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May the Good God we all serve see u true!!!! and of all please let Prayer be the key to this issue. It may not be from him asper say, and whatever the case may be as a good wife due consider the beloved children first.  SANU

THE MAN IS THE MOST HONEST GUY I'VE HEARD ABOUT IN A LONG TIME BUT HE IS JUST SO SELFISH! HE WANTS HER TO CUDDLE HIM BUT HE FINDS HER UNATTACTIVE AND THEN COMPLAINS WHEN SHE DISTANCES HERSELF BECOS SHE IS HURT?   SHE SHOULD TRY TO FIX HERSELF UP, CHANGE HER STYLE OF DRESSING,HAIR,MAKEUP ETC. INTO MORE YOUTHFUL AND FLIRTY STYLES. ITS LIKE HER HUBBY LIKES HER ENUF TO TELL HER THESE THINGS COS MOST MEN WUD JUST KIP QUIET AND JUST FLIRT AROUND. I HOPE SHE GETS IT RITE SHA

for the sake of the children, the woman should not divorce her husband...some times in life u have problem
marriage is not an easy thing, special like dis.... let her put her trust in God,only God can help her in times of trouble.

Change the way you relate with him. Arrange for a romantic dinner, buy some sexy undies and most importantly start taking care of your self, because if you don't feel sexy yourself, it'll will be very difficult for your husband to see you that way. Start taking care of yourself and your husband will come back to you..

Dearie,There is absoultely nothing can do about this cos men must seek external stimulation. Time ll tell n he wld surely get tired but until then, just continue being the best woman u can be,pray 4 him n spend more time with ur kids n u ll get used to it. Dnt even think of also keeping a puppy by the corner cos the consequences wld b drastic n infact,u ll regret y u eva started it. Besides,there is nothing dat cn hide 4eva .U also know dat in d case of infidelity,a man is always right cos u wld b told dat a man is polygamous in nature n thus cn ve as many wives as possible. But when a woman does same,u r tagged an irresponsible   woman and the shame that will come out of it wnt b erased 4eva cos Your kids too wld grow with the shame(especially d girls who might find it diffucult 2 settle down cos of d sins of their mum)  and so many other things u wld regret.It is very painful i know but 4 d sake of the future of ur kids, Just make this sacrifice pls cos it is the fate of most women. May God strengthen you.