Pregnancy before marriage, is it a good thing?

Date: 15-04-2009 10:51 am (16 years ago) | Author: Catherine Emmanuel
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- at 15-04-2009 10:51 AM (16 years ago)
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Hello house! I want you all to contribute to this issue. My sister wants to get married but her fiancee wants her to get pregnant before he starts the marriage rites. Is it ideal for a girl to get pregnant before marriage?   

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- Toks-E at 15-04-2009 10:56 AM (16 years ago)
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its not right, cuz the guy might end up nt marrying her.....wat if somtin happens to the man...who is goin to take care of the baby


well, to me, its not ideal

Posted: at 15-04-2009 10:56 AM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Vixenx at 15-04-2009 11:39 AM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: Katee on 15-04-2009 10:51 AM
Hello house! I want you all to contribute to this issue. My sister wants to get married but her fiancee wants her to get pregnant before he starts the marriage rites. Is it ideal for a girl to get pregnant before marriage?   

Well if it happens it happens. But when the man asks you in advance to do it prior to marrying then i think that's very suspicious because it kinda sounds as if he's planning to trap you. And if a man wants to marry you, he will whether you have a child before or after, so tell her to be very careful.
Posted: at 15-04-2009 11:39 AM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- SAmyrocko at 15-04-2009 12:51 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: Katee on 15-04-2009 10:51 AM
Hello house! I want you all to contribute to this issue. My sister wants to get married but her fiancee wants her to get pregnant before he starts the marriage rites. Is it ideal for a girl to get pregnant before marriage?   


Well, me i don't know his reason for that. To me i'll say he is just trying to no if the land is fertile Cheesy
I don't really know, but some guys does that....Telling their lady to get down with preg before kicking
off with the marriage rites.

Posted: at 15-04-2009 12:51 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- adedun at 15-04-2009 02:57 PM (16 years ago)
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the man is just planning to make your sister a single parent
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- jasine at 15-04-2009 08:02 PM (16 years ago)
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Babe run, u don't know what he has in mind. Some men do it to see if the girl could bear children so he doesn't marry a "man" like himself... But i think dat sucks, why? becos he doesn't love u, and if he says the fault is from his people, run girl cos he is a mummy's boy... Meaning? He can't vouch for U.
Posted: at 15-04-2009 08:02 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
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- Recoverd at 15-04-2009 09:07 PM (16 years ago)
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Though theres notin we wil say here dat wil help since its ur sis invold n nt u bt, This 1 na marriage basd on condition. D guy doesnt love ur sis. If ur sis is desprate 4 mariage sh wil definatly go wit d flow. Y im no share hs property n money in 2 so d girl wil b sure hs nt gona ditch hr.
Posted: at 15-04-2009 09:07 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Kennee at 15-04-2009 09:12 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: Katee on 15-04-2009 10:51 AM
Hello house! I want you all to contribute to this issue. My sister wants to get married but her fiancee wants her to get pregnant before he starts the marriage rites. Is it ideal for a girl to get pregnant before marriage?   

It's Common in Ibo Land


It's up to her, if she wants to accept his Condition, then she should

Posted: at 15-04-2009 09:12 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Beautydiva at 15-04-2009 09:22 PM (16 years ago)
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There is no big deal if d pregnancy wasn't planned for BUT
I believe true love should be unconditional. D decision is left 2 her bcos she knows d guy better.
She should bear in mind if she gets pregnant n d guy doesn't go ahead with d marriage rites, then she would be in deeper trouble.
Posted: at 15-04-2009 09:22 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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- blackbeauty005 at 15-04-2009 09:25 PM (16 years ago)
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Same same, ds is a normal tin 4rm some family. It does nt mean d guy no serious,na in law and there is def a reason 2 it wch u might nt knw poster, ur sis shud find out. Its no prob at al. Some family wnts 2 knw d level of fertility a woman cumin into their home is. Bt they 4get they are nt God. My dear its normal o.there is no problem i am telling u live

Posted: at 15-04-2009 09:25 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Rify at 15-04-2009 09:32 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: Katee on 15-04-2009 10:51 AM
Hello house! I want you all to contribute to this issue. My sister wants to get married but her fiancee wants her to get pregnant before he starts the marriage rites. Is it ideal for a girl to get pregnant before marriage?   
That one na trap...Abeg  make that one go....does he want to marry the baby???Men sef.................Mssssssssssshew

Posted: at 15-04-2009 09:32 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ironlady at 15-04-2009 09:34 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: Katee on 15-04-2009 10:51 AM
Hello house! I want you all to contribute to this issue. My sister wants to get married but her fiancee wants her to get pregnant before he starts the marriage rites. Is it ideal for a girl to get pregnant before marriage?   
if u know ur gonna marry him y not..but,if his just some boi on da strrett my girl u go get pikin wey no get papa..and i will send d child on an errand!!
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- vivian07 at 15-04-2009 09:36 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: adedun on 15-04-2009 02:57 PM
the man is just planning to make your sister a single parent
abi ? Grin Grin Grin Grin
Posted: at 15-04-2009 09:36 PM (16 years ago) | Hero
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- myragonza at 16-04-2009 06:53 AM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: Katee on 15-04-2009 10:51 AM
Hello house! I want you all to contribute to this issue. My sister wants to get married but her fiancee wants her to get pregnant before he starts the marriage rites. Is it ideal for a girl to get pregnant before marriage?   


Basically,its not a good nor a bad thing....but in this case,its bad....there must be something up the guy's sleeves...

Posted: at 16-04-2009 06:53 AM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- lovemar at 16-04-2009 12:18 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: myragonza on 16-04-2009 06:53 AM
Quote from: Katee on 15-04-2009 10:51 AM
Hello house! I want you all to contribute to this issue. My sister wants to get married but her fiancee wants her to get pregnant before he starts the marriage rites. Is it ideal for a girl to get pregnant before marriage?   


Basically,its not a good nor a bad thing....but in this case,its bad....there must be something up the guy's sleeves...

Nice advice, she also have to know are stands it she want it to be dis way or not.
Posted: at 16-04-2009 12:18 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Prokings at 16-04-2009 12:58 PM (16 years ago)
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if u where my sis
there wuldnt be any need for this topic
bcos the ans is there
the guy does love her but likes her
if not he wuld be ready for the worse
Posted: at 16-04-2009 12:58 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
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- godunia at 16-04-2009 04:44 PM (16 years ago)
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pregnancy b4 marriage,sex b4 marriage....i dont no.we live in a world were deceit and lies have bcome the daily norms.that has created alot of insecurity in the heart of men and women that they want an insurance b4 getting into anytin.for instance if i date a girl even for 3 months and i sleep wt her wihtout condom,she is not using any form of contraception and yet NO MISTAKE(u no wat i mean).....AH.if u were the one wont u want to find out if everytin is ok?people have diffrent reasons for diff.decisions.since the guy is not looking forbaby boy or girl,i dont think he has any tin up his sleeve,he only wants insurance.
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- Kennee at 16-04-2009 08:26 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: Prokings on 16-04-2009 12:58 PM
if u where my sis
there wuldnt be any need for this topic
bcos the ans is there
the guy does love her but likes her
if not he wuld be ready for the worse

Exactly

Ppl keep forgetting dat the Primary aim of Marriage is Companionship... The other things are just jara

Posted: at 16-04-2009 08:26 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- chrissiebee at 16-04-2009 08:27 PM (16 years ago)
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totally!  Wink

Posted: at 16-04-2009 08:27 PM (16 years ago) | Hero
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- lonelysnow at 16-04-2009 09:02 PM (16 years ago)
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is up to the girl to decide
Posted: at 16-04-2009 09:02 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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