ladies,cooking and chores...

oBOY YOU go fear fear na...all i know is am willing to compromise as long as the dragon is well fed!!!

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Posted: at 11-04-2008 11:13 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac

therefore....End Of Discussion........



Ugo....its feeding time....!!!

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Posted: at 12-04-2008 06:31 AM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero

i love cooking too, but my man will have to help me too in the doing the cooking and domestic chores
thanks
cheerie
freda

Posted: at 12-04-2008 12:21 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie

figured you would.nufn do u...

Posted: at 12-04-2008 06:08 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming

y'all dont "belong" there, its jus lyk a job description for being a mom/wife.dont mean a brothr cant cook for y'all, but that y'all should just be sittn around lookin' pretty sounds a tad selfish(not to mention lazy...) 

Posted: at 12-04-2008 06:17 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming

let's say i agree with you that it's an "old tradition"(for the record,EVERY culture in the world,past and present,acknowledge the fact that women have certain roles to play,and goin to the spa aint one of em{nufn wrong wif it thou}),whats the justification for discarding it? I mean, cuz we ryd cars n not horses, n wear jeans n not wrappers, don't mean we're better or wiser than they were.besyds, they weren't STUPID,so they had reasons for havin such "traditions" in the first place

Posted: at 12-04-2008 06:37 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming

kk vixen is a tad bit right in saying it was an old tradition.... and in a way i think this whole thing is  kinda sexist.
i do love cooking and cleaning and all those other chores that women are "SUPPOSED"  to do, but if you think about it...who ever said women were made to do all this things.
but that does not give us ,as women, the right to sit around the house and become lazy. women have always been seen as the neat, clean and motherly specie of the human race and theres nothing wrong with that cuz i think its a compliment on our part. it only becomes wrong when men start make and force us do this things like we are slaves.
i think it has to do with the way we were brought up as african women and are expected to carry it on as a tradition to of future generation.

Posted: at 13-04-2008 01:13 AM (16 years ago) | Newbie

i think it depends on which context the guy/husband takes it..if a woman cooks and does other household chores she should be appreciated and told how excellent a job she is doing,because a woman cooking is not any man's right but a priviledge,also keeping house is not as easy as most men think it is and i personally think it should be classed as a salaried job under the law,having said that i think no woman should wait on her husband for money and what not because he might sort our your needs and all that,but if supposing he decides to get a divorce one day and u dont have any savings?she ll lose out especially if u do not own your property and theres like 4 kids on the whole i think both of em should appreciate each other and there wont be any beef

Posted: at 13-04-2008 05:11 AM (16 years ago) | Upcoming

wots dat for

Posted: at 13-04-2008 05:26 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming

u mean u can see me?..i was tryna hide from that dude with the cooking and cleaning stuffs.

Posted: at 13-04-2008 10:09 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero