Women who had beef with other women all in the name of Love must realize that certain things are really unnecessary like fighting with other women over a man is one of them. If you have to fight over him, then he isn’t really yours.
Tolerate or turn a blind-eye to cheating
Have you ever reflected on a situation from the past and wanted to kick yourself for being so foolish? That’s how I feel whenever I reminisce on the times where evidence that my man was cheating was staring me in my face, yet for one reason or another I chose to ignore it or allowed him to somehow talk me out of using the common sense that God gave me. The foolishly in love woman is a role that I refuse to assume anymore.
Accepting those “gray area” relationships
Some women have found themselves in the awkward fog of being in a “gray area” relationship twice of their life. A relationship where they never quite sure where they stand with a man because he has failed at making his intentions known to them. It is a relationship where you do couple things; however, no commitment has been made and conversations regarding commitment and titles are generally avoided. In most cases, a guy who places you in the gray area is playing games, doesn’t know what he wants or is simply not that into you. Therefore, he allows you to be his pretend girlfriend until he finds something better. The woman who settles for this type of relationships rarely ever wins.
Lose myself in a relationship
Some women barely recognized their-self after she got into a relationship because sometimes they got lost in them. They completely submerge into the guy that they were seeing and his interests and of course, the girl they used to be prior to entering into the relationship would be lost in the abyss.
Settle for a man who’s only half-interested
There’s a huge difference between a man who likes you a lot and a man who only likes you enough. Every woman deserves to be with a man who sincerely desires to be with her. You must learned the hard way that it pays to give your heart to the man who celebrates you, not the one who merely tolerates you.
Apologize for being the woman God created me to be
Guys can make woman frustrated sometimes If he wasn’t telling you that you are too emotional, then he will tell you that you are too nice. If he wasn’t telling you that you are too shy, then he will tell you that you talk too much. There’s nothing wrong with accepting constructive criticism from your significant other, but when they’re asking you to completely change who you are, something is wrong. I’m glad I learned that there is no future in a relationship with a person who doesn’t allow you to be yourself.
Lay down with a man who isn’t my husband
This one was a personal decision that may not apply to everyone. Getting laid with a man who isn't your husband should not be.
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