A lady just stormed to my office crying that her fiance refused to marry her because he realized she is an Osu.
What kinda selfish and stupid man is this? You cohabited with a lady for 5 years. You had sex with her for 5 good years. Fortunately she is from the same local government with you and you know much about her. It is time for marriage. She gave you all she had, plus her whole love. You have realized she is Osu. All the time you made love to her, was she not an Osu? If you can have her for 5 years, why would you not be courageous to marry her now?
Why are most Men this Heartless?
Your Candid advice will do her Lots of Good..
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 12-03-2013 10:51 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
the guy is definitly heartless as he already knew she is an "osu" and promised her marriage--the lady again should have known beta snice an "osu" marries an "osu",she should have known beta,especially in igboland they don´t inter marry and when a non-osu marries an "osu" he automatically becums 1 so dose his children-----the lady knowing her conditions should have defined the relationship..........and should have know dat no guy will want to choose a lady above his family-------maybe the guy must have been battling his family all these years but all to no avail--so i blame both parties-----lady wipe ur tears it´s not the end of the world-----ur own is cuming.gudluck
Posted: at 12-03-2013 11:01 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
How can u live and have s3x with a lady for five yrs.. and refuse to marry her cos shes an osu... damn.. thats mean na
yes is mean sophie but the lady 4 shine her eyes---person no dey see gutter fall inside no mata how much he loves u-----wait until his mother threatens to die if he marries her then u see the magic happen be4 her eyes---common ladies should get wiser
Posted: at 12-03-2013 11:04 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
sophiebaby at 12-03-2013 11:13 AM (12 years ago) (f)
Quote from: ela214 on 12-03-2013 11:01 AM
the guy is definitly heartless as he already knew she is an "osu" and promised her marriage--the lady again should have known beta snice an "osu" marries an "osu",she should have known beta,especially in igboland they don´t inter marry and when a non-osu marries an "osu" he automatically becums 1 so dose his children-----the lady knowing her conditions should have defined the relationship..........and should have know dat no guy will want to choose a lady above his family-------maybe the guy must have been battling his family all these years but all to no avail--so i blame both parties-----lady wipe ur tears it´s not the end of the world-----ur own is cuming.gudluck
You mean her own osu is comming? Just saying
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 12-03-2013 11:13 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
sophiebaby at 12-03-2013 11:14 AM (12 years ago) (f)
Quote from: ela214 on 12-03-2013 11:04 AM
yes is mean sophie but the lady 4 shine her eyes---person no dey see gutter fall inside no mata how much he loves u-----wait until his mother threatens to die if he marries her then u see the magic happen be4 her eyes---common ladies should get wiser
his mom threaten to die if he marries her? does it happen? Strange!!!
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 12-03-2013 11:14 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
well sophie it migth be so or it migth be from another tribe or from sum other tribe in igbo land rthat dose´nt practice dat----- she afford to be married to sum1 that will costantly torment her---just saying
Posted: at 12-03-2013 11:16 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
his mom threaten to die if he marries her? does it happen? Strange!!!
of course----maybe u don´t know this but once he marries her he automatically becum an "osu" and will have noting to do with his brother and sisters,parents and relatives---so no mother wants dat--so they use all means neccesary---and trust mothers they act drama mosttimes to drive thier points home
Posted: at 12-03-2013 11:18 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
sophiebaby at 12-03-2013 11:27 AM (12 years ago) (f)
Quote from: ela214 on 12-03-2013 11:18 AM
of course----maybe u don´t know this but once he marries her he automatically becum an "osu" and will have noting to do with his brother and sisters,parents and relatives---so no mother wants dat--so they use all means neccesary---and trust mothers they act drama mosttimes to drive thier points home
strange indeed! am stunned thou.. Unbelievable...even in this day and age?
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 12-03-2013 11:27 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
sophiebaby at 12-03-2013 11:36 AM (12 years ago) (f)
Quote from: Gbengasax2 on 12-03-2013 11:32 AM
What is wrong with being OSU or may I rather ask what is the meaning of OSU u are talking about hereÉ
An OSU" i believe is someone who's excluded,expelled.. or rather rejected by a group, society, or community..for either , maybe violating its rules or customs.. Just saying..cos am not an Igbo
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 12-03-2013 11:36 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
That is one of the problems with co-habitation before marriage. Are we still talking about "Osu" at this Jet age? Christianity must hv wiped away such nonsense talk na. That guy don see another 'mugu' that is spending money on him.
There is law of karma ooo make una remember. I rest my case.
Posted: at 12-03-2013 11:42 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
FinlandGuy at 12-03-2013 12:11 PM (12 years ago) (m)
in a relationship,sex is not a big deal if u like have it for 4000yrs it is nothing after all,both of dem enjoyed it and satisfied each other.I African women always think that they have done a big thing to a man when dey have sex with him that is why their national Anthem comes in " After all i have Done You " As for this issue,both of dem knows what is their problem,at this jet age,there is nothing like Osu again,it is thing of past.
Posted: at 12-03-2013 12:11 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
FinlandGuy at 12-03-2013 12:15 PM (12 years ago) (m)
in a relationship,sex is not a big deal if u like have it for 4000yrs it is nothing after all,both of dem enjoyed it and satisfied each other. African women always think that ,they have done a big thing to a man when dey sex with him and that is where their national Anthem comes in " After all i have Done You " As for this issue,both of dem knows what is their problem,at this jet age,there is nothing like Osu again,it is thing of the past.
Posted: at 12-03-2013 12:15 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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