What Do I Do About My Girl Friend Mother's Constantly Asking Me For Money?

Date: 27-04-2013 9:31 am (11 years ago) | Author: udemen great
- at 27-04-2013 09:31 AM (11 years ago)
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I and my girl friend has been dating for over 16months now, we both loves our self’s, but the way her mother is constantly asking me for money is making me angry. not just me alone, she also ask her daughter the same way. i have told my girl about it and she went to confront her mother never to do that again in a polite manner. but still the mother won't stop asking me for me and i don't know how to tell her I don't have money to give her. i really don't know if she is doing it because she knows  i truly love her daughter. we both re par-time student and we re doing a little pay job to assist our self in school. am 25yrs and she is 22yrs old. my girl friend mother attitude is causing problem to my relationship with her daughter. this all thing is making me to think always. am now regretting that i wish i know the first time she ask me for money i wouldn't have giving it to her or i should have just told her i don't have money. since then almost twice every month she will always ask for money. please i need advice on what to do. some times i feel like ending the relationship i have with her daughter. but still is difficult to do because I love my girl very well. please i need a candid advice.please. sorry for some errors in my writing.

Posted: at 27-04-2013 09:31 AM (11 years ago) | Newbie
- ela214 at 27-04-2013 09:44 AM (11 years ago)
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i think only  her daugther can caution her ----because her daugther knows her better ,------and again Money is not the prove of your love for her daugther..........
but if she is "uncautionable"---then u know it´s 1 of those tins dat cums with love.------wheneva u are going there just have sum Change ,1 day when u give her 20N she will learn to respect
herself
Posted: at 27-04-2013 09:44 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- leeramene at 27-04-2013 09:48 AM (11 years ago)
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Just twice everymonth is wats making u cnsider to end d relationship if u don't have money to give then stay single or marry an orphan
Posted: at 27-04-2013 09:48 AM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- jossy4reall at 27-04-2013 10:10 AM (11 years ago)
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Poster it begins wit u.......start from next time she ask u 4 moni....just tell her politely dat u dont have moni dis time....u can further tell her dat if have u wuld have given her....but u really dont have dis time.

Posted: at 27-04-2013 10:10 AM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- jossy4reall at 27-04-2013 10:14 AM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: leeramene on 27-04-2013 09:48 AM
Just twice everymonth is wats making u cnsider to end d relationship if u don't have money to give then stay single or marry an orphan

I hope if he choose to stay single or marry an orphan as u suggested to him........den u can provide who will marry his gal or give her rich boyfriend to marry her... probably u can share ur boyfriend/husband wit her

Posted: at 27-04-2013 10:14 AM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- chiglamour4u at 27-04-2013 12:39 PM (11 years ago)
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women and money......poster u cant end ur relationship just bcos ur gf mum is too demanding, dnt be scared to tell her u dnt hv money wen ever she ask let her understand u earn less and also a student and if she insist u stop visiting her home only visit wen u feel u hv money to give .... but i wonda wat will happen if u finally marries her daughter u go open account for her noni.
Posted: at 27-04-2013 12:39 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- dareper at 2-09-2015 10:49 PM (8 years ago)
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U don become their moneybag
Posted: at 2-09-2015 10:49 PM (8 years ago) | Hero
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- lexydon at 3-09-2015 12:19 AM (8 years ago)
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wen next she ask...... let her know U dont hv
Posted: at 3-09-2015 12:19 AM (8 years ago) | Upcoming
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- dickieponga at 3-09-2015 12:22 AM (8 years ago)
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Keep saying 'NO' until she gets it thru her head, tho she nos dat u have but keep saying no...
Posted: at 3-09-2015 12:22 AM (8 years ago) | Hero
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