Am I Too Young To Get Married? (Page 8)

Thanks henry, na sense u tok.

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Posted: at 15-04-2009 10:35 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Elders dont ever c young ones in the family as being matured enuf to do anytin, it down to u to become independent if u are not already and then they will naturally realise that u r no more a baby.

Posted: at 15-04-2009 11:18 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie

any way i have hear what everybody said about you,but i have one or two thing to say to.
1) the bible didn't not tell us the actually age to get marriage,but their is different between a mother and a girlfriend,because the way u handle things when u are doing girlfriend and boyfriend,than when u now get marry as  husband and wife,know that thing will definite change, so please thing twice b4 u going into it,because if u reach in u will also reach out.
2) marriage is an everlasting oath so don't jump into marriage because u thing other are doing it and u want to do it,lady think well,pray and fast every well and wait for God direction in everything.please don't look at thing that surround u. marriage is not like bread and butter that u can toll with at anytime. GOD will help u.

from bidemi

Posted: at 15-04-2009 11:27 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie

All U need to do is ask ur parents why they objecting.Then prove them wrong.
U need to be both ready
1. educationally
2. financially(having good jobs)
3. emotionally(love unconditionally)
4. phychologically(able to handle stress n problems)
5. phycosocially(able to handle family)

Posted: at 15-04-2009 11:34 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie

Double d nice 1, oliyide y d hmmm? I knw u suprise bt neva be.

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Posted: at 16-04-2009 12:30 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac

hey don't try it yet oooooo
You are still young that is why your momma and your dad didn't want you to get married.
When it come to family matter i don't think you can stand it

Posted: at 16-04-2009 12:49 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie

my sister visit hausa land and see what's hapening, you're not that young to get married. Just go ahead.. logout.

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Posted: at 16-04-2009 01:53 AM (15 years ago) | Hero

What are the differences between the two ethnic groups?  The Yorubas have their own language while the Edo's have their own language.  Do you speak both languages?  What are the cultural and traditional differences?  Have you both studied them?  Are you aware that in some Edo culture that after the wedding night, there is a particular color cloth you are supposed to wear in the morning to visit the relatives?

Do your parents speak your in-laws language?  What is your future mother in-law feelings?  What is your future father in-law feelings towards this marriage?  Does your fiance have other siblings?  Is he coming from a polygamous home?  You honestly have a lot of work to do spiritually.

My gut instinct is to ask you not to marry this boy.  I do not have a good feeling about this wedding.  Be patient, you will meet a nice man soon.

Posted: at 16-04-2009 02:24 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming

please invite me for the weddin ....nd no daz not too young daz if u really ready...

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Posted: at 16-04-2009 02:58 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac

good day , well i think to get pregnant is not the best way to convince ur family. i think u should just let them understand and see that the 2 of u realy mean/and be ready to marry!
its not only to get married i understand ur family too
they are many thinks u have to know to allow ur marrig work.
u know man are not easy woman too so u have to make sure that u talk much with ur husband so he can understand ur feelings understand ur way of thinking and u too if u talk with him u can understand the way he wants his live to be!
then if its not the same u can make one step to his wish and he will make one to urs and all is fine but if u or him just stand on una owen fish it can never work.
an other question is how long do u already meet with the man u want to marry??? then i can tell u something u have to see too if u want to have a kid!!but this we will talk later

have a very nice day
greez

Posted: at 16-04-2009 07:42 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie