Nigerian men love beating their women. True or false?

Date: 12-01-2013 5:00 pm (11 years ago) | Author: modupe afolabi
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- at 12-01-2013 05:00 PM (11 years ago)
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A friend of mine recently got beaten black and blue by her boyfriend after going through her phone. he beat her to the point of stupor. i also remember how my brother used to beat me up while we were growing up. Please tell me how he's not going to beat up his wife after marriage. This is becoming a norm with our men. They start from childhood by beating their sisters, cousins, nieces and other female members of their household. Then they grow into adulthood and descend on their wives and girlfriends. I'm hoping this post would help in showing them our grievances and hopefully they will stop this bad habit. If our mothers had cautioned them and taught them never to lay a hand on a female, then maybe they won't grow up to become wife beaters. Some men don't see anything wrong in this barbaric act, but it is wrong. African men should learn restraint and not always be quick to beat up their women.





I urge all women on Naijapals to vote on this topic so our men can realize their folly and hopefully stop beating their women.


Posted: at 12-01-2013 05:00 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
- HOPEA23 at 12-01-2013 06:00 PM (11 years ago)
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U are right poster but not all nigerian men..some are very aggressive any little thing they beat up their woman...I think those one grew up from an aggressive family,..they learned it from their father...not only in Nigeria this does happens..it all over the world..

Posted: at 12-01-2013 06:00 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- winace at 12-01-2013 06:09 PM (11 years ago)
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Hmmmmmmm some are, not all of them
Posted: at 12-01-2013 06:09 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- micc at 12-01-2013 06:28 PM (11 years ago)
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Sorry if your husband is beating u too ok
Posted: at 12-01-2013 06:28 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- Rihannaaa at 12-01-2013 06:39 PM (11 years ago)
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Sorry, but am not yet married  Undecided

Posted: at 12-01-2013 06:39 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Noble12 at 12-01-2013 07:44 PM (11 years ago)
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Ok
Posted: at 12-01-2013 07:44 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ezchusa at 12-01-2013 08:07 PM (11 years ago)
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Lolz, una never see anything

Posted: at 12-01-2013 08:07 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- evaworld at 12-01-2013 08:15 PM (11 years ago)
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Well I think its a "like father like son" problem abi?
Posted: at 12-01-2013 08:15 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- ZION7ZION at 12-01-2013 08:15 PM (11 years ago)
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@ Poster, That your boy friend, man friend, sugar daddy beats you doesn't not mean all Naija guys beats women, silly gal Angry Angry Angry
Posted: at 12-01-2013 08:15 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- trapheal at 12-01-2013 08:20 PM (11 years ago)
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Some their wives too have mouth na.. But I not seen shall #TooMuch9jaFilms
Posted: at 12-01-2013 08:20 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- dickman2 at 12-01-2013 09:10 PM (11 years ago)
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thank God i never beat woman for my life..postor u lie ..look for nice guys like me ..na my mouth i dey take beat her
Posted: at 12-01-2013 09:10 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- dickman2 at 12-01-2013 09:12 PM (11 years ago)
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thank God i never beat woman for my life..postor u lie ..look for nice guys like me ..na my mouth i dey take beat her..trust me ..my  mouth pass slap...
Posted: at 12-01-2013 09:12 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sirenoch at 12-01-2013 09:40 PM (11 years ago)
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Non sense! Se na every man go resemble your useless boy friend or man friend or husband?

Posted: at 12-01-2013 09:40 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- osarobo62 at 12-01-2013 09:48 PM (11 years ago)
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people who beat up others see it as a form of power and control.
if you as a girl or woman beat up your younger siblings and feel okay about it.
then expect your boyfriend or husband to beat you often and feel okay about it.
we copy a lot from our elders and parents(father or mother)their advice have less impact on us than their actions.
Most times, our parents beat us for flimsy reasons and also domestic violence cut across all nations and race
Posted: at 12-01-2013 09:48 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- rich_ekpo at 12-01-2013 10:32 PM (11 years ago)
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as long as u r nt able to behave urselfs and control ur greeds,those coconuts u call heads must b broken one afta d other.ashawo
Posted: at 12-01-2013 10:32 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- zoe61 at 12-01-2013 10:34 PM (11 years ago)
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Lol Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked
Posted: at 12-01-2013 10:34 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- luwanga at 12-01-2013 11:20 PM (11 years ago)
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IT'S BECAUSE OF YOUR OVERZEALOUSNESS AND TOO MUCH GREED
Posted: at 12-01-2013 11:20 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- arsenal123 at 13-01-2013 12:20 AM (11 years ago)
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But some women mouth na poison ooo..
Posted: at 13-01-2013 12:20 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Ifemylove at 13-01-2013 12:51 AM (11 years ago)
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False
Posted: at 13-01-2013 12:51 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Solidstonez at 13-01-2013 01:04 AM (11 years ago)
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NOT ALL

Posted: at 13-01-2013 01:04 AM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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