A friend of mine recently got beaten black and blue by her boyfriend after going through her phone. he beat her to the point of stupor. i also remember how my brother used to beat me up while we were growing up. Please tell me how he's not going to beat up his wife after marriage. This is becoming a norm with our men. They start from childhood by beating their sisters, cousins, nieces and other female members of their household. Then they grow into adulthood and descend on their wives and girlfriends. I'm hoping this post would help in showing them our grievances and hopefully they will stop this bad habit. If our mothers had cautioned them and taught them never to lay a hand on a female, then maybe they won't grow up to become wife beaters. Some men don't see anything wrong in this barbaric act, but it is wrong. African men should learn restraint and not always be quick to beat up their women.
I urge all women on Naijapals to vote on this topic so our men can realize their folly and hopefully stop beating their women.
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Posted: at 12-01-2013 05:00 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
U are right poster but not all nigerian men..some are very aggressive any little thing they beat up their woman...I think those one grew up from an aggressive family,..they learned it from their father...not only in Nigeria this does happens..it all over the world..
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Posted: at 12-01-2013 06:00 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
dickman2 at 12-01-2013 09:12 PM (12 years ago) (m)
thank God i never beat woman for my life..postor u lie ..look for nice guys like me ..na my mouth i dey take beat her..trust me ..my mouth pass slap...
Posted: at 12-01-2013 09:12 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
osarobo62 at 12-01-2013 09:48 PM (12 years ago) (m)
people who beat up others see it as a form of power and control. if you as a girl or woman beat up your younger siblings and feel okay about it. then expect your boyfriend or husband to beat you often and feel okay about it. we copy a lot from our elders and parents(father or mother)their advice have less impact on us than their actions. Most times, our parents beat us for flimsy reasons and also domestic violence cut across all nations and race
Posted: at 12-01-2013 09:48 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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