![-]( "Resi") Resi at 20-08-2009 11:25 AM (14 years ago)  (f) Are they really being stigmatised? Never heard of that ....
I Believe... True Friendship continues to grow... even over... the longest distance...( I need my son as much as I need my breath.) | Posted: at 20-08-2009 11:25 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "anonymous2") anonymous2 at 20-08-2009 11:26 AM (14 years ago) (f) U DONT NEED TO BE A SINGLE MOTHER TO FEEL THE SYTUATION...WE R ALL WOMEN WE FEEL THEM...IS NOT SURE CAUSE OF THEM FAULT DEY GET TO BE SINGLE..MAYBE DEM MAN LATE OR RUN WITH ANOTHER WOMAN...A LOT SYTUTION FEEL COS A MOTHER TO BE SINGLE...
ohhhhhhh u too make sense 
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![-]( "vivian07") vivian07 at 20-08-2009 11:28 AM (14 years ago) (f) Are they really being stigmatised? Never heard of that ....
aren't u in nigeria or better still a nigerian ? | Posted: at 20-08-2009 11:28 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "Akpan01") Akpan01 at 20-08-2009 11:29 AM (14 years ago) (f) U R TALKING.. men are always with plausible deniability when it comes to such issues. CAREFUL! Lips Sealed @ANONYMOUS2 U TOO THIS THE FIRST TOPIC SINCE, WHICH MAKE SENSE....
"THE WICKED MAN FLEES THOUGHT NO ONE PURSUES, BUT THE RIGHTEOUD ARE AS BOLD AS A LION" | Posted: at 20-08-2009 11:29 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "anonymous2") anonymous2 at 20-08-2009 11:31 AM (14 years ago) (f) Why are single mothers stigmatised in d society?i mean they say ....NEVER SAY NEVER.Most ladies dat say such can neva happen to them find themselves in dis kind of situation.Now d question is...why d rejection and scorn they face in d society? i think most teenage single mothers should be counselled instead of d stigmatisation.wats ur own view to this issue?
i quite agree with ur view, even when the ladies see other people's experience they still will not learn. so its better by experience. how did the baby come, from broken marriages or broken relationships, or just by the way. understand th general perception of the average nigerian, woman no husby is irresponsible not to talk her raising a child, where is the father?. ladies need to be careful how they thread their lives! yeah uve got a whole lot of poiint but shld d ladies b d only one to take d blame?i mean its kind of sickening thats wy they have 2 be careful. some men already aint ready to take responsibilty and thats why they bounce leaving the lady to take care of the baby and face the bull. men are always with plausible deniability when it comes to such issues. CAREFUL!  ure right .....im not saying they shldnt be careful........wat im saying is dat i dont c d reason for d stigmatization most of them face
Dnt like me? Have a sit with the rest of the bitches waitin for me to give a 4k | Posted: at 20-08-2009 11:31 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "anonymous2") anonymous2 at 20-08-2009 11:39 AM (14 years ago) (f) You one?
im not one....dont intend to be but i think i can feel their pain 1 way or d other u one or u know some 1 not just 1 ..i know about 3 to 4 there are those who decide not to marry but want to raise children. i met a lady who she have kids for 2 separate men and raised them herself. what can u say to that? those ones are totally different....im not referring to those dat makes such decision but to those dat find themselves in an unwanted situation
Dnt like me? Have a sit with the rest of the bitches waitin for me to give a 4k | Posted: at 20-08-2009 11:39 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Akpan01") Akpan01 at 20-08-2009 11:42 AM (14 years ago) (f) IN EUROPE ANY SYTUATION COS A WOMAN TO BE A SINGLE MOTHER THE PRESIDENT SUPPORT IT...WITH MONEY AND GOOD EDUCATION FOR THE KIDS FOR FREE.IT SUPPOST TO BE LIKE THIS IN THE WHOLE WORLD..CAUSE THE CHILD IS INOCENT HE OR SHE GET THE RIGHT FOR THE SAME HUMAN RIGHT AS THE ONE WHO GET FATHER AND MOTHER ALSO...AND LET US NOT FORGET THERE R SINGLE FATHERS ALSO
"THE WICKED MAN FLEES THOUGHT NO ONE PURSUES, BUT THE RIGHTEOUD ARE AS BOLD AS A LION" | Posted: at 20-08-2009 11:42 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "queenjacky") queenjacky at 20-08-2009 11:43 AM (14 years ago) (f) to be a single mother is very hard is no easy ooo they need alot of respect cause she have to think like a woman and i man now u will u ask why ok let me tell u like a example the man have leave the woman he dont even wanna care again for the child what is the woman going to do of what must she do she must look for money for they kid she must think if she can pays everything like rent or light water and all that and then she still have to give the kid the love she needs and shows the kid just the good side not the bad side this job to be mother is 24 ours job is not easy specialy if u r young | Posted: at 20-08-2009 11:43 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "pope12") pope12 at 20-08-2009 11:45 AM (14 years ago) (m) Why are single mothers stigmatised in d society?i mean they say ....NEVER SAY NEVER.Most ladies dat say such can neva happen to them find themselves in dis kind of situation.Now d question is...why d rejection and scorn they face in d society? i think most teenage single mothers should be counselled instead of d stigmatisation.wats ur own view to this issue?
i quite agree with ur view, even when the ladies see other people's experience they still will not learn. so its better by experience. how did the baby come, from broken marriages or broken relationships, or just by the way. understand th general perception of the average nigerian, woman no husby is irresponsible not to talk her raising a child, where is the father?. ladies need to be careful how they thread their lives! yeah uve got a whole lot of poiint but shld d ladies b d only one to take d blame?i mean its kind of sickening thats wy they have 2 be careful. some men already aint ready to take responsibilty and thats why they bounce leaving the lady to take care of the baby and face the bull. men are always with plausible deniability when it comes to such issues. CAREFUL! ure right .....im not saying they shldnt be careful........wat im saying is dat i dont c d reason for d stigmatization most of them face well i doff my hat for them, but the reason for the societal lookdown is just that the baby (children) in question were born out of wed lock. and that does not show responsibility, instead of aborting or dumping the child, the single mother (parent) decides to keep- the baby thats responsibility. 4naija that one na story | Posted: at 20-08-2009 11:45 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "Akpan01") Akpan01 at 20-08-2009 11:47 AM (14 years ago) (f) HMMMM
"THE WICKED MAN FLEES THOUGHT NO ONE PURSUES, BUT THE RIGHTEOUD ARE AS BOLD AS A LION" | Posted: at 20-08-2009 11:47 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "Resi") Resi at 20-08-2009 11:50 AM (14 years ago) (f) Are they really being stigmatised? Never heard of that ....
aren't u in nigeria or better still a nigerian ? ... If I ever find myself in such situation,I will never allow anyone intimidate me... neither will I allow the society belief of stigmatization towards a single mother bother me.... I just got to do my things...and ensure I give my chidren the very best so that they can stand their pairs.
I Believe... True Friendship continues to grow... even over... the longest distance...( I need my son as much as I need my breath.) | Posted: at 20-08-2009 11:50 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "anonymous2") anonymous2 at 20-08-2009 11:51 AM (14 years ago) (f) Are they really being stigmatised? Never heard of that ....
aren't u in nigeria or better still a nigerian ? LOL...URE funny 
Dnt like me? Have a sit with the rest of the bitches waitin for me to give a 4k | Posted: at 20-08-2009 11:51 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "macgreat") macgreat at 20-08-2009 11:53 AM (14 years ago) (m) You one?
im not one....dont intend to be but i think i can feel their pain 1 way or d other Are they in pain?  pain pple like u caused them ... caused?
My life is BEAUTIFUL! . . don't NEED attentions, Give 'em to those who really NEED 'em. . . No Time | Posted: at 20-08-2009 11:53 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "macgreat") macgreat at 20-08-2009 11:54 AM (14 years ago) (m) You one?
im not one....dont intend to be but i think i can feel their pain 1 way or d other Are they in pain? pain pple like u caused them SEE SMALL BOY TALKING...WHEN U GET PICKUN U GO KNOW WHATS UP One on the way.
My life is BEAUTIFUL! . . don't NEED attentions, Give 'em to those who really NEED 'em. . . No Time | Posted: at 20-08-2009 11:54 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "anonymous2") anonymous2 at 20-08-2009 11:55 AM (14 years ago) (f) Why are single mothers stigmatised in d society?i mean they say ....NEVER SAY NEVER.Most ladies dat say such can neva happen to them find themselves in dis kind of situation.Now d question is...why d rejection and scorn they face in d society? i think most teenage single mothers should be counselled instead of d stigmatisation.wats ur own view to this issue?
i quite agree with ur view, even when the ladies see other people's experience they still will not learn. so its better by experience. how did the baby come, from broken marriages or broken relationships, or just by the way. understand th general perception of the average nigerian, woman no husby is irresponsible not to talk her raising a child, where is the father?. ladies need to be careful how they thread their lives! yeah uve got a whole lot of poiint but shld d ladies b d only one to take d blame?i mean its kind of sickening thats wy they have 2 be careful. some men already aint ready to take responsibilty and thats why they bounce leaving the lady to take care of the baby and face the bull. men are always with plausible deniability when it comes to such issues. CAREFUL! ure right .....im not saying they shldnt be careful........wat im saying is dat i dont c d reason for d stigmatization most of them face well i doff my hat for them, but the reason for the societal lookdown is just that the baby (children) in question were born out of wed lock. and that does not show responsibility, instead of aborting or dumping the child, the single mother (parent) decides to keep- the baby thats responsibility. 4naija that one na story believe me......dats a wrong perception.........i dont think they shld be rejected or looked down upon
Dnt like me? Have a sit with the rest of the bitches waitin for me to give a 4k | Posted: at 20-08-2009 11:55 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "onchedu") onchedu at 20-08-2009 11:57 AM (14 years ago) (m) Hmmm... No be who carry belle outside marriage be bad girl, na the one wey born the pikin. At least that's how it plays off in the minds of the morraly unsound that encourage hiding wrongs instead of embracing responsibilities. Anyway, sh*t happens! No be only them dey get stigmatization. Guess its part of this life. | Posted: at 20-08-2009 11:57 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "Akpan01") Akpan01 at 20-08-2009 11:59 AM (14 years ago) (f) Hmmm... No be who carry belle outside marriage be bad girl, na the one wey born the pikin. At least that's how it plays off in the minds of the morraly unsound that encourage hiding wrongs instead of embracing responsibilities.
Anyway, sh*t happens! No be only them dey get stigmatization. Guess its part of this life.
R U SUPPORTING ABORT 
"THE WICKED MAN FLEES THOUGHT NO ONE PURSUES, BUT THE RIGHTEOUD ARE AS BOLD AS A LION" | Posted: at 20-08-2009 11:59 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "anonymous2") anonymous2 at 20-08-2009 11:59 AM (14 years ago) (f) to be a single mother is very hard is no easy ooo they need alot of respect cause she have to think like a woman and i man now u will u ask why ok let me tell u like a example the man have leave the woman he dont even wanna care again for the child what is the woman going to do of what must she do she must look for money for they kid she must think if she can pays everything like rent or light water and all that and then she still have to give the kid the love she needs and shows the kid just the good side not the bad side this job to be mother is 24 ours job is not easy specialy if u r young
uve made a lot of sense tooo.......there are so many sides to this issue......ranging from wen d child has to be taken care of........how hard it is for her to get a man that wld wanna stick to her and so many other issues like dat
Dnt like me? Have a sit with the rest of the bitches waitin for me to give a 4k | Posted: at 20-08-2009 11:59 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Akpan01") Akpan01 at 20-08-2009 12:00 PM (14 years ago) (f) You one?
im not one....dont intend to be but i think i can feel their pain 1 way or d other Are they in pain? pain pple like u caused them SEE SMALL BOY TALKING...WHEN U GET PICKUN U GO KNOW WHATS UP One on the way. CONGRAT
"THE WICKED MAN FLEES THOUGHT NO ONE PURSUES, BUT THE RIGHTEOUD ARE AS BOLD AS A LION" | Posted: at 20-08-2009 12:00 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "anonymous2") anonymous2 at 20-08-2009 12:02 PM (14 years ago) (f) Are they really being stigmatised? Never heard of that ....
aren't u in nigeria or better still a nigerian ? ... If I ever find myself in such situation,I will never allow anyone intimidate me... neither will I allow the society belief of stigmatization towards a single mother bother me.... I just got to do my things...and ensure I give my chidren the very best so that they can stand their pairs. 3 gbosa for u
Dnt like me? Have a sit with the rest of the bitches waitin for me to give a 4k | Posted: at 20-08-2009 12:02 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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