Pregnancy before marriage, is it a good thing? (Page 3)

Date: 15-04-2009 10:51 am (15 years ago) | Author: Catherine Emmanuel
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- lovemar at 20-04-2009 01:44 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Katee on 15-04-2009 10:51 AM
Hello house! I want you all to contribute to this issue. My sister wants to get married but her fiancee wants her to get pregnant before he starts the marriage rites. Is it ideal for a girl to get pregnant before marriage?   


i think you know d guy? why fear his request? i think he want to be sure sure that ur sis is not a waste material after all the years of her puberty.....u know must of those stumble onto love end up unproductive, so dnt blame d men....d women caused it.
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Quite agree, but not with d blames, bcos it sometimes nt d blame of d woman.
Posted: at 20-04-2009 01:44 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- SAmyrocko at 20-04-2009 02:44 PM (14 years ago)
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Hmmmmm

Posted: at 20-04-2009 02:44 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Dedoyin-64 at 20-04-2009 03:56 PM (14 years ago)
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why get pregnant b4 marriage, whats the essence of marriage then, we humans like twisting God's original plan alot. Jesus Christ once anwered the Pharisee "It was'nt so in the beginning"
Naturally, a man who has this kind of mindset should just go and marry a single mother or a widow who has given birth b4, this will ease his mind
Posted: at 20-04-2009 03:56 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- blessedchidon at 20-04-2009 03:59 PM (14 years ago)
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@ Sammy wht's the name of ur car? u drive hmmmmmmmm  hmmm
 @ Dedo i agree with u true
Posted: at 20-04-2009 03:59 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- fattymah at 20-04-2009 06:32 PM (14 years ago)
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its  not a good option but we all ve  2 take 2 faith and destiny wat we be  will be.
Posted: at 20-04-2009 06:32 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- endy22 at 20-04-2009 06:53 PM (14 years ago)
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believe u me that guy will not marry your sister wen he gets pregnant.
Posted: at 20-04-2009 06:53 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- prettyshine at 20-04-2009 07:37 PM (14 years ago)
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knowingly is not gud,but wen it cmes we take it,cos u can not cheat N-A-T-U-R-E.
Posted: at 20-04-2009 07:37 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- prettyshine at 20-04-2009 07:47 PM (14 years ago)
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But in sme area of our nation sme persons do wnt to know if the wman can take in b4 they get to marrry.
Posted: at 20-04-2009 07:47 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- prettyshine at 20-04-2009 08:08 PM (14 years ago)
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yes,ketee babe,
            The question here is that,are those people in real luv?cos we are talking about two person's HERE to bcome ONE,so it must be an aggrement btween the TWO party's.
     As 4 me, the ball is in my SIS court,cos is her L-I-F-E.
Posted: at 20-04-2009 08:08 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- keveen at 20-04-2009 09:54 PM (14 years ago)
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Some pple try to see if the land is green before cultivation...

Posted: at 20-04-2009 09:54 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- chrissiebee at 20-04-2009 10:51 PM (14 years ago)
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thats just STOOPID!

Posted: at 20-04-2009 10:51 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- desmond4kaycy at 21-04-2009 12:42 AM (14 years ago)
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Hello People, I think it's not ideal! Speaking as a christain and as a man. In my locality its "DONT MENTION"  -TABOO, that my sister or daugther is preg outside weddlock. However, some TRIBE in Western Nigeria percieves it as some what doing.  The prefix, "PRE" implies BEFORE.  Hence PREG before marriage is an adultrous act! This must be discouraged among sincere and true CHRISTAINS .Let him think twice.  The QUESITION I will put accross this subject, and to the man who wants to start a child manufacturing company  .............Is he marring her becos of the forth-coming child or becos of LOVE and the lady's personality.       I think  marriage comes before chlid bearing.......this almost the end product of marriage!
Posted: at 21-04-2009 12:42 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- desmond4kaycy at 21-04-2009 01:19 AM (14 years ago)
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Hello People, I think it's not ideal! Speaking as a christain and as a man. In my locality its "DONT MENTION"  -TABOO, that my sister or daugther is preg outside weddlock. However, some TRIBE in Western Nigeria percieves it as some what doing.  The prefix, "PRE" implies BEFORE.  Hence PREG before marriage is an adultrous act! This must be discouraged among sincere and true CHRISTAINS .Let him think twice.  The QUESITION I will put accross this subject, and to the man who wants to start a child manufacturing company  .............Is he marring her becos of the forth-coming child or becos of LOVE and the lady's personality.       I think  marriage comes before chlid bearing.......this almost the end product of marriage!
Posted: at 21-04-2009 01:19 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- gonzo45 at 21-04-2009 03:10 AM (14 years ago)
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na true talk u talk Dkaycy..  is right time the girls defend themsleves from this attitude of some men. findout if the ur man truely loves you or just want to make u child bearing company.
Posted: at 21-04-2009 03:10 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- tochukwu90098 at 21-04-2009 03:20 AM (14 years ago)
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hem yes that man suggestion is good because you will not buy bucket that's licking return to the owner is risk,better to test before you buy or Tampa with it ,the same with me testing, before ogodo mmadu ekotere ya okwu,the man word is not Turkish but stand like cigarette...lol
Posted: at 21-04-2009 03:20 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- gonzo45 at 21-04-2009 03:43 AM (14 years ago)
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toc900, i really dont understand ur word., wat actually are u trying to test here?? a bucket?? what kind of bucket is that??
Posted: at 21-04-2009 03:43 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- myragonza at 21-04-2009 04:14 AM (14 years ago)
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a head bucket  Grin Grin

Posted: at 21-04-2009 04:14 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- edema at 21-04-2009 12:15 PM (14 years ago)
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its better,make both of them comfarm their things b4 ending up fighting and divouce of not having kid.
Posted: at 21-04-2009 12:15 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- Rambukar at 21-04-2009 12:24 PM (14 years ago)
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Job man! What happens if he dies before the marriage???
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The same that happens when they man dies after marriage
Posted: at 21-04-2009 12:24 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- patienceudosen at 21-04-2009 12:29 PM (14 years ago)
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NOT BORDERING MY HEAD ON THIS.
Posted: at 21-04-2009 12:29 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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