"I had a mother-in-law who didn’t like where I come from. She didn't like the fact that her son didn't marry a lady from their village. She made me go through hell. At a point when I couldn't take it any more, I left the marriage".
So you wouldn’t blame those ladies who wish their mother-in-laws were dead before they got married? I swear I wouldn’t blame them. If I think back to what I went through, I wouldn’t pray for anyone to go through such because I went through hell in the hands of that woman. And for me to have woken up one day and decided to leave, it wasn’t easy because I was young and tried my best to please her. But she wasn’t pleased. I went out of my way to learn their language, learn how to cook different dishes just to please her but she didn’t bulge.
So what did your ex-husband do about it? At first, he actually fought it but some women have a strong hold on their sons. In the end, he obeyed her. He didn’t like it that I was leaving but he couldn’t hold me back at the same time because he wanted to please his mum. We had fought the battle for a long time and it wasn’t as if it would come to an end, I had to leave.
Do you guys agree with her?
Posted: at 1-12-2012 11:31 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Yes oh! Some mother in laws are from hell! But I don't subscribe to the fact that all mothers in law must die,some are just terrible abeg! Mercy make sure your current marriage works, ur ex husband must marry him mama!
If you face me, I go face you and if you do me, I go do you back! Nobody go vex!
Posted: at 1-12-2012 02:02 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Yes oh! Some mother in laws are from hell! But I don't subscribe to the fact that all mothers in law must die,some are just terrible abeg! Mercy make sure your current marriage works, ur ex husband must marry him mama!
#Gbam
Posted: at 1-12-2012 02:11 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
dabattleaxe at 1-12-2012 03:11 PM (12 years ago) (m)
If we agree with her? Wouldn't know for sure what she went through, I wasn't there but I wouldn't want anyone to wish my mum dead 'cos she'll turn out to be a mother in-law someday. It's good she left and still living than for her to stay in marriage and go 6 feet under later. Life has to go on and I don't subscribe to domestic violence either.
Posted: at 1-12-2012 03:11 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
FinlandGuy at 1-12-2012 03:58 PM (12 years ago) (m)
If women dey lie you go know easily. I do not think that her mother in law will hate her because of where she came From,that is just pure lie.There is a lot about this failed marriage she is not telling us.Mother in-laws only capitalize on the character of their son's wife,they never like ladies who turn the heart of their son out from them and divert it to her own mother and family.They never like ladies who make their son spend exorbitantly,women that lives luxury if you can keep away from all these,you will be in a cordial relationship with your mother in-law.
This lady is not saying the truth yet,it is either her character is bad or there are some personal problems btw her and her husband.I know that No mother in law will crash her son's marriage just because of Geographical biography of the wife.No No No....
Posted: at 1-12-2012 03:58 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
wishn ur mum inlaw dead is wat i dnt suport...... bc one day u will turn 2 be one....... nd secondly wat u suposn to be prayn 4 is 2 enter a family dey will luv nd cherish u
Posted: at 1-12-2012 05:18 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
realbaby2 at 1-12-2012 06:13 PM (12 years ago) (f)
So many mothers don't like there Son or there Daughter to marry from where they don't like. Her mother in-law may hate her because she did not come from there place.
Posted: at 1-12-2012 06:13 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
suspark18 at 1-12-2012 07:47 PM (12 years ago) (f)
SHOULD I PRAY THAT YOU WILL BE DEAD BY THE TIME YOUR SON IS ABOUT TO GET MARRIED. YOU LADY SOMETIME ARE FOOL AND DID NOT WANT TO GO THROUGH ANY STRESS AT ALL IN YOUR MATRIMONIAL HOME. WHAT A BAD MOTHER LIKE YOU SAYING THAT YOU PRAY THAT ANOTHER MOTHER SHOULD BE DEAD BEFORE LADIES ARE MARRIED.
Posted: at 1-12-2012 07:47 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie