Am I Too Young To Get Married?

Date: 13-04-2009 2:00 pm (15 years ago) | Author: MIRABELA
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- at 13-04-2009 02:00 PM (15 years ago)
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Am 23, I want to get married, want to be called a wife and a mother. I want to enter the world of the married women but my people are objecting. Am i too young or what cud be the problem? What can i do to get married without my family objecting?


Posted: at 13-04-2009 02:00 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
- princemech at 13-04-2009 02:10 PM (15 years ago)
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hell no....should i come 4 that ?
Posted: at 13-04-2009 02:10 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onyin at 13-04-2009 02:12 PM (15 years ago)
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is tht u ?.awwwwwww, i luv tht dress.lol.well,marriage is a life commitment and i'm sure u know tht.are u ready for tht and  is ur man ready as well?.if u both are ready than try make ur parent understd.
Posted: at 13-04-2009 02:12 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- diplomatik at 13-04-2009 02:15 PM (15 years ago)
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make sure u're reallly ready....

Posted: at 13-04-2009 02:15 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- blackbeauty005 at 13-04-2009 02:19 PM (15 years ago)
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Dip i think i nid counselling, my man is ready too. I was even thinking of getting pregnant if my fam wil change their mind. But cn som1 tel me more abt marriage?

Posted: at 13-04-2009 02:19 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- smillin_joe at 13-04-2009 02:22 PM (15 years ago)
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ur not too young to married, but married is all about love and maturerity.
Posted: at 13-04-2009 02:22 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- princesser2love at 13-04-2009 02:23 PM (15 years ago)
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wel u dont look young so u definately not young as par u parent concent naa u knw,the type of child u ar we determing wat to do and if u must knw marriage is not lik am goin on vacation is life time commitment and that mean u cant take a break or seister
Posted: at 13-04-2009 02:23 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- diplomatik at 13-04-2009 02:25 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: blackbeauty005 on 13-04-2009 02:19 PM
Dip i think i nid counselling, my man is ready too. I was even thinking of getting pregnant if my fam wil change their mind. But cn som1 tel me more abt marriage?

well am not married yet...but when am ready to i have to be sure thats what i really want....there's no point rushing it....if the guy really loves u tell him to give u another year...tell him that u love him..but u just want to be fully ready b4 going in into it.... Grin Grin

or better still look for some1 who's already married to help

Posted: at 13-04-2009 02:25 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- welli at 13-04-2009 02:26 PM (15 years ago)
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In marriage, Age doesn't matter much but the HEAD.
If You rush in....You'll rush out. Search Yourself....Are You capable of handling a LIFE-TIME responsibility?
Wedding might be fun but MARRIAGE is no  joke.

Posted: at 13-04-2009 02:26 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- blackbeauty005 at 13-04-2009 02:29 PM (15 years ago)
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Yes o my princes, mariage is whn d guy losses his bachelor's degree and d woman obtain d master's degree.
Dip tnx 4 d advice. Think i nid to get a deep thnkin abt this.

Posted: at 13-04-2009 02:29 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- blackbeauty005 at 13-04-2009 02:31 PM (15 years ago)
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Mmmm welli

Posted: at 13-04-2009 02:31 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mazi at 13-04-2009 02:33 PM (15 years ago)
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u r not young to get married...
but ask urself.....do u hv d mentality dat goes wit it?
r u mentally ready?....do u hv d right man?...
can u compromise?....r u two really friends to go thru ups nd downs?
now....r u ready?
Posted: at 13-04-2009 02:33 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- onyin at 13-04-2009 02:36 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: blackbeauty005 on 13-04-2009 02:19 PM
Dip i think i nid counselling, my man is ready too. I was even thinking of getting pregnant if my fam wil change their mind. But cn som1 tel me more abt marriage?
getting pregnant is not a good idea,cos u both might not end up being together even wit a baby in the picture. u shuld pray to God for his blessings and it kinda nice when u live wit the guy befor marriage ,cos wit tht u get to see if u both  can tolerate each other or not.the world has changed,its not like in those old days .
Posted: at 13-04-2009 02:36 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- Beautydiva at 13-04-2009 02:42 PM (15 years ago)
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Marriage is not 4 d faint hearted. U have 2 be ready psychologically, emotionally etc before making d life long committment.
U said "u want 2 be called a wife n mother". "U want 2 enter d world of married women". Do u think these r the right reasons becos i can only see "want" not 'need'. There is a huge difference btw want and need.

OR maybe ur family feel dat u r not matured enough 4 marriage so u have 2 prove them wrong.
Posted: at 13-04-2009 02:42 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Pires07 at 13-04-2009 03:01 PM (15 years ago)
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s0 when is d wedding date?

Posted: at 13-04-2009 03:01 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- blackbeauty005 at 13-04-2009 03:33 PM (15 years ago)
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Pires did i told u there is a date, i beg tok sense lol. Mazi nt dt al these u said i get nt but i feel i am ready but somtin puls me bak creatin fear in my hart. Like wil this work out? We both stil young can we pull togeda? Getting scared of being pregnant along d line nd lata regreting. I nid 2 be counsel.

Posted: at 13-04-2009 03:33 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Pires07 at 13-04-2009 03:37 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: blackbeauty005 on 13-04-2009 03:33 PM
Pires did i told u there is a date, i beg tok sense lol. Mazi nt dt al these u said i get nt but i feel i am ready but somtin puls me bak creatin fear in my hart. Like wil this work out? We both stil young can we pull togeda? Getting scared of being pregnant along d line nd lata regreting. I nid 2 be counsel.
ohh i thought u ve concluded with all dis many advice. s0 u still dey wait for more? my  dear time waits for nobody oh. Grin when u fix date no forget me oh Grin

Posted: at 13-04-2009 03:37 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- blackbeauty005 at 13-04-2009 03:42 PM (15 years ago)
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Ok me hear u guy. U mouthed lol

Posted: at 13-04-2009 03:42 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Pires07 at 13-04-2009 03:47 PM (15 years ago)
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Good! dats what i want to hear, happy married life in advance.

Posted: at 13-04-2009 03:47 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- blackbeauty005 at 13-04-2009 04:20 PM (15 years ago)
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Lol

Posted: at 13-04-2009 04:20 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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