how long

Date: 10-08-2009 3:03 pm (14 years ago) | Author: Sleek
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- at 10-08-2009 03:03 PM (14 years ago)
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how long do you think a courtship should last before poping d big QUESTION

Posted: at 10-08-2009 03:03 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
- onchedu at 10-08-2009 03:06 PM (14 years ago)
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2years. No more, no less. That's for me any way and I have strong reasons to back it up.
Posted: at 10-08-2009 03:06 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- onchedu at 10-08-2009 03:08 PM (14 years ago)
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A woman I respect says six months but she's on her own o. Can't stake the rest of my life and happiness on 6months of research considering my other duties.
Posted: at 10-08-2009 03:08 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- erikaakpan at 10-08-2009 03:09 PM (14 years ago)
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i wouldnt put a time limit on it....u should kno a person best when u see them at their downfall or whenever something goes on in their life and how the handle the situation....it says a lot about the person...

Posted: at 10-08-2009 03:09 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- diplomatik at 10-08-2009 03:10 PM (14 years ago)
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well...to me time does not matter...but to be sure....it needs time....2 years like onche has said sounds good to me as well..even more sef..to make sure the person is some what right for u.... Cheesy

Posted: at 10-08-2009 03:10 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- onchedu at 10-08-2009 03:11 PM (14 years ago)
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More will put U in trouble o.
Posted: at 10-08-2009 03:11 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- mazi at 10-08-2009 03:11 PM (14 years ago)
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no time limit.....anytime!
it doesnt solve nothing....ppl can court 5yrs nd divorce after 1 mnth of marriage!
Posted: at 10-08-2009 03:11 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- osituga at 10-08-2009 03:43 PM (14 years ago)
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A year is enuf jor
Posted: at 10-08-2009 03:43 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Beauti4 at 10-08-2009 03:44 PM (14 years ago)
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courtship as in wat Huh?
Posted: at 10-08-2009 03:44 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- mazi at 10-08-2009 03:49 PM (14 years ago)
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hmmmmmmm
Posted: at 10-08-2009 03:49 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Beauti4 at 10-08-2009 03:49 PM (14 years ago)
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is that my answer?
Posted: at 10-08-2009 03:49 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- erikaakpan at 10-08-2009 03:51 PM (14 years ago)
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well my understanding of courtship is a couple dates to get to know each other and decide if there will be an engagement

Posted: at 10-08-2009 03:51 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Beauti4 at 10-08-2009 03:58 PM (14 years ago)
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Erica preciate.
Posted: at 10-08-2009 03:58 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- mazi at 10-08-2009 03:58 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: erikaakpan on 10-08-2009 03:51 PM
well my understanding of courtship is a couple dates to get to know each other and decide if there will be an engagement
which is not a must....
Posted: at 10-08-2009 03:58 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- erikaakpan at 10-08-2009 04:03 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: mazi on 10-08-2009 03:58 PM
Quote from: erikaakpan on 10-08-2009 03:51 PM
well my understanding of courtship is a couple dates to get to know each other and decide if there will be an engagement
which is not a must....

i didnt say it was a must......

I believe u meet someone n u have 2 suss them out (determine if they are worth your time) during that time u may also happen 2 meet others - n want to spend some time with them as well to see if perhaps they r better suited 2 you as a partner. Dating is basically auditioning somebody to see if they're going to be in your life; to see there's going to be a relationship.

Posted: at 10-08-2009 04:03 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mazi at 10-08-2009 04:05 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: erikaakpan on 10-08-2009 04:03 PM
Quote from: mazi on 10-08-2009 03:58 PM
Quote from: erikaakpan on 10-08-2009 03:51 PM
well my understanding of courtship is a couple dates to get to know each other and decide if there will be an engagement
which is not a must....

i didnt say it was a must......

I believe u meet someone n u have 2 suss them out (determine if they are worth your time) during that time u may also happen 2 meet others - n want to spend some time with them as well to see if perhaps they r better suited 2 you as a partner. Dating is basically auditioning somebody to see if they're going to be in your life; to see there's going to be a relationship.
it took me only 1week to check u out....lol...if not dat i came a second late... Grin
Posted: at 10-08-2009 04:05 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- erikaakpan at 10-08-2009 04:07 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: mazi on 10-08-2009 04:05 PM
Quote from: erikaakpan on 10-08-2009 04:03 PM
Quote from: mazi on 10-08-2009 03:58 PM
Quote from: erikaakpan on 10-08-2009 03:51 PM
well my understanding of courtship is a couple dates to get to know each other and decide if there will be an engagement
which is not a must....

i didnt say it was a must......

I believe u meet someone n u have 2 suss them out (determine if they are worth your time) during that time u may also happen 2 meet others - n want to spend some time with them as well to see if perhaps they r better suited 2 you as a partner. Dating is basically auditioning somebody to see if they're going to be in your life; to see there's going to be a relationship.
it took me only 1week to check u out....lol...if not dat i came a second late... Grin

lol 1 week......ur not too late...yet

Posted: at 10-08-2009 04:07 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mazi at 10-08-2009 04:09 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: erikaakpan on 10-08-2009 04:07 PM
Quote from: mazi on 10-08-2009 04:05 PM
Quote from: erikaakpan on 10-08-2009 04:03 PM
Quote from: mazi on 10-08-2009 03:58 PM
Quote from: erikaakpan on 10-08-2009 03:51 PM
well my understanding of courtship is a couple dates to get to know each other and decide if there will be an engagement
which is not a must....

i didnt say it was a must......

I believe u meet someone n u have 2 suss them out (determine if they are worth your time) during that time u may also happen 2 meet others - n want to spend some time with them as well to see if perhaps they r better suited 2 you as a partner. Dating is basically auditioning somebody to see if they're going to be in your life; to see there's going to be a relationship.
it took me only 1week to check u out....lol...if not dat i came a second late... Grin

lol 1 week......ur not too late...yet
tell me abt it....
Posted: at 10-08-2009 04:09 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- erikaakpan at 10-08-2009 04:14 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: mazi on 10-08-2009 04:09 PM
Quote from: erikaakpan on 10-08-2009 04:07 PM
Quote from: mazi on 10-08-2009 04:05 PM
Quote from: erikaakpan on 10-08-2009 04:03 PM
Quote from: mazi on 10-08-2009 03:58 PM
Quote from: erikaakpan on 10-08-2009 03:51 PM
well my understanding of courtship is a couple dates to get to know each other and decide if there will be an engagement
which is not a must....

i didnt say it was a must......

I believe u meet someone n u have 2 suss them out (determine if they are worth your time) during that time u may also happen 2 meet others - n want to spend some time with them as well to see if perhaps they r better suited 2 you as a partner. Dating is basically auditioning somebody to see if they're going to be in your life; to see there's going to be a relationship.
it took me only 1week to check u out....lol...if not dat i came a second late... Grin

lol 1 week......ur not too late...yet
tell me abt it....

u tell me...it only took u one week to check me out

Posted: at 10-08-2009 04:14 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mazi at 10-08-2009 04:16 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: erikaakpan on 10-08-2009 04:14 PM
Quote from: mazi on 10-08-2009 04:09 PM
Quote from: erikaakpan on 10-08-2009 04:07 PM
Quote from: mazi on 10-08-2009 04:05 PM
Quote from: erikaakpan on 10-08-2009 04:03 PM
Quote from: mazi on 10-08-2009 03:58 PM
Quote from: erikaakpan on 10-08-2009 03:51 PM
well my understanding of courtship is a couple dates to get to know each other and decide if there will be an engagement
which is not a must....

i didnt say it was a must......

I believe u meet someone n u have 2 suss them out (determine if they are worth your time) during that time u may also happen 2 meet others - n want to spend some time with them as well to see if perhaps they r better suited 2 you as a partner. Dating is basically auditioning somebody to see if they're going to be in your life; to see there's going to be a relationship.
it took me only 1week to check u out....lol...if not dat i came a second late... Grin

lol 1 week......ur not too late...yet
tell me abt it....

u tell me...it only took u one week to check me out
i knew d basics of wot i was looking for....just d basics....
Posted: at 10-08-2009 04:16 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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