would u stay in marriage becos of ur children? (Page 2)

Date: 05-08-2009 4:47 pm (15 years ago) | Author: Tammy Wobo
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- vivian07 at 6-08-2009 03:22 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: erikaakpan on  6-08-2009 03:06 PM
Quote from: vivian07 on  6-08-2009 02:50 PM
amicable divorce ?  Undecided....

vivian...wat u make ur face like that for?
didn't get u.....is there some thing like that ?
Posted: at 6-08-2009 03:22 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- melody7 at 6-08-2009 03:23 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: SAmyrocko on  6-08-2009 03:16 PM
Quote from: melody7 on  6-08-2009 03:12 PM
Quote from: SAmyrocko on  6-08-2009 02:59 PM
@ Vivian, Hahahahahaha, LWKMD!!!


Well, @ poster thats why lts lmportant to marry whom you love, and equally whom you are compatible with. lt matters alot ln every marriage.


ofcourse. but then most marriages dat broke up was built on love too. so u can never be too sure?


maybe they were not meant to be. Undecided Undecided

  ok.
Posted: at 6-08-2009 03:23 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- erikaakpan at 6-08-2009 03:28 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: vivian07 on  6-08-2009 03:22 PM
Quote from: erikaakpan on  6-08-2009 03:06 PM
Quote from: vivian07 on  6-08-2009 02:50 PM
amicable divorce ?  Undecided....

vivian...wat u make ur face like that for?
didn't get u.....is there some thing like that ?

oh what I mean is peaceful. It's not the act of divorcing that's the problem, but simply the way that parents handle it. If they both stayed involved with their children and minimized conflict, the kids would be fine.
Posted: at 6-08-2009 03:28 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- vivian07 at 6-08-2009 03:37 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: erikaakpan on  6-08-2009 03:28 PM
Quote from: vivian07 on  6-08-2009 03:22 PM
Quote from: erikaakpan on  6-08-2009 03:06 PM
Quote from: vivian07 on  6-08-2009 02:50 PM
amicable divorce ?  Undecided....

vivian...wat u make ur face like that for?
didn't get u.....is there some thing like that ?

oh what I mean is peaceful. It's not the act of divorcing that's the problem, but simply the way that parents handle it. If they both stayed involved with their children and minimized conflict, the kids would be fine.
aight....
Posted: at 6-08-2009 03:37 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- SAmyrocko at 7-08-2009 08:21 AM (15 years ago)
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It's quite Complicating. Some spouse(s) stay especially the women, due to the unconditional love they have for their kid (s). For that reason they can't abandon their kids and walk away from the marriage.
Posted: at 7-08-2009 08:21 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Olimpia at 7-08-2009 03:01 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: melody7 on  5-08-2009 04:47 PM
people go into marriage with d hope of staying till death do dem part. but right now most marriages disintegrate right after d honeymoon.some women stay due to fear of d unknown if they move out, some becos of der children. wat wil u do?

I would never stay in d marriage cuz of children cuz it wouldnt be good for them. Living in such a fake family. And wouldnt be good for me, ma health.
Posted: at 7-08-2009 03:01 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- onchedu at 7-08-2009 03:14 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: melody7 on  5-08-2009 04:47 PM
people go into marriage with d hope of staying till death do dem part. but right now most marriages disintegrate right after d honeymoon.some women stay due to fear of d unknown if they move out, some becos of der children. wat wil u do?

Its a really really really shi**y thing when a marriage fails. Worse still when there are kids involved that were born of the marriage.

Let me give an analogy... just an analogy. By some interpretations, two becoming one flesh could translate to the kid(s) being the one flesh made from two. When the two are puled apart, its where the bond is that it hurts the most. try gumming two pieces of wood together with Aradite. When they are firmly in place, rip em apart. U'l notice where the scars are left are where the joined.

For goodness sake have mercy on Ur kids and use Ur head when getting married as much as U use Ur heart. and instead of going with the trend, realise that Ur life is gone so far and the litle one's lives and how well they eventually turn out greatly depends on the examples U leave them.

Relationships myt be made and broken but a marriage was never designed to be broken.

I dey come first.
Posted: at 7-08-2009 03:14 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- Resi at 7-08-2009 03:46 PM (15 years ago)
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Marriage was not met to be broken,but when it becomes a burden and uncomfortable, I guess the best option is to walk out of that marriage. Even with kids, proper arrangement can be made for the kids...
In everything I do my health and happiness count a lot to me.
Posted: at 7-08-2009 03:46 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- digitalman at 7-08-2009 03:51 PM (15 years ago)
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una well done
Posted: at 7-08-2009 03:51 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- diplomatik at 7-08-2009 03:54 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: onchedu on  7-08-2009 03:14 PM
Quote from: melody7 on  5-08-2009 04:47 PM
people go into marriage with d hope of staying till death do dem part. but right now most marriages disintegrate right after d honeymoon.some women stay due to fear of d unknown if they move out, some becos of der children. wat wil u do?

Its a really really really shi**y thing when a marriage fails. Worse still when there are kids involved that were born of the marriage.

Let me give an analogy... just an analogy. By some interpretations, two becoming one flesh could translate to the kid(s) being the one flesh made from two. When the two are puled apart, its where the bond is that it hurts the most. try gumming two pieces of wood together with Aradite. When they are firmly in place, rip em apart. U'l notice where the scars are left are where the joined.

For goodness sake have mercy on Ur kids and use Ur head when getting married as much as U use Ur heart. and instead of going with the trend, realise that Ur life is gone so far and the litle one's lives and how well they eventually turn out greatly depends on the examples U leave them.

Relationships myt be made and broken but a marriage was never designed to be broken.

I dey come first.

i concur... Cool Cool
Posted: at 7-08-2009 03:54 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- onchedu at 7-08-2009 07:01 PM (15 years ago)
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Cool Cool
Posted: at 7-08-2009 07:01 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- melody7 at 10-08-2009 10:03 AM (15 years ago)
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women have a major role to play in a home. growing children need the careful training of a mother. the absence of one can lead the kids to fall into mischief. its a mother dat wil teach the kids to eat,bath,learn to wash and so on. so before thinking of divorce lets still consider d kids.
Posted: at 10-08-2009 10:03 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- SAmyrocko at 10-08-2009 10:20 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: digitalman on  7-08-2009 03:51 PM
una well done

Bros how far ?
Posted: at 10-08-2009 10:20 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- myragonza at 11-08-2009 08:54 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: melody7 on  6-08-2009 09:51 AM
Quote from: myragonza on  6-08-2009 09:18 AM
Quote from: melody7 on  5-08-2009 04:47 PM
people go into marriage with d hope of staying till death do dem part. but right now most marriages disintegrate right after d honeymoon.some women stay due to fear of d unknown if they move out, some becos of der children. wat wil u do?

well.....we can only say when it happens to us...we can't predict for now
                                                                                                                                                               
ok.

whats ur own opinion...?
Posted: at 11-08-2009 08:54 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- herdeysohjy at 11-08-2009 02:28 PM (15 years ago)
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may be
Posted: at 11-08-2009 02:28 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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