As u've read from some contributors, It never worked; loving out of pity, I dont say u shd work out of d relationship but I advise u follow ur heart. Baby gal u know what u want, I think u shd go for that that u wish for urself. Posted: at 1-05-2009 07:02 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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olaslamz at 1-05-2009 07:56 AM (14 years ago) (m) 7 years no be play...by now you should know what to do....there is no point beating about the bush....this guy no love you believe me... Posted: at 1-05-2009 07:56 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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adeidowu at 1-05-2009 11:08 AM (14 years ago) (m) wait 4 anoda 7yrs if that's what will open ur eyes.ur story is too long,u dey d news? that y u dey long things.maybe e tay b4 u gree 4 d guy sef.wise up Posted: at 1-05-2009 11:08 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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crowz at 2-05-2009 03:32 AM (14 years ago) (m) LOOOL you been there for 7 freaking years u and still not sure?? Posted: at 2-05-2009 03:32 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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Toks-E at 2-05-2009 04:40 AM (14 years ago) (m) i will like you public to tell me what i can do, i am in a relationship of 7years now,but i never found anything in the relationship to proof to myself if the guy truly loves me or not. he has so mush gone into my head that i got confused to know the right step to take over it.he has never spare any of his important time with me neither to call me when i like, when ever he comes to see me,that means he was so bored ,so to wipe away his boring time,he comes to me . when he calls me with happy mind that means he is in need of help.to cut my story short,before i left nigeria he took me to his family as a little introduction.the first three month i came newly to europe, he change to good and caring to me and my family ,he calls me time to time and send me a romantic messages in which he has never did before. i asked him his suddenly change ,he said that; yes indeed he will never hurt me .but now that things did not go well with me as we both planed, he hardly call me,when i call him,he gives me an excuse of driving. if i call him in the morning ,he gives me an excuse of net work problem.if i see him on internet is either he log off or he remain silent to all me messages.if i keep buzzing him on internet ,he log off. but this is not his first time or second time he has been doing this to me.it is getting often and often and he never think he his hurting me but by the time he will come back ,he comes with many excuses with proof to me that he never leave me neither has he stop to care about me.but nigeria circumstance that causes his distance.is getting to mush of him,i have many chances to get marry to some men that comes to seek my hand in marriage but he never let me go ,he keep begging me not to hurt him by leaving him to another man.his parent and some of his family keep calling my number to let me know that i am wife to there son.my own family also loves him.i am confused either to endure and continue with him or to go on with my life.i have told him many times of what i like in a man and what i don't like ,he promised but he never keep to any of the promise.all what he do is to come with millions of apology.
when love hurts all the tyme, its betta u quit
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its your choice, you have to make your decision yourself, don't let anyone force you into a loveless marriage, think about what you want without considering your family and make your choice but i don't think he loves you Posted: at 2-05-2009 11:13 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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mazi at 2-05-2009 11:17 AM (14 years ago) (m) i will like you public to tell me what i can do, i am in a relationship of 7years now,but i never found anything in the relationship to proof to myself if the guy truly loves me or not. he has so mush gone into my head that i got confused to know the right step to take over it.he has never spare any of his important time with me neither to call me when i like, when ever he comes to see me,that means he was so bored ,so to wipe away his boring time,he comes to me . when he calls me with happy mind that means he is in need of help.to cut my story short,before i left nigeria he took me to his family as a little introduction.the first three month i came newly to europe, he change to good and caring to me and my family ,he calls me time to time and send me a romantic messages in which he has never did before. i asked him his suddenly change ,he said that; yes indeed he will never hurt me .but now that things did not go well with me as we both planed, he hardly call me,when i call him,he gives me an excuse of driving. if i call him in the morning ,he gives me an excuse of net work problem.if i see him on internet is either he log off or he remain silent to all me messages.if i keep buzzing him on internet ,he log off. but this is not his first time or second time he has been doing this to me.it is getting often and often and he never think he his hurting me but by the time he will come back ,he comes with many excuses with proof to me that he never leave me neither has he stop to care about me.but nigeria circumstance that causes his distance.is getting to mush of him,i have many chances to get marry to some men that comes to seek my hand in marriage but he never let me go ,he keep begging me not to hurt him by leaving him to another man.his parent and some of his family keep calling my number to let me know that i am wife to there son.my own family also loves him.i am confused either to endure and continue with him or to go on with my life.i have told him many times of what i like in a man and what i don't like ,he promised but he never keep to any of the promise.all what he do is to come with millions of apology.
u r d highest nd biggest MUMU of all time... Posted: at 2-05-2009 11:17 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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SAmyrocko at 2-05-2009 11:21 AM (14 years ago) (m) hmmm.
Life is one big road with lots of signs, so when you are riding through th Posted: at 2-05-2009 11:21 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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mazi at 2-05-2009 11:28 AM (14 years ago) (m) u wan join am? Posted: at 2-05-2009 11:28 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Girl, frm what u've said, I dont think ur guy actually loves u. Better reconsider before jumping in marriage cos it is for better, and for worse. Again to be in a relationship for 7yrs without any seroius sign of settling down with u is somthing that that should give u a cause to worry. It is too long a time. Make a decision abt ur life fast b4 it is too late God guild you. Posted: at 2-05-2009 11:34 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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SAmyrocko at 2-05-2009 11:34 AM (14 years ago) (m) u wan join am?
Tufiakwa!!!
Life is one big road with lots of signs, so when you are riding through th Posted: at 2-05-2009 11:34 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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mazi at 2-05-2009 11:40 AM (14 years ago) (m) u wan join am?
Tufiakwa!!! of course not....abi u wan dey for r/s 4 seven yrs.....not knowing ur left 4rm right... Posted: at 2-05-2009 11:40 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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mazi at 2-05-2009 11:43 AM (14 years ago) (m)
Tufiakwa!!! [/quote] wat does dat mean [/quote] samy over to u Posted: at 2-05-2009 11:43 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Gaboski at 2-05-2009 06:58 PM (14 years ago) (m) I have a seriuse relationship with someone, she chetted on me and i love her so much that i even ask her to come back, i am ready to forgive her no matter what, she dosin't even fill bad about what she did to me, i am still the one begging her to come back, please what will i do. someone should give me advice. Posted: at 2-05-2009 06:58 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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jooy at 3-05-2009 08:11 PM (14 years ago) (f) my sister na ur english dey drive the brossssssssssssss................ Posted: at 3-05-2009 08:11 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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talking from a very personal experience, you really do need to move on. i know its easier said and really hard to do, but darling you need to realise a love relationship is meant to be 2 way. u need God on this one and then stop thnkn bout reasons why you dont wanna leave, instead thnk bout reasons why u need to leave and how unfair he's bn towards you. it really does work. HE DOES NOT LOVE YOU.or atleast he does not realise that he does because youve not let him see that you are way better without him.. always keep this in mind when you love a man too much they become unattracted to you. leave him, channel all that energy of loving him on summin else, my best advice is spend it getting closer to God and allow him to take control of your hurting. I KNOW ITS NOT EASY.. but u have to make it easy by stop making ursef believe u cant live without him. allow yoursef the space to see if this guy even cares enuff to notice you are no more in his life. if you wanna ask for more advice please email me. may God give you the strength to accept what cannot be changed. Posted: at 4-05-2009 10:41 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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SAmyrocko at 4-05-2009 10:50 AM (14 years ago) (m) u wan join am?
Tufiakwa!!! of course not....abi u wan dey for r/s 4 seven yrs.....not knowing ur left 4rm right... Mbanu! i can't now.
Life is one big road with lots of signs, so when you are riding through th Posted: at 4-05-2009 10:50 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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kemi2008 at 4-05-2009 05:04 PM (14 years ago) (f) Well bein in a 7yrs relationship is somehow cracy cos d guy u were into d same relationship never taught of gettin marry 4 1day don't b surprise deirs someone who is aborin him away 4rm u latter u ll her that he has finally settled now u ll begin to say u were bein jint why u ur self caused 90% of d problem. Sorry to say its better 4 u 2 quit now or u go to ur spiritual father in ur worshippin center so dat he can councel you. To b4 warn is b4 harm. Good day. Posted: at 4-05-2009 05:04 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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tonywest at 4-05-2009 07:24 PM (14 years ago) (m) go and become a sister in the roman catholic!!!! Posted: at 4-05-2009 07:24 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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pry abou it ...... Posted: at 5-05-2009 04:18 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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