![-]( "dickman2") dickman2 at 9-11-2012 09:49 AM (11 years ago)  (m)  | Posted: at 9-11-2012 09:49 AM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "dizhadah") dizhadah at 9-11-2012 10:29 AM (11 years ago) (f) How to manage the tummy after birth to avoid big-belle.
hmm...... so that is a problem?  | Posted: at 9-11-2012 10:29 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "sophiebaby") sophiebaby at 9-11-2012 10:53 AM (11 years ago) (f) How to manage the tummy after birth to avoid big-belle.
dis na serious issue
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* | Posted: at 9-11-2012 10:53 AM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "aso4life1") aso4life1 at 9-11-2012 01:52 PM (11 years ago) (m) How to manage the tummy after birth to avoid big-belle.
Good
if u attack my papa house, I'll retaliate but if you are peace loving,I will embrace you | Posted: at 9-11-2012 01:52 PM (11 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "maryclaret") maryclaret at 9-11-2012 03:32 PM (11 years ago) (f) How to manage the tummy after birth to avoid big-belle.
LOL...
Ada Mbaise | Posted: at 9-11-2012 03:32 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Hmmmmm! | Posted: at 9-11-2012 04:38 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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Deciding to start a family is not like it used to be.
Once upon a time it was marry young, immediately start family, wife stays home raising, baking, and cleaning while husband is working to feed the family, now things have changed. Times are much more complicated these days with both parents working and sharing household duties, most of us have established careers or are on a certain path and birth control is the norm (or must). Making that step from just the two of you to family is huge with important issues to discuss and agree upon before trying to make that leap.
Here are 7 issues to discuss with your partner before ditching the birth control:
1.) Difficulty Conceiving
What if you and your partner are ready and wanting a baby, but you aren't able to get pregnant? The two of you need to figure out what steps you are each willing to take in order to become parents - fertility treatment, adoption, surrogacy - and agree on them.
I wont discuss dis untill it happens...hate negativ thinkin
2.) Birth
Perhaps you are fantasizing about an all natural, in home birth that might completely freak your partner out or vice versa. Who do you want to be there when the baby is born? I'm a big believer in the person delivering the baby should decide how she wants to deliver and who she wants in the room, but it's only fair to discuss your wishes beforehand so you can be on the same page.
Dis can b discussed when pregnant
3.) How Many Kids
Seems so simple, What if you always dreamed of having 3 kids and your partner never wants more than one? Not so simple anymore, so have this talk.
For dis one ur very right
4.) Dividing Parental Duties
This might seem like a no brainer, you are picturing your partner giving bottles and changing diapers. That picture is in your head, unless you discuss, as in say it out loud, your partner will never know. It's also not reasonable for one parent to do it all, even if the mom is off on maternity leave and exclusively Bosom feeding. There are still diapers to be changed, laundry to wash and baby to bath and all those other household responsibilities. Discussing who can do what, even making a chart will help with resentment later on (and there will be resentment if one person is doing nearly all the work!)
If u have a good resposible man, there is no need to discuss this sef
5) Gender Preference
Are you willing to raise a girl if all you ever wanted was a boy? You don't really get to choose what sex your baby will be so make sure you and the partner will love and adore whatever the two of you create.
Its not like u can choose
6.) Support System
Who will be there to help after the baby is born? Do you have family living close or coming to visit? Do you both really want a house guest for the first month (or two, gasp!) of your new life as a family?
Hmmm yeah this is a point, tho i did everytin by mysef
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![-]( "dickman2") dickman2 at 10-11-2012 07:28 AM (11 years ago) (m) | Posted: at 10-11-2012 07:28 AM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "Cindy8") Cindy8 at 10-11-2012 01:46 PM (11 years ago) (f) humm 50 all these u wrote are true but it dosen´t work 4 every couple especialy i africa,the uneducated,uninformed.1st a woman is looked upon to concive as the others expect in adoption is not a option in 9ja (2nd wife is)
2: in naija the woma enter the delivery room alone as the man is not allowed in.
3.the man has the altimmate say how many kids he wants.
4.ask a man in alaba to change his childs pampers n he will ask u what u are doing in his house.he tinks its 4 woman or mother in law
5.an avarage african man tinks the woman is responsible 4 the baby sex,except the educated ones some times complain when only girls are bein born
6.mother in law is always expected(OMUGWO)
[/quote u making sense | Posted: at 10-11-2012 01:46 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "dickman2") dickman2 at 10-11-2012 07:20 PM (11 years ago) (m) | Posted: at 10-11-2012 07:20 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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RELATIONSHIP & ROMANCE FORUM; MINISTER FOR WOMEN AFFAIRS WELCOMES YOU  | Posted: at 13-11-2012 10:58 AM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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