i need your opinion,because i don't know what to do. (Page 7)

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Posted: at 7-09-2013 12:39 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Hello! psychologist,counselors,advisers have said it all,but mine will go different direction. What is even happening in relationship these days. Is that people are no longer in-tune with the ethics of this world. Men and women of today I ask whatz the problem with us...is it hardship or pursuit of money. there is no more love from both side. A man just want to marry and settle down like others. a woman wanted a man to call her own. whatz going on? anyway please don't listen to advice when it comes to issues like this, else you will end up blaming someone...there are aspect of your story which we are not seeing and we will never know except you. Therefore it is 'you' that knows where and how and what connected both of you, so go back to where you started...or maybe they are right because you were able to make it to Europe he is now more keen about you,maybe not. I ask you on you own do you really love him...if not,look another side,that is if you have any good reason for not loving him.Because if you love him it will be easier for you to bear,like someone rightly say..."don't marry out of pity" it doesn't end well. A woman I was living with inside house though not married to her, I bought my first car in her name open phone business for her...while in my house was telling someone else " if I dump my guy I will come" this a message in her phone which she sent and forget to delete it. Am not use to checking her phone,like she does to mine...but we had a quarrel that period so I sensed something wen she left to take her bath I accessed her phone and saw the massage but I didn't say anything it was another day when we are good mood that I ask her. since then our condition worsened.
what pple experience in relationship is terrible if they don't love themselves. or if one is at the receiving end. it is easier if you are the one who love.

Posted: at 14-09-2013 09:54 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie