What Motivates You To Look 4 A Relationship ???

Date: 06-04-2009 8:01 pm (16 years ago) | Author: PRINCE OBINECHE
- at 6-04-2009 08:01 PM (16 years ago)
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It would seem, at least from the Naijapals fora, that different people have very different motivations in dating. While everyone would like to have it all, the question is what is the motivation is that is strong enough to actually invest the considerable time and effort involved, in meeting and dating in the real world?

For me, it's fairly simple. My instinctual need to date rises from sex drive. No, that doesn't mean just sex, because when I'm into someone, I want to spend a lot of time together, and inevitably that leads to doing stuff together. However, the concept of dating for some extended period of time as “friends without benefits would leave me disinterested, and content to spend time with friends and alone.

For others it would seem that companionship is what motivates them, with sex as secondary or perhaps unimportant. 
There seems to be another whole group of people online, who seem perfectly content to have virtual relationships and never meet at all.

So, the question is, what motivates you to be here, on a dating site, and what drives you to date in the real world or are you interested in dating at all ?

Posted: at 6-04-2009 08:01 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
- diplomatik at 6-04-2009 08:03 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: princemech on  6-04-2009 08:01 PM
It would seem, at least from the Naijapals fora, that different people have very different motivations in dating. While everyone would like to have it all, the question is what is the motivation is that is strong enough to actually invest the considerable time and effort involved, in meeting and dating in the real world?

For me, it's fairly simple. My instinctual need to date rises from sex drive. No, that doesn't mean just sex, because when I'm into someone, I want to spend a lot of time together, and inevitably that leads to doing stuff together. However, the concept of dating for some extended period of time as “friends without benefits would leave me disinterested, and content to spend time with friends and alone.

For others it would seem that companionship is what motivates them, with sex as secondary or perhaps unimportant. 
There seems to be another whole group of people online, who seem perfectly content to have virtual relationships and never meet at all.

So, the question is, what motivates you to be here, on a dating site, and what drives you to date in the real world or are you interested in dating at all ?

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Posted: at 6-04-2009 08:03 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Vixenx at 7-04-2009 03:10 AM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: princemech on  6-04-2009 08:01 PM
It would seem, at least from the Naijapals fora, that different people have very different motivations in dating. While everyone would like to have it all, the question is what is the motivation is that is strong enough to actually invest the considerable time and effort involved, in meeting and dating in the real world?

For me, it's fairly simple. My instinctual need to date rises from sex drive. No, that doesn't mean just sex, because when I'm into someone, I want to spend a lot of time together, and inevitably that leads to doing stuff together. However, the concept of dating for some extended period of time as “friends without benefits would leave me disinterested, and content to spend time with friends and alone.

For others it would seem that companionship is what motivates them, with sex as secondary or perhaps unimportant. 
There seems to be another whole group of people online, who seem perfectly content to have virtual relationships and never meet at all.

So, the question is, what motivates you to be here, on a dating site, and what drives you to date in the real world or are you interested in dating at all ?
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Posted: at 7-04-2009 03:10 AM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Beauti4 at 7-04-2009 04:47 AM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: princemech on  6-04-2009 08:01 PM
It would seem, at least from the Naijapals fora, that different people have very different motivations in dating. While everyone would like to have it all, the question is what is the motivation is that is strong enough to actually invest the considerable time and effort involved, in meeting and dating in the real world?

For me, it's fairly simple. My instinctual need to date rises from sex drive. No, that doesn't mean just sex, because when I'm into someone, I want to spend a lot of time together, and inevitably that leads to doing stuff together. However, the concept of dating for some extended period of time as “friends without benefits would leave me disinterested, and content to spend time with friends and alone.

For others it would seem that companionship is what motivates them, with sex as secondary or perhaps unimportant. 
There seems to be another whole group of people online, who seem perfectly content to have virtual relationships and never meet at all.

So, the question is, what motivates you to be here, on a dating site, and what drives you to date in the real world or are you interested in dating at all ?
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