I longed to reach over and draw my wife Diana to my side, but something stopped me. I felt frozen to the spot, my stomach in knots and my heart pounding.
The problem? We hadn’t had sex for more than a year and the longer we left it, the higher the hurdle became.
Traumatised: Writer Martin Daubney with his wife Diana and his son Sonny at home in London
What’s worse, we were both too uptight to talk about it. So, night after night, we lay in silence, our bodies not even touching spammers.com noted
For ten years, our sex life had been great. But then Diana gave birth to our son, Sonny, and things ground to a halt.
You might think loss of libido after having a baby is far from unusual, to be expected even; most women understandably focus their energies on their newborn, too tired to think of anything else.
But the lack of intimacy in our decade-long marriage was down to me, not Diana.
And the reason? Witnessing Sonny’s birth had turned me off sex altogether.
At the time, I felt ashamed, bewildered, as if — ironically — becoming a father had made me less of a man.
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