Can You Suddenly Stop Loving Someone?

Date: 17-04-2013 9:52 am (12 years ago) | Author: Idbabe
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- at 17-04-2013 09:52 AM (12 years ago)
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When I say suddenly, I mean out of nowhere, just like that, without any reason or explanations everything you've ever felt is gone. I was madly in love with this girl for a year and nine months.

In fact I was planning to propose to her on our second year anniversary when all of a sudden I woke up and all my feelings for her was gone. She didn't do or say anything wrong.

Nothing about her changed. Nothing about me changed. We didn't even have an argument. One minute we were talking about going on a vacation together and the next minute I stop picking her calls and started avoiding her.

It's been four months now since my feelings for her changed and I still can't make sense of it. She wants answers, she wants to know what she did wrong, why I all of a sudden ended things with her.

She thinks I met someone else but I didn't. I just stopped loving her and didn't want her anymore.

What happened to me? How can I find my way back to her?

Posted: at 17-04-2013 09:52 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
- angeamobi at 17-04-2013 10:10 AM (12 years ago)
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U are not a human being or u got possessed. Simple
Posted: at 17-04-2013 10:10 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- jossy4reall at 17-04-2013 10:32 AM (12 years ago)
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if u can suddenly start loving someone then u can  suddenly stop loving someone as well.......dat is suddenly love

Posted: at 17-04-2013 10:32 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- Idbabe at 17-04-2013 10:35 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: jossy4reall on 17-04-2013 10:32 AM
if u can suddenly start loving someone then u can  suddenly stop loving someone as well.......dat is suddenly love

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Posted: at 17-04-2013 10:35 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- katdeluna2 at 17-04-2013 12:01 PM (12 years ago)
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Nope....! There is smthng wrng somewhere. Even if u will stp lvng her it might be because she did or said smthng wrng. I tink u need prayers cus it seems juju is at wrk
Posted: at 17-04-2013 12:01 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- sophiebaby at 17-04-2013 12:06 PM (12 years ago)
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LOVE doesn't start in the morning and end in the evening. It starts when you don't need it and sometimes ends when you need it the most. the choice is yours.. Do what ur hrt wishes

Posted: at 17-04-2013 12:06 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- paulohking at 17-04-2013 12:16 PM (12 years ago)
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Posted: at 17-04-2013 12:16 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- Sophyrocks at 17-04-2013 12:19 PM (12 years ago)
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Infatuatn was d cause. It also cud be dat ure nt an emotionally mature man. U depend only on d passion n fire dat usualy comes in d begining. Once dat passion fades off, u wil claim nt to luv anymore. Wat u nid to do is to try n undastnd wat real luv means n wat it takes to remain in luv wit ur partner. Cos we hav couples who stil say hw much dey luv each oda even afta so many yrs. So work on urself n grow up emotionaly. U hav wrong view of luv. Luv isnt jst abt passion.

Posted: at 17-04-2013 12:19 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- chicco77 at 17-04-2013 12:21 PM (12 years ago)
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Posted: at 17-04-2013 12:21 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- tanglefree at 17-04-2013 12:31 PM (12 years ago)
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You never Loved her!
Posted: at 17-04-2013 12:31 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Weleze at 17-04-2013 12:32 PM (12 years ago)
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@Sophyrocks i think u're right i also experiences the same i find it difficult to say wat really happened. Thanks for your advice.  
Posted: at 17-04-2013 12:32 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- crusifixo at 17-04-2013 12:59 PM (12 years ago)
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change is constant, change of direction, change of love , change of personality e.t.c.....
Posted: at 17-04-2013 12:59 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Idbabe at 17-04-2013 01:01 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: katdeluna2 on 17-04-2013 12:01 PM
Nope....! There is smthng wrng somewhere. Even if u will stp lvng her it might be because she did or said smthng wrng. I tink u need prayers cus it seems juju is at wrk

Yeah, i sensed that too.  Spiritual!  Some ppl are not just happy that you are happy so they can go length to bring you down.  God have mercy
Posted: at 17-04-2013 01:01 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- micc at 17-04-2013 01:05 PM (12 years ago)
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U be fool please go to hell with your fake love . Ode
Posted: at 17-04-2013 01:05 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- Jaylen at 17-04-2013 02:03 PM (12 years ago)
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The only constant thing in life is change, don't be surprise dude..
Posted: at 17-04-2013 02:03 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- proly at 17-04-2013 02:44 PM (12 years ago)
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Sumtn iS wrong sumwhere
Posted: at 17-04-2013 02:44 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- dickman2 at 17-04-2013 03:18 PM (12 years ago)
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Posted: at 17-04-2013 03:18 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Biafranwar at 17-04-2013 03:59 PM (12 years ago)
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Capital YES
Posted: at 17-04-2013 03:59 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- bestbuky at 17-04-2013 04:25 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: tanglefree on 17-04-2013 12:31 PM
You never Loved her!

gbam
Posted: at 17-04-2013 04:25 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sandra78 at 17-04-2013 04:38 PM (12 years ago)
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My man, u do join deeperlife church ?   Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
Posted: at 17-04-2013 04:38 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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