How right/wrong is kissing a girl on a first date

Date: 12-07-2009 4:18 pm (15 years ago) | Author: Michael
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- at 12-07-2009 04:18 PM (15 years ago)
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How right is kissing a girl on a first date and how wrong is it? that is, if it is wrong.

Posted: at 12-07-2009 04:18 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
- PreetyInstinct at 12-07-2009 04:23 PM (15 years ago)
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IDK And IDC

Posted: at 12-07-2009 04:23 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- erikaakpan at 12-07-2009 04:23 PM (15 years ago)
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kissing on the first date.........hmmmm

its ok. as long as it aint tongue. i mean i barley kno the guy and he tryin to stick his tongue in my mouth. small kiss on the mouth is ok........

Posted: at 12-07-2009 04:23 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mazi at 12-07-2009 04:50 PM (15 years ago)
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dont know....actually never kissed
Posted: at 12-07-2009 04:50 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- pepigambit at 12-07-2009 05:09 PM (15 years ago)
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could spoil d mood wen d time is rite..as in it wont b new again wich will b like boring
Posted: at 12-07-2009 05:09 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onchedu at 12-07-2009 05:56 PM (15 years ago)
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I guess that depends on what U want from the girl and what she wants from U in the short, mid and long term(if any).

If the chemistry is right and she invites u for one, U could choose to go for it or tell her U'd rather not and setle for a peck to her cheek. If Ur smooth enough, she would want to see u again. U can plant a longer kiss then... and when U feel ok with it, kiss her.

the trick is Ur keeping her focused on U and mesmerised by acting different from other guys and yet being cooler than the rest. Plus U give her curiousity time to stir her desire and hunger to know what it'l feel like to be kissed by U. While Ur playing this out, puleasee by all means make sure she's really loving spending time with U and building her comfort level being around U.
Posted: at 12-07-2009 05:56 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- onchedu at 12-07-2009 06:01 PM (15 years ago)
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that's probably do it anyway... esp if its with a girl I'm looking to be with for a long time. That kissing on the first date just has a way of changing priorities in the ensuing relationship... Sex usually aint too far from a well executed kiss. Myt not be that day but soon enough... esp when she's not a virgin.
Posted: at 12-07-2009 06:01 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- vivian07 at 12-07-2009 06:03 PM (15 years ago)
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ewo !
Posted: at 12-07-2009 06:03 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- onchedu at 12-07-2009 06:04 PM (15 years ago)
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Wetin?
Posted: at 12-07-2009 06:04 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- pepigambit at 12-07-2009 06:08 PM (15 years ago)
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e wetin?
Posted: at 12-07-2009 06:08 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- kutieme at 12-07-2009 07:11 PM (15 years ago)
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to me its sooooooooo wrong,and kills d impression i ave abt d guy.
Posted: at 12-07-2009 07:11 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- around_d_corner at 12-07-2009 07:21 PM (15 years ago)
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wouldn't make more sense.plz....
Posted: at 12-07-2009 07:21 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- nkwa2000 at 12-07-2009 07:34 PM (15 years ago)
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i think that  a peck on the cheek is ok
Posted: at 12-07-2009 07:34 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- blackberryPearl at 12-07-2009 08:25 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: onchedu on 12-07-2009 06:01 PM
that's probably do it anyway... esp if its with a girl I'm looking to be with for a long time. That kissing on the first date just has a way of changing priorities in the ensuing relationship... Sex usually aint too far from a well executed kiss. Myt not be that day but soon enough... esp when she's not a virgin.
one question, how can a well educated kiss lead to the whole sex thing?
and where is this date by the way?
no insults, just wanna know Grin Grin
Posted: at 12-07-2009 08:25 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- onchedu at 12-07-2009 08:31 PM (15 years ago)
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BB, what are U insinuating? That I'm prone to insulting you?

It's well EXECUTED kiss. Not well educated kiss... (what's that sef?)

Does it matter where it takes place? As long as it's something she loved, she'l very probably want more of it whether or not she wants to date U "or yes." And as most of us know, na from clap dem dey take enter dance. the more melodious the clap, the quicker the dancing begins.
Posted: at 12-07-2009 08:31 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- blackberryPearl at 12-07-2009 08:34 PM (15 years ago)
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i never really knew that u over exaggerated things more than usual.
ur a smart guy, i have to say, but sometimes, u over state ur smartness
Posted: at 12-07-2009 08:34 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- onchedu at 12-07-2009 08:38 PM (15 years ago)
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That's Ur opinion! Thank U!
Posted: at 12-07-2009 08:38 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- blackberryPearl at 12-07-2009 08:41 PM (15 years ago)
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we all see it here.
and don't flatter urself
Posted: at 12-07-2009 08:41 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- onchedu at 12-07-2009 08:49 PM (15 years ago)
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U and who are we? and what exactly is Ur business what I do with myself.

U should stop concerning Urself with me as much as Ur growing to do. It's not healthy for U. Trust me on that.

I think U like my attention. Perhaps I should deprive U of it a little?
Posted: at 12-07-2009 08:49 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- blackberryPearl at 12-07-2009 08:50 PM (15 years ago)
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Posted: at 12-07-2009 08:50 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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