'I read blog comments and it depresses me" Halima Abubakar says

The actress admitted in a new interview with The Netng that she reads stories about herself on blogs and the comments make her sad and depresses her.

That’s like physical bullying. Online, they are invisible. I believe if you have a problem with me, you should approach me. But if you go online and comment as anonymous or use a strange name, you are still bringing yourself down. Yes, you would make me feel sad, but the damage will not be permanent, but temporary until I am strong enough not to read those comments again. I am going to say it that I am not one of those actresses that say they don’t read blogs. I do. I have been reading blogs for the past five years or so, but I have never commented. Sometimes I am pushed to insult everybody there and comment under anonymous. But then I tell myself, well, they would always remain anonymous while I stay relevant. And so, I bear most of the insults and try not to be bothered about them. It was not easy. I was depressed for a long time because of things like that. I just felt that people didn’t like me. I didn’t understand how people could still hate me even when I know I am one of the nicest people in Nollywood. Continue...
I am not disrespecting anybody, I am just saying that even if someone has hurt me several times, I will still be nice to the person. People just go ahead and bash me for no reasons. They don’t even know me and they are saying this and that. Before, I will cry and cry and get depressed. But now, I don’t even bother myself anymore. They don’t know what I’m going through and they don’t know my story.

Which of the stories would you say hurt you the most?
Amongst the many, there was one referring to people who patronize a particular hotel on the island with a politician, and my name was the headline of the publication. If you are saying you saw Halima, then you should have proof. I have never visited that hotel called Four Points. I had my premiere at Oriental Hotel. If I wanted to use Four Points I would have. I hate it when the media knowingly writes things that are not true. They know they are lying but they still go ahead to write because of the pull down syndrome. If you are friends of these selected people, they can make their own people hate you. Before you know it, the person will be writing nonsense and gossiping about you. Love is not like that. Just because you don’t love me shouldn’t be an excuse to attack me. You don’t know the things that I go through everyday. I don’t know everybody’s problems but I know mine. So, it is unfair that they will take whatever frustration out on other people for no reason.CLICK HERE TO READ MORE=www.elvis.blogspot.com

Posted: at 20-01-2014 01:30 PM (10 years ago) | Newbie

Dat is it my sis wen u ar rich, day will always talk about u so dat luk wat day say  

Posted: at 20-01-2014 03:23 PM (10 years ago) | Newbie

you need to grow-up, a celebrity must be talked about....good or bad

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Posted: at 20-01-2014 03:40 PM (10 years ago) | Hero

That's the cost of fame..

Posted: at 20-01-2014 04:58 PM (10 years ago) | Hero

Halima, you need to grow up. People will always say shit about you no matter how good you try to be. You need to spend time thinking of your next move in life rather than reading stupid comments from jobless negative people who can't stand the fact that their own
lifes sucks. You can't change people.

Posted: at 20-01-2014 05:33 PM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac

let me use this opportunity to say big thanks to naijapals/gistmania for lift my banned, next time you what to do that try to inform me or you guys will see the other side of me, once more I apologize for breaking your rules if there is any. but you guys can not stop me to say my mind.
Halima Abubakar or what you call your self? how you feel or what people talk about you is not my business, i don't care and will not care, did you know how the Igbo's feel or what they pass through when you open your dirty mouth and said that they are the one killing
Nollywood? you bring this upon your self with your careless word, and that is just the begging. when a woman wakes up early before her husband, her husband's enemies will seize her.

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Posted: at 20-01-2014 06:38 PM (10 years ago) | Newbie

D storÝ too long na jt for depression?

Posted: at 20-01-2014 06:54 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero

u will be ban again now

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Posted: at 20-01-2014 07:48 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero