negative attitude towards you: being selfish and not minding how you feel as his wife, means he is no longer finding you interesting, instead other younger ladies, I suppose.
Guess what: "start making yourself more attractive to him as though you have never given birth to any child, take a look at those ladies he has in his laptop and start dressing in such manner for him at home (don't go out dressed that way), look beautiful for him and stop tying wrapper so he don’t look at you as old.
Now, try to make yourself do things you knew always make him happy (singing for him, telling him stories, convincing him to play games with you, prepare him what he love eating, buy him some good stuff etc. with this, he will always feel renewed and starting thinking more about you and less of himself.
Above all talk to God in faith.
Posted: at 29-06-2012 01:51 AM (10 years ago) | Newbie
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- aso4life1 at 29-06-2012 02:45 AM (10 years ago)
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My advice be say, she should not leave the house, whenever the husband want to travel , she should give him condoms for protection just to let him know she knows what is going on outside.......The man will definitely understand she cares about him and she should start dressing the way she did when they just get married.

Posted: at 29-06-2012 02:45 AM (10 years ago) | Hero
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- deboalabi262 at 29-06-2012 03:10 AM (10 years ago)
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Noted and passed....

Posted: at 29-06-2012 03:10 AM (10 years ago) | Hero
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- Ecto at 29-06-2012 03:50 AM (10 years ago)
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  • Dont Blame the Man

    He might have been Dead inside
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Posted: at 29-06-2012 03:50 AM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- umehudoka at 29-06-2012 05:21 AM (10 years ago)
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MOST WOMEN GETS OUT OF SHAPE AFTER HAVING 2 TO 3 KIDS... ABEG LADIES MAKE UNA TRY THEY TAKE GOOD CARE OF UNA SELF AND SHAPE AFTER BIRTH COS E DEY MAKE MEN HAPPY AND PROUD OF THEIR WIFE. COS FOR ME OO ANY WOMAN WEY I MARRY, SHE COME GO FAT AFTER BIRTH.. NA ON HER OWN OO . AS FOR YOU, WORK ON UR BODY AND SEE HOW UR HUBBY TO DEY BEG U FOR SEX LIKE SAY U B TABLET
Posted: at 29-06-2012 05:21 AM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Senegal at 29-06-2012 05:28 AM (10 years ago)
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 Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
Posted: at 29-06-2012 05:28 AM (10 years ago) | Hero
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- nestoba at 29-06-2012 06:11 AM (10 years ago)
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Some energy boost will do or kick starter!
Posted: at 29-06-2012 06:11 AM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
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- BendelArmedRobb at 29-06-2012 06:55 AM (10 years ago)
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naija una too much!!! coffee wey I dey drink for hia comot for my nose as I read this.
Posted: at 29-06-2012 06:55 AM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Terrytee70 at 29-06-2012 07:37 AM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: joeraphjr on 29-06-2012 01:51 AM
Not much to say, But "If your husband start putting on this serious negative attitude towards you: being selfish and not minding how you feel as his wife, means he is no longer finding you interesting, instead other younger ladies, I suppose.
Guess what: "start making yourself more attractive to him as though you have never given birth to any child, take a look at those ladies he has in his laptop and start dressing in such manner for him at home (don't go out dressed that way), look beautiful for him and stop tying wrapper so he don’t look at you as old.
Now, try to make yourself do things you knew always make him happy (singing for him, telling him stories, convincing him to play games with you, prepare him what he love eating, buy him some good stuff etc. with this, he will always feel renewed and starting thinking more about you and less of himself.
Above all talk to God in faith.

YOU ARE VERY CORRECT MY BROTHER,SOME WOMEN ONLY PAY ATTENTION TO THEIR CHILDREN AFTER MARRIAGE THAN HUSBAND FORGETTING CHILDREN IS ONLY GAIN OF MARRIAGE AND IF YOU DONT SATISFY YOUR MAN WHEN HE TURN HIS FACE OUTSIDE IT CAN AFFECT THOSE CHILDREN LIFE BY CAUSING POLYGAMY THAT CAN WORSEN THE MARRIAGE
Posted: at 29-06-2012 07:37 AM (10 years ago) | Newbie
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- richi192 at 29-06-2012 07:49 AM (10 years ago)
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prayer can do anything they should still be going 4 counseling

Posted: at 29-06-2012 07:49 AM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- jkool4real at 29-06-2012 08:18 AM (10 years ago)
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Change the way you relate with him. Arrange for a romantic dinner, buy some sexy undies and most importantly start taking care of your self, because if you don't feel sexy yourself, it'll will be very difficult for your husband to see you that way. Start taking care of yourself and your husband will come back to you..
Posted: at 29-06-2012 08:18 AM (10 years ago) | Newbie
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- jkool4real at 29-06-2012 08:19 AM (10 years ago)
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Change the way you relate with him. Arrange for a romantic dinner, buy some sexy undies and most importantly start taking care of your self, because if you don't feel sexy yourself, it'll will be very difficult for your husband to see you that way. Start taking care of yourself and your husband will come back to you..
Posted: at 29-06-2012 08:19 AM (10 years ago) | Newbie
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- dickman2 at 29-06-2012 09:00 AM (10 years ago)
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na them sabi..who dey fcuk who ..nonsense.. i know say na sophie go post this one..
Posted: at 29-06-2012 09:00 AM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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