![-]( "myragonza") myragonza at 30-04-2009 10:06 AM (15 years ago)  (f) myragonza is d name, next person pls 
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![-]( "angelfelix") angelfelix at 30-04-2009 12:17 PM (15 years ago) (f) i don't agree dat women should retain their surname after marriage cos it 's mean dat they are still married to their families. In most cases dis days in Nigeria is dat most married women retain their surnames and use it in various offices, if ask them, all they say is dat their surname have 2 remain in case of necessity.  | Posted: at 30-04-2009 12:17 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "cupidcutie") cupidcutie at 30-04-2009 01:55 PM (15 years ago) (m) retain or no retain all that really matters is the love and a long lasting relationship! and as long as the children bears thier fathers name...no wahala!!! | Posted: at 30-04-2009 01:55 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "Akpan01") Akpan01 at 30-04-2009 02:00 PM (15 years ago) (f) SHE HAS TO TAKE THE HOUSBAND NAME NORMALL...
"THE WICKED MAN FLEES THOUGHT NO ONE PURSUES, BUT THE RIGHTEOUD ARE AS BOLD AS A LION" | Posted: at 30-04-2009 02:00 PM (15 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "zino_fb") zino_fb at 30-04-2009 08:33 PM (15 years ago) (m) Well "NAME"...thats strange......It might interest you to know that it depends on so many things. I have gone through what must of you said here, some said it doesn't really mean anything if she keep her father's name of take the surname of her husband. Let me start by saying this, for instance...a guy called Tom is about to get married to a get called Cynthia......na the man they bring all the cash ohhh, na the man dey ask for wife oohhh but when the wedding card it out bodly written it is always "CYNTHIA weds TOM".....that one dey. Lets go to the Genesis of a man and woman coming together...Adam only said this is the bone of my bone and the flesh of my flesh....he did not say this is "Mrs. Eve Adam"....that was then In this generation (African Tradi)...if a woman is living with her husband and still bears the name of her biological father it is like disrespect to her husband, secondly....now when husband hard to see (No disrespect to women)...they want to answer the name of a man to show they are married.... So depends on where you are from............how you see it.............what it means to you................ I nor dey find woman.......I they find money because when peper don rest.........women go find my name..............I nor need to tell them...........Even if the name of my papa na "CRAZE" them go still find the name because peper rest..........na make I dey advice all men.....try hustle make you make am because na the peper whe nyou get they give you name................ Poverty is a curse of the law for violating the law....as you read this and believe in yourself that you can make it is life...then you make step into the light and that light will work for you and give you a NAME, PLACE AND VOICE...........ONE LOVE | Posted: at 30-04-2009 08:33 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "diplomatik") diplomatik at 1-05-2009 05:48 AM (15 years ago) (f) It is not right for a lady to retain her father's name (even as middle name) after getting married. She should take the new name from her man --- except theres a very logical reason for keeping the name
POSTER....MY REASON IS......DE DAMN NAME TOO LONG...E NO GO FIT ON MY DRIVERS LICENSE..... 
u've seen me right? i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either  , i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool  | Posted: at 1-05-2009 05:48 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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It is not right for a lady to retain her father's name (even as middle name) after getting married. She should take the new name from her man --- except theres a very logical reason for keeping the name
POSTER....MY REASON IS......DE DAMN NAME TOO LONG...E NO GO FIT ON MY DRIVERS LICENSE..... lmfbaoooooooooooooooooooooo!!!
<a href=" http://tinypic.com" target="_blank"><img src=" http://i41.tinypic.com/2ezmli0.jpg" border="0" alt="Image and video hosting by TinyPic">[/url]STILL A CERTIFIED V-SQUADER!! Take it or leave it!   A wise man told me don't argue with fools,Cause people from a distance, can't see who is who | Posted: at 1-05-2009 06:21 AM (15 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "SAmyrocko") SAmyrocko at 1-05-2009 08:00 AM (15 years ago) (m) She most bear my name. thats the right thing!
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Life is one big road with lots of signs, so when you are riding through th | Posted: at 1-05-2009 08:00 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "flakkypat") flakkypat at 1-05-2009 03:30 PM (15 years ago) (f) yes is good,u can add it as d third name | Posted: at 1-05-2009 03:30 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "mubaji") mubaji at 1-05-2009 06:36 PM (15 years ago) (m) @ posterlike i said b4...i don'tagree...well it can be something d couple have to decide...what's bad if i add my middle name wait a minute....If a man truly becomes one' with his woman through marriage why does she have to take his name? What stops them from combining names? instead of one taking up d other's name? Does a woman's roots have to be buried under d dotted lines? Some women choose to have one uniform name because of conditioning and culture, which has over time tied d woman's identity to d man's name..... As a result of this societal norm... stupid laws have been put in place that does not recognize a wife's right to her name. If we are to go with d argument of keeping to what d law says then why change over from a name that has been on BIRTH CERTIFICATES, HOSPITAL RECORDS, PASSPORTS, DRIVER'S LICENSES and other very defining legal documents to a completely different name after many years of her life? How many names and identities does a woman have to take and drop in HER life time? Or does she keep adding a new name to the last one each time she remarrys? or lets assume u get married and u have only gurls...no boy to carry ur name along... will u allow ur surname to die like that? i rest my case with a question you talked sense my dear, i dont buy the idea of changing a woman's name beacuse i count that as a disregard and disrespect to her root who did all they could to make her who she is. it's senseless to me but it is the norm in nigeria. | Posted: at 1-05-2009 06:36 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Dguy") Dguy at 1-05-2009 07:47 PM (15 years ago) (m) It is not right for a lady to retain her father's name (even as middle name) after getting married. She should take the new name from her man --- except theres a very logical reason for keeping the name
POSTER....MY REASON IS......DE DAMN NAME TOO LONG...E NO GO FIT ON MY DRIVERS LICENSE..... You can choose between driving and marriage.
please do not distract and keep discussions along line of topic - make proper use of capit | Posted: at 1-05-2009 07:47 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Pires07") Pires07 at 1-05-2009 07:58 PM (15 years ago) (m) It is not right for a lady to retain her father's name (even as middle name) after getting married. She should take the new name from her man --- except theres a very logical reason for keeping the name
well here in Africa, our culture dnt usually permit that. once d woman is married to Mr. bola, she automatically becomes Mrs. bola.
...everywhere i go they keep saying i'm Unique, well that's because my swag defines me. | Posted: at 1-05-2009 07:58 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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It is not right for a lady to retain her father's name (even as middle name) after getting married. She should take the new name from her man --- except theres a very logical reason for keeping the name
well here in Africa, our culture dnt usually permit that. once d woman is married to Mr. bola, she automatically becomes Mrs. bola. hmm what would be one of the logical reason for keepin the name? | Posted: at 1-05-2009 08:01 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "diplomatik") diplomatik at 1-05-2009 08:06 PM (15 years ago) (f) It is not right for a lady to retain her father's name (even as middle name) after getting married. She should take the new name from her man --- except theres a very logical reason for keeping the name
POSTER....MY REASON IS......DE DAMN NAME TOO LONG...E NO GO FIT ON MY DRIVERS LICENSE..... You can choose between driving and marriage. SAM...LOL...I MUST DRIVE OO.MY HUSBAND NO DEY CARRY ME ANYWHERE....SO HE GO AGREE FOR ME TO CARRY MY FATHERS NAME ...LOL
u've seen me right? i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either , i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool | Posted: at 1-05-2009 08:06 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "Pires07") Pires07 at 1-05-2009 08:14 PM (15 years ago) (m) It is not right for a lady to retain her father's name (even as middle name) after getting married. She should take the new name from her man --- except theres a very logical reason for keeping the name
well here in Africa, our culture dnt usually permit that. once d woman is married to Mr. bola, she automatically becomes Mrs. bola. hmm what would be one of the logical reason for keepin the name? basically ther cud be no logical reasons but we Africans believes dat once a lady is married 2 a man, she shud be addressed by d husband's name nd not her father's.
...everywhere i go they keep saying i'm Unique, well that's because my swag defines me. | Posted: at 1-05-2009 08:14 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Pires07") Pires07 at 1-05-2009 08:20 PM (15 years ago) (m) It is not right for a lady to retain her father's name (even as middle name) after getting married. She should take the new name from her man --- except theres a very logical reason for keeping the name
well here in Africa, our culture dnt usually permit that. once d woman is married to Mr. bola, she automatically becomes Mrs. bola. hmm what would be one of the logical reason for keepin the name? basically ther cud be no logical reasons but we Africans believes dat once a lady is married 2 a man, she shud be addressed by d husband's name nd not her father's. YES OOOO PIRES U TALK WELL BUT I NOR GREE why? u sure knw i cant address u wif ur dad's name in public, when u re married. wont u feel somehow?
...everywhere i go they keep saying i'm Unique, well that's because my swag defines me. | Posted: at 1-05-2009 08:20 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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It is not right for a lady to retain her father's name (even as middle name) after getting married. She should take the new name from her man --- except theres a very logical reason for keeping the name
well here in Africa, our culture dnt usually permit that. once d woman is married to Mr. bola, she automatically becomes Mrs. bola. hmm what would be one of the logical reason for keepin the name? basically ther cud be no logical reasons but we Africans believes dat once a lady is married 2 a man, she shud be addressed by d husband's name nd not her father's. i would lyk to keep ma name | Posted: at 1-05-2009 08:22 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "Pires07") Pires07 at 1-05-2009 08:27 PM (15 years ago) (m) It is not right for a lady to retain her father's name (even as middle name) after getting married. She should take the new name from her man --- except theres a very logical reason for keeping the name
well here in Africa, our culture dnt usually permit that. once d woman is married to Mr. bola, she automatically becomes Mrs. bola. hmm what would be one of the logical reason for keepin the name? basically ther cud be no logical reasons but we Africans believes dat once a lady is married 2 a man, she shud be addressed by d husband's name nd not her father's. i would lyk to keep ma name pray u dnt get married 2 sum1 lyk me. It is not right for a lady to retain her father's name (even as middle name) after getting married. She should take the new name from her man --- except theres a very logical reason for keeping the name
well here in Africa, our culture dnt usually permit that. once d woman is married to Mr. bola, she automatically becomes Mrs. bola. hmm what would be one of the logical reason for keepin the name? basically ther cud be no logical reasons but we Africans believes dat once a lady is married 2 a man, she shud be addressed by d husband's name nd not her father's. i would lyk to keep ma name TI MO BA GBA UR FACE U WILL KNOW WATS UP WITH U U ARE KEEPING MA BROTHER NAME OOOOOO
...everywhere i go they keep saying i'm Unique, well that's because my swag defines me. | Posted: at 1-05-2009 08:27 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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It is not right for a lady to retain her father's name (even as middle name) after getting married. She should take the new name from her man --- except theres a very logical reason for keeping the name
well here in Africa, our culture dnt usually permit that. once d woman is married to Mr. bola, she automatically becomes Mrs. bola. hmm what would be one of the logical reason for keepin the name? basically ther cud be no logical reasons but we Africans believes dat once a lady is married 2 a man, she shud be addressed by d husband's name nd not her father's. i would lyk to keep ma name pray u dnt get married 2 sum1 lyk me. It is not right for a lady to retain her father's name (even as middle name) after getting married. She should take the new name from her man --- except theres a very logical reason for keeping the name
well here in Africa, our culture dnt usually permit that. once d woman is married to Mr. bola, she automatically becomes Mrs. bola. hmm what would be one of the logical reason for keepin the name? basically ther cud be no logical reasons but we Africans believes dat once a lady is married 2 a man, she shud be addressed by d husband's name nd not her father's. i would lyk to keep ma name TI MO BA GBA UR FACE U WILL KNOW WATS UP WITH U U ARE KEEPING MA BROTHER NAME OOOOOO odana wa gba face me then cos i lyk ma surname lol i can add it tho lol | Posted: at 1-05-2009 08:29 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie | |
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It is not right for a lady to retain her father's name (even as middle name) after getting married. She should take the new name from her man --- except theres a very logical reason for keeping the name
well here in Africa, our culture dnt usually permit that. once d woman is married to Mr. bola, she automatically becomes Mrs. bola. hmm what would be one of the logical reason for keepin the name? basically ther cud be no logical reasons but we Africans believes dat once a lady is married 2 a man, she shud be addressed by d husband's name nd not her father's. i would lyk to keep ma name TI MO BA GBA UR FACE U WILL KNOW WATS UP WITH U U ARE KEEPING MA BROTHER NAME OOOOOO odana wa gba face me then cos i lyk ma surname lol i can add it tho lol [/quote] MA WORI I TRUST UR MAMA AND PAPA [/quote] lol wat do u mean? | Posted: at 1-05-2009 08:34 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie | |
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